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kvva

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Posted: 15 years ago

#11

Agree with your post.

But I think Ridz should take bigger responsibility towards sid-ridz relationship at current juncture, i.e., she should put extra effort and make sid understand probably that she needs time but is very much interested in moving towards this relationship, not because she is married (see this really is the concern for sid and he is repeatedly expressing this) but because she likes to be in this relationship. Both the people have to be repsonsible towards any relationship. Right now ridz past is in front and hence it is more of her responsibility to keep sid's hopes high (if she wants it). She must see beyond her troubles, which some times is good as it also help her to drift away from her own pain.

Now we could also have sid understanding all the above and try to support ridz unconditionally. But I think then he will no longer be a human and will be more of a god figure, which would not be an interesting character to watch. I think we all want to watch more realistic 'grey' characters (ok this a joke as we cannot expect these things from DMG) than some 'mahan' god-type characters. Anyway in today's episode sid's better question would have been 'what does she feel about sid in the current juncture and the future ?'

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CinciGal

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Posted: 15 years ago

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[QUOTE=Mars35913062Thanks. Finally I have a person who agrees with me.😃 I agree that they are trying to unite AR+SR = R(A+S). Riddhima is manhandled as a result. I am not sure whether you have read my DMG - Best possible ending.

CVs need to handle these scenarios amicably rather than turning the wheel unnecessarily on a straight road, just to squeeze out a cheap thrill. Once they have brought up these scenarios in the story then its their responsibility to give it an appropriate closure.😭

What we are stuck today is:

1. As I said it takes a big heart to accept a person with a past, Riddhima told Sid, Sid knows about Riddhima. The way forward is only "trust" in your spouse. They should highlight the building of trust in a relationship.

2. What should Riddhima do to make Sid believe that she wants to be wholeheartedly with him? (She can start saying "meri khushi ab issi main hai"?) Currently she cares for him and love will makes it own way in their relationship with time.

3. As I have mentioned earlier, that they should have discussed this thing in the bedroom long before like they did today. When Armaan was not even in the picture. And the day she went to Puna she was fully prepared to start a new life with Sid. But they twisted and turned a normal scenario so much that they went overboard.

Still today we come across friends & relatives who are stuck in these scenarios. We all know that "It is easy to break a relationship than to maintain it, it asks for a lot of price". That is why I use the word strength of character. The angry young man look of Amitabh Bachchan has not also effected all the junior actors following him, but has change the tone of the cinema and which in turn has effected normal youngster in the street. Showbiz medium is a serious medium and effects the third world easily.

Sorry for making you read this. In fact I held back a lot today only to transfer everything in the joke.😆

Thanks for replying to my post. I have not read your DMG-Best possible ending, but I will find it and read it. Here's my ending given the current scenario. R should stay with S for one week, and A for the next and so on. Pati bhi khush, patni bhi khush and Woh bhi khush. Jab Patni needs a break, Pati and Woh can be khush too. AR fans and SR fans bhi alternately khush. The end.

Again I agree with what you have written here. Riddhima needs to tell Sid what she feels about him, why she likes him or why this marriage means so much to her. Right now Sid is insecure, not really jealous. He cannot understand how she can like him. But as I wrote elsewhere, depression, break up suicide are life changing tthings. A person who stuck with you through all that, can have a deep impact on you in a very short time, can change the outlook of the person. She needs to tell him what he means to her, until she does that all Sid knows is that she was crazy about Armaan, got married under very unpleasant circumstances and has been especially perturbed since Armaan's return. She should at least smile at him sometimes. In short they need to talk. But then again, this show proceeds on miscommunication. Either people dont say what they want to say, or they dont hear what they should hear. The words "bas, ab mujhe aur kuchh nahin sunana" are used so frequently in this show.

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mysterieux

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Posted: 15 years ago

#13

Nice😆😆😆

I loved the I am watching you bit!!!!😆😉

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Mars35913062

@Mars35913062

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: kvva
Agree with your post.

But I think Ridz should take bigger responsibility towards sid-ridz relationship at current juncture, i.e., she should put extra effort and make sid understand probably that she needs time but is very much interested in moving towards this relationship, not because she is married (see this really is the concern for sid and he is repeatedly expressing this) but because she likes to be in this relationship.

Thanks.😊

What else should Riddhima do to make Sid believe that she wants to be wholeheartedly with him? She has taken a stand in announcing that she is married to Sid. She has already told him a couple of times but he does not trust her, insists that she is still in love with Armaan.😭

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kvva

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Posted: 15 years ago

#15

That's exactly the point. She is only taking a stand that she wants to be with him because she is married to him. But she should explain why this marriage is important for her. Why she wants this marriage to happen. In my opinion she should explain things like, she has learnt how to come out of her depression and relive the life in a beutiful way because of his presence. She has understood many new things (remember the Naina help situation and her reaction) in his presence. She has derived strength from him and learnt to deal with her problems. In all, she finds it interesting to conintue her relation with sid because she finds it interesting, soothing and she definitely does not want to miss out the life with him.

Instead she is just sternly stating that she wants to be with him because of marriage (and it sounds marriage obligations). If you observe their conversations (especially the one in which she was cleaning sid's wound from arman) sid is keenly observing what she is saying (i mean beyond her words) and is searching for those answers. But her way of talking only reflects that she is obligated to stay with hime. Instead, she should first understand that he is concerned about forcing upon the relation on her and that she needs convince him this is not the situation. She should take some time, explain and convince him that it is definitely not a obligation, but is something which she is looking forward to.

In case, she really feels obligated to stay with him just because of marriage, i think she should not do that. She should definitely walk out of the marriage and releave him also of that burden.

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Mars35913062

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Posted: 15 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: kvva

In case, she really feels obligated to stay with him just because of marriage, i think she should not do that. She should definitely walk out of the marriage and releave him also of that burden.

Yes, but we should also take in account that she is on a rebound and since Sid is more of a catalyst in complicating the situation, she can't even lie to him to make him comfortable. It is Sid who needs to accept her as "she is" and make her part of her life.

When today Sid said that they need to discuss, I thought he is going to clarify that she is his wife and stand next to her, possibly hug and comfort her, be sorry for how he behaved on the terrace, tell her that he needs her, instead he starts to rub-in the same thing, do you still love him?, have you forgotten his love?

Riddhima has done what she could do.The fact remains it is difficult for her at this time with Armaan just returning back in to her life. Whatever she did (marrying Sid) she is standing by it (we may call it an obligation). But if given time, all wounds heal, if not scratched every now and then. Its Sid turn to play his role to accept her with his whole heart. 😊

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Mars35913062

@Mars35913062

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Posted: 15 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: CinciGal
😆 Thanks for replying to my post. I have not read your DMG-Best possible ending, but I will find it and read it. Here's my ending given the current scenario. R should stay with S for one week, and A for the next and so on. Pati bhi khush, patni bhi khush and Woh bhi khush. Jab Patni needs a break, Pati and Woh can be khush too. AR fans and SR fans bhi alternately khush. The end.

Thanks😆

If you read my previous post for DMG - 14th Apr Get Rid Of Ma

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/dill-mill-gaye/1377607/dmg-14th-apr-get-rid-of-ma

I have already mentioned this:

I would not be surprised if the CVs twist the track to solve this problem, in that Riddhima will split her time between the two on weekly basis.😃

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JATIN THAKKAR

@JATINTHAKKAR

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Posted: 15 years ago

#18

Very Nice Post.

Awesome work buddy.👏

I enjoyed the joke.😆

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kvva

@kvva

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Posted: 15 years ago

#19

Exactly. You are correctl. The point is that she is on a rebound (this sid knows) and wants to cotinue this rebound even after arman's arrival. This exactly is the point that she should convey to sid. In my opinion she has not made any effort to convey this. Instead she sounds pessimistic and her words conveys meaning like, 'she cant help the situation and hence is continuing with the marriage'. She only sounds affirmative in her choice but not optimistic towards the new relation.

As I said earlier, I understood she has to come to terms with her loss, but in parallel (atleast after initial few days) she should also show optimistic view towards her new relation. When she does that, I am quite positive that sid will accept her 'as is'.

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