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tellyaddict

@Telly_Addict

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Posted: 15 years ago

#1181

hmmm....after so many days or may be months m back to BVD,,,,just coz yesteday i got to know abt the hide n seek between VinDiya...and wo bhi epi khatam hone k baad,,,and whole day i was busy in some silly office task......
and now m free...so socha kyun na yaha aakar thoda discuss kiya jaye,,,as I missed the most awaited VinDiya moment.....
but howz every one here.......

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anu_jha

@anu_jha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#1182

hi guys. thank GOD, nobody gave me a new title here. i thought i will get a new title.

i'm here to tell u a very interesting story, which may help in clearing ur thoughts about marriages and their pace in Bihar. i'm going to tell u the story in hindi (as i'm not very good in english). hope u all understand and like it.

Bahut samay pahle ki baat hai (may last year). main aur meri Niece, jo mujhse sirf 3-4 years chhoti hai, chhat par baithkar ek ladki ki shadi ka pandal bante dekh rahe the. hum dono ke beech aksar uss ladki ko lekar baatein hoti rahti thi. kyunki woh hamare liye bahut hi special thi. (actually hamari usse thodi si dushmani thi, aur uske reasons main yahan nahin bata sakti hoon). bade pyaar se hum uske affairs ki kahaniyan sunte aur sunaya karte the. hum uske boyfriends count kiya karte the. lekin jab uski shadi fix hui, to usne boyfriends banane band kar diye aur hum use aksar chhat par apne to-be-husband se phone par baatein karte dekhne lage aur hum yeh imagine karne lage ki abhi woh kya baat rahi hogi? jab pandal banne laga to uski shadi mein 5 din baaki the. tab hum yeh soch kar dukhi hone lage ki woh yeh 5 din kaise bitaygi. aur uspar ek problem yeh bhi thi ki use shaadi ke baad aur 4 din wait karna padega. kyunki hamare yahan yeh rule hai ki ladki ki bidaai shaadi ke 4 din baad hoti hai..

hum uski is dukh ke bare mein soch hi rahe the ki tabhi hamare dimaag mein ek idea aaya ki kyun na hum un ladkiyon ki counting karein jo shaadi ke pahle 2-3 weeks mein conceive ker leti hain.. aur hamne paya ki almost sabhi ladkiyon ke saath aisa hua. bhale hi unke beech mein pyaar ho ya na ho..

lekin jab maine bengal mein rahne wali ladkiyon ko count kiya toh maine paaya ki yahan ki ladkiyan chahe woh jyaada educated ho ya na ho, woh emotional attachment hone ka wait karti hain.

so, the moral of the atory is :- is show ko bihar ki nazron se dekho, aur phir tum sab yeh paoge ki jo ho raha hai sahi ho raha hai (in terms of pace of protagonist's physical attachment). CV's ne zaroor bihar ki mentality ko dimaag mein rakhkar hi is develpoment ko likha hoga. personally, i also didn't like the rush, it came too early. but i accepted it from bihar's point of view.

***Viewbie Edit: Anupama, thank you for sharing your views but again, I'd like u to be vigilant in terms of the words/phrases that u may end up using in your posts, be it in English or Hindi. It is eminent to remember that this forum is family forum and we are here to share our views in terms of I-F's Code of Conduct. I've edited your post as I deemed fit. Thanks.****

Edited by smartc - 15 years ago

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Nishtha

@Nishtha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#1183

nice story anujha...but i am confused at one point you say one should not mix real and reel life and on the other hand you are giving us some real life examples ..why? 😊

so what you think should we take this show keeping real life in mind or not? because if we does than i have some millions of un-answered questions...nd trust me i can give you some trillions of facts as how the scenario in villages in real life are and how the makers of this show are way off the mark!..but again we are bringing real life here..🤔 so what you think ? should i bring the real life??i am little confused ...😕

one more thing...it doesn;t matter , in which language you post your thoughts ..we all can understand hindi nd thus watching this show right? just that few of us here are more comfortable with english when it comes to writing.. i can read speak and write hindi fluently 😊 so it doesnt matter at all..ok relax 😊 just that find it little hard to write hindi with english alphabets .

oh one more thing? you know name of the dialogue write of this show is Amit Jha while your name is Anu Jha...great isnt it..😆 what a conincidence...i guess even he is from Bihar nd he is doing nice job with dialogues here 👏😊

EDIT...sorry one last thing..emotional attachment has nothing to do with in which state you are residing.Its not about state as in terroritry its about your MENTAL state😆 woh bengal ki hon bihar ki ho...ya maharashtra ki ho ya usa ki ho/uk ki ho/germany ki ho ya mars ki ho ...that comes with your upbringing and based on individual priorites not with city/town/country.

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Howlarious

@Howlarious

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Posted: 15 years ago

#1184

Originally posted by: Nishtha

gosh your football nd my Cricket..😆😆 the match is crap DC all out on 87 where is Kavya she will kill me if she seen me laughing over her DC😆😆 slept nd got up so thought before going to study lets do some SERIOUS talking😆😆 sorry i dint hear you...sorry 🥱🥱🥱 come again please😆😆
Yeah i heard about that 82 all out 😆, what a LOW score 😳 tomorrow should be good anyway, 😆 did you actually do any studying today 🤓😆😆

🤣 what did i tell you over phone...MESS exactly...see gosh i cant say what i want to...if we want to see..people madly in love ,then we dont need to watch Bhagayvidhata for that 🤣 this show would be the last resort for me on earth to see how one should love for someone...🤣🤣

I swear, giving false hopes to girls who watch this show with some kinda HOPE 😆 , this is how your partner should do romance etc, and you have to close your eyes and play hide and seek....that is love 🥱

Well best thing they were runnign over everywhere gosh 😆...are they living in castle where Vinay couldnt find Bindiya in 4-5 hours?? or maybe he is not fond of working much that is why he went to GOD..thats explains everything..🤣 flowers nd all.🤢🤢🤢 candles and flowers are sooo over used now..🥱..i was thinking Bindiya slapped his brother for Vinay but never slapped him for his family? WHY? 🤔

LMAO @ castle, well it sure does look like they are ..... they must join the London marathon tomorrowww!!!!!! 😆 yeah and when he went to God he took his mobile there too, like he was gonna do the aarti of the phone...😆

Originally posted by: Nishtha

😆 tea-biscuit...i think she will make omellete and bread😆 what ROOBISH we are talking😆 ok some breakfast options for monday...
tea-biscuit with smile😊

omellete bread with smile 😊

Halwa with smile😊

Kheer with smile 😊

Please select your options😆😆😆

I made this VM long agoo...early last year....dont know why i want to share it...because makers had their VM in the show yesterday so...maybe for them..😆

Omlette?? 😆 Hope she doesn't leave the egg raw then, because she'll obviously be in her own dreamland thinking about the night before and the petals 😆 I select all four options, unless they fast forward and don't show breakfast 😆

RE the VM...I miss these days, the last episode reminds me of how fast and rushed the episode of Bhagyavidhata was yesterday 🤣....the babies in Grihasti were delivered as fast as Vinay was walking/running to find Bindiya yesterday 😆 but these days were good, Rishi going into dangerous territory, women driving lorries, tomatoes with funny eyebrows, you know the rest Nish 😆

don;t know why the rest of your post from before isn't quoting propely 😆🥱

Edited by ansh25 - 15 years ago

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anu_jha

@anu_jha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#1185

@ nish - thanks for liking my story. well i'm not good at story telling, so that's why u may have become confused. actually, i want to say that everyone has their own opinion about marriages. personally, i too like emotional understandings before any physical attachments in marriage. but with respect to this serial, i'm just saying about the mentality of bihari people towards marriage. i just want to clear people's views about marriages in bihar. and as far as someone's upbringing is concerned, then i must tell u one thing, girls in bihar right from their childhood are taught by their parents that, "beti, is ghar se tumhari doli uthi hai, us ghar se tumhari arthi uthni chahiye."

i'm not mixing reel and real life. i'm just trying to clear their views. hope, u not get confused this time.

well, about my name, i want to tell u that JHA exclusively belongs to bihar.

Edited by anujha - 15 years ago

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Nishtha

@Nishtha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#1186

I will talk to you on phone rather..nah i didnt watch match..i'll watch tomororw one..😆

aarti of fone...🤣 well i am not fond of blackberry..the first thing everyone ask here..whats your pin 🤡 gosh..i am sick nd tired of this pin 🤣n97 is any day better...😆 maybe because its mine 😆

well who can forget..Rishi puttar simartooo...🤣 those...truck babies..gosh 😆 chal me off will tell something over fone interesting thing 😉

yeah i know its latest invention of Vijay not to let anyone quote properly 🤡

Edited by Nishtha - 15 years ago

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Sanz

@smartc

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#1187

There's no point stereotyping a particular region based on the few examples that u may have encountered in your life. We are not here to discuss which state and which region has these stereotypes going on in them. Instead, THIS THREAD is dedicated to discuss THE SHOW'S EPISODES' and nothing more or less than that. I hope everyone can keep this thing in their mind.

BVD is a fictional soap but loosely based on the premise of a practice that used to exist (or may still exist) in Bihar. By no means it is trying to advocate that such a practice is to be encouraged or that we should judge an entire state based on the premise of the story. There's a reason why we see a disclaimer before the show starts. The stories and tracks in the show are always going to be fictional and will be the figments of imagination on behalf of the BVD Creative Team. How much truth lies in them or not is another area that can be discussed at length elsewhere but not in this thread. It could make a good DOTW topic 😉.

Anyhow, bottom line is... There is audience who is either going to like or dislike a particular track and that is their personal choice, their personal prerogative and their personal decision. We have the right to defend our views but not preach it to the world. I hope that I am getting my point across through everyone here 😛 ~

I don't want to see any further discussion on what different regions entail in terms of their practices and culture in this thread anymore. I hope all will abide by my request here 😛 ~

Cheers,
Sana~

P.S Any concerns, I am just a pm away...

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Sanz

@smartc

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#1188

@ Ansh & Nishu: Guys.. As much as I am interested in knowing about Rishi and girhisti show, let's keep the discussions to a minimal here since we've got to focus on BVD here. Pm's your best friend, btw 😉 ~

Cheers,
Sana~

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Sanz

@smartc

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#1189

Alritey, folks.. Since we are onto page 150, I am closing this topic. Please revert to the new sticky page for BVD Episode-related discussions. Hope to see y'all there.

Cheers,
Sana~