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samyk

@samyk

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Posted: 15 years ago

i m 16 n very depressed i hv never felt this uglier thogh people say i m nt . i hv no friends .
the only best friend i had left me.
i am lonly .i feel lyk a complete loser people hate me. i hv started disliking everyone.
i am an introvert and do not share my problems with anyone
all bad things happen to me . all embarrassing things are meant for me
i have had a mockery made of me in front of the entire school when i was 13.
guys laugh at me n even abuse. i hav been eve teased several of times
i even had people hitting me with dustbins really. all things just seem to go wrong ido not wanna live anymore.
i wnt to isolate myself . i want to change my identity or wear a brown paper bag on my head
the ugliest of the girls i know hav boyfriends i dont even have friends
i know u people wuld make fun of me . i wrote all this in vain

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mins97

@mins97

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Posted: 15 years ago

aww thats really sad 😔 I will neva make fun of u and i am pretty sure no one on IF will make fun of u!

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InLoveWithKSG

@InLoveWithKSG

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Posted: 15 years ago

Hey I understand your problems
you just need to find some self esteem in your self
and eventually you will over come it and about keeping it in your self
is a bad thing i think that talking to some one will help you
come over your stress and get the confided you need
and about you being ugly
i personally think that in this world no one can be ugly but maybe unique
if you want to overcome that try doing something with they way you look and you just said that you don't have any friends well you just made a new friend right here
just wait at how thinks change and plus ur just 16
hope that help for more help PM me
i will wait for your repy

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Ride_It

@Ride_It

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Posted: 15 years ago

Well, ur sixteen and at this age you shouldn't really care on what others think of you. All you need to do for now is pay attention on your studies. Just keep an 'I don't care attitude' towards life for now. Your a teenager and it's normal to feel it this way. For now keep ur self busy in studies who cares whether guys like u or not? They will eventually do so once ur grown up. Just remember people look at you the way u view ur self.

Edited by angad's_fan - 15 years ago

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MeeraXD

@MeeraXD

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Posted: 15 years ago

You should learn how to shut peoples mouth as in get confidence, if u know that what ever u r doing is right than continue...

but there must be a reason why people are behaving, well attire doesnt matter... firstly a person can be anyones friend if they are polite, respect others and selfless... i hope u r all this. If u r this, very good, just dont care wat other people say and make friends outside school. If u r not, than change your behaviour.... and i bet everythings gonna be all right.

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rozia

@rozia

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Posted: 15 years ago

hey u shudn feel bad u r cumin 2 a point where u starting to hate urself u shud give urself sum time learn 2 luv urself and as far as other people ur 16 u wil probably starting 6 form or college it will b a new start

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GoldenPanda.

@GoldenPanda.

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Posted: 15 years ago

Giving up is the worste thing you could do right now, I understand if you need some time for yourself at the moment, who doesn't from time to time? But don't let them take you down! You're just 16 and you have your whole life ahead of you! You won't even remember these people in a few year's! Just hold your head up high girl! Just learn to be confident about yourself first and then you'll get load's of friends ;)

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179123

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Posted: 15 years ago

Hi,

The first thing you should do is to speak to someone regarding the eve teasing and the throwing stuff at you, because this is something really serious. And not telling someone abt this means encouraging bullying. There has to be someone that you can speak to in your school, someone that can help you in that.

And girl you are not ugly, i am sure all girl comes to this stage of their life at least ONCE where they have low self esteem, ur very young ang u have full life ahead to think abt beauty. And i am sure u look beautiful it is just that u compare urself and u THINK ur ugly but ur not.

You are beautiful and special in ur own way. You should try more to indulge yourself socially, talking to people.

BE CONFIDENT. And all ur doubt abt urself will go away.

But you should talk to someone abt the eve teasing because bullying is unacceptable. Stand up to it, be confident. Just go and report them.

And stop caring what others think abt u. Just be carefree and confident and all the talking and bullying will stop. Remember, if someone tells u ur ugly that does nt mean ur. Nobody is ugly in life..

Just take it easy. You have ur whole life to think abt beauty and all that.

Be confident and stand up to everyone.

Gud Luck :)