BHANU- WHY YOU DID THIS

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I can't understand this fact that bhanu if he was her lover then why he was not there when her rites were going on or before that, when she died. why he did this. I want him to answer. was it neccesary to explain his innocency first. Was that not important for him to be with her with her parents till the end.
I doubted upon these kind of materialistic relations. I m not blaming him or his love for kuljeet as kuljeet herself asked him as hER dear one than how can i say him wrong, but i only wanted that he should be with her till her rites got completed. AND THAT'S WHAT I THINK KULJEET THOUGHT ABOUT HIM BEFORE TAKING THAT PAINFULL AND TERRIBLE STEP.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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seriously speaking...i am unable to understand his statement... even the officer is not satisfied..what to all of us??? 😕 he said clearly that due to his work he couldn't come to the funeral...GUYS.. JUST BECOZ OF WORK??? yeh baat kuch hazam nahin hui 😕
ok ok ok people may say that he was shocked....he lost his love... i agree...totally agree... but guys ..tell me one thing... is he more shocked than kuljeet's family and her parents... they lived in delhi ...they came to mumbai...that's becoz they r her family..but bhanu is her love too!!!
come to think of it ...is there no flight available in the last 10-12 days from jammu to mumbai??? 😕...i know he is shocked... he had a break down...fine fine..but there is a limitation of time.. don't spend 5-6 days in mumbai if ur work is suffering bhanu...just come for funeral..record statement and fly back to resume work..u r not suspected...randhawas have cleared u..
i was somewhat relaxed when news came that he talked to randhawas... i said ok if they have got no prob...so no prob...they have forgotten his absence on funeral..fine... but now is statement is extremely suspicious guys... im confused again 😕 😕 😕
(guys im not punching bhanu....i know if i did... u people will kill me....so im not saying anything to him... 😳 😆 )
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Posted: 19 years ago
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people ...after reading and re-reading his statement...im badly in need for hajmola 😆 ... can somebody provide that... bhanu ki koi bhi baat hazum nahin ho rahi 😕 😕 😕 ....his statement is so confusing!!!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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seriously...his statement does seem to make very little sense... 😕

but maybe we should give him the benefit of the doubt...you have to keep in mind that he's from a small town, and she was his first love...and the loss of your first love, especially in this particular manner is enough to shatter the strongest of people 😭 ...so maybe he didn't want to appear in public, partly because he was trying to gather himself, but also majorly because of the kind of questions the media would put him through...we all know what all the journalists and paparazzi do to a person in a situation like this - and it's not only a question of harassment, but also the fear of being made to go through the pain all over again...
there are some people who don't like to make their feelings an object of public scrutiny - maybe he's one of them...

and look at it this way - at least he did speak to her family as soon as he got the news...that shows that at least he wasn't indulging in escapism for something merely materialistic...he did realise that, being an important part of Kuljeet's life, it was the least he could have done of whatever was in his capacity at a time like this...

i'm not justifying anything...all i'm saying is, that like we did not judge Kuljeet and her decision, in the same way, let's not judge Bhanu - because we really have no idea what kind of a person he is and what he may be going through right now...

so let's wait and let things get cleared up on their own...it's not fair to question him at such an early stage...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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guys im soo tired over this bhanu issue that now im having a backpain & headache!! 😆 plzzzzzzz bhanu..do something!!!

ok nandini... im nor questioning neither judging him... 😊 but im just chalking out the possibilities..look at the other way round... he knows very well that kuljeet's father is a former police officer... IF bhanu is found gulity at any point... her father will never ever leave him... even trace him out from anywhere in the world...& after her death every one suspected bhanu (don't take me wrong..im not saying he's guilty).. we don't know wht he said to randhawas... but definately satisfied them...and they r satisfied v r satisfied.. but bhanu did that for one of the reason: becoz of kuljeet..other reason: randhawas don't put any kind of legal action aganist him...

nandini i do agree with most of ur points :bhanu from a small town.first love gone..shattered man..fine! scared from being harrassed by media & journalists, don't want to revisit the pain.fine! a public shy person.fine! but his statement is already in the media... he is in media field..so every part of his statement will go under public scanning no matter wht he will do to stop that... i don't think he has given any kind of appearance (visual or verbal) in media... but his statement is in front of us!!! we r reading his thoughts and feelings!! i think anybody who enters the media line and spends some time in it, he has to know and definately knows the rules of this HARSH industry..and under these rules personality and emotions r listed in the last category ..otherwise how will the person survive in showbiz??..yes this is a harsh and rude business... its like a sparkling mirror palace from outside with a dark & scary coal mine inside!!

moreover none of his resoning reflects logic: like kuljeet had no probs but just a backpain..and he said abt her career taking off while her close friends talk abt her depression in her career...kohinoor stopped,fashion show cancelled, movie not moving.. Quite contradictory!! 😕 😕

People seriously im not blaming bhanu..nor im judging him...im also waiting for his next statement to know the rest of the things hidden up... but his statement is giving rise to these questions in my mind...NOW u people do agree naa that his statement is quite confusing!! im quite sure people do have questions now in their minds..as the point is not of the time taken by bhanu..but of his statement!!!to me asking questions now may be quite logical as the whole situation is quite ambiguous....
i just wish he could have come after one month (i.e. taken adequate time) & then probably give a proper statement instead of wht he said right now.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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-no comment-

i really don't know what to say... 😕
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Posted: 19 years ago
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we've lil to do with their private lives, just see them on tv and forget the rest. but as far as i know ppl, my intuition says bhanu loved her and isnt responsible for her death, he is only 25 and may be he dealt with such a situation for a first time so made some mistakes, not quite knowing what to do. no use lingering these topics now, whats done is done...nothing wud bring kuljeet back.

thats the enigma of past and future, u can change the future if u knew it, but u dont know whats gonna happen...u know the past but its inaccessible and unchangeable...


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Posted: 19 years ago
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how to forget the rest those people who r working making serels are for our entertainment. I m not saying that they don't do this for only us but for themselves too but as far as their work is concerned they r doing for us.
And now when kuljeet is not here our moral is to find what is wrong may be we can't do anything but only discussion but this is only for our satisfication that's why we r here
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AryanDipikaFan we r not here to change anything but only to discuss what happened to our favourite person was right or wrond we r just conversating and that's what you did
Dear mnms you r right but i only know that if i loved a person to some extent than i definately do what i said before. because there isn't any question to live without love.
but if someone say that bhanu loved a lot kuljeet and he don't want to present himself in crowd or something else, and it took so many days to him to console her parents and to show his grivences in front of public
then i must say that why didn't he die within these days. who give him that warmness to be present in publis after so many days.i definately say that there must be a great reason that his all statements r quite opposite from others and as kuljeet's maid said that she had a fight with bhanu.he was definately scared of public police and her parents.
nobody can remain that much calm after having that much nearness with a person he should go to come or die .
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i m confised that why her parents r not interested in solving the question that why their daughter did this kind of extreme step. why they r not considering bhanu and not eager to stop closing the case. they should know about each thing as they r her parents may be she was staying different from them.
but i wonder there is great reason behind all this
if police take part in this case politely i think everything will be cleared soon.
the case is not that much confused which led police not to solve it.
i think if kuljeet parents try and force police than everything will get cleared.
i wonder for everything what is happeing in kuljeet's case
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Posted: 19 years ago
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sneh_in, why are you assuming that Bahnu is wrong??? 😕 why are you so convinced of there being something amiss with his role in this whole incident??? 😕

before i say anything further, i'd like to remind you of a very important detail which you seem to have completely forgotten - Kuljeet's suicide note...
in it, she clearly gave the reasons for her suicide - there have been enough discussions on those, so let's just take them at face value for once...and don't forget what she wrote for Bhanu - if he had anything to do with her suicide, then (a) she wouldn't have said all that for him, and (b) he wouldn't have sent her that sms hours before she died if they'd had a fight...she knew that people would jump to such a conclusion - like you have - and therefore she wanted to set things clear before they got out of hand...
he wasn't there the day she died, because he got on a flight to Jammu the same day...the rest of his statement is, admittedly, confusing...but it also doesn't really give any indications towards his having anything to do with the whole thing...
sneh_in, i respect your view as to what you would have done under that situation, but here again, you're forgetting that you're talking about YOURSELF...Bhanu Uday may not think like you or feel like you or think the way you think he does, simply because he is a different person...and not doing what you would have done doesn't equal being wrong...
and as for why Kuljeet's parents are not suspecting him, and why it took him so many days to console them - have you forgotten that he called them and spoke to them immediately after he got the news? and you also seem to have forgotten that he was cleared by her parents right after that conversation - which was a day after she died...
yes, he knew Kuljeet's dad was a police officer, and i'm also almost sure that the call he made had three reasons - Kuljeet, establishing his innocence, and his responsibilty as a human being and a loved one...but if he was so scared of her parents framing charges against him, then don't you think coming and officially clearing his name would be the first logical thing to do? if you were afraid someone would blame you for something - anything - then would you go underground and have people suspect you even more?? don't you think that would be contradictory to what you'd be trying to establish? there'd be very few people stupid enough to do that...and why would his being scared of her father be the reason for his not turning up when HE'S ALREADY SPOKEN TO HIM AND SORTED THINGS OUT????
and i don't understand why him establishing his innocence seems wrong to you - he's given his statement to the police now - he gave it to her family right after the incident...which do you think is more important?


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