Padma & CM vs Jyoti

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sundara

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Posted: 15 years ago

I cant digest the double standards ... that too coming from women ...

CM : CM says "Pankaj ki shaadhi ki do din bhi nehin hui" pointing to Kabir & Jyoti going out together as shown on TV on TV... Couldnt she hear herself what she is saying ... Its not that Pankaj is dead and his wife/ex-wife is going out with another guy... CM, thumhaara bhaanja Neelam ke saath hein...what part of CM's body is itching now seeing Jyoti going out with another guy..If Pankaj can marry again, why cant Jyoti consider having a new boyfriend...

Padma : What's Padma's problem? Why does she care who Jyoti goes out with? She is the second wife of the famous gungruji KK ji... why cant she have a modern outlook on things ? If a man can marry again for whatever reason, why cant women ? First of all , its not that Kabir and Jyoti are going to head to marriage straight away.. why this drama? I hope Jyoti delivers a punch dialogue to Padma and shut her up... Just when I think Padma isnt a great threat anymore, she shows her evil side again... grrrrr...

If women cant understand what other women have to go through in today's society, then the doormatism of the womanhood will continue except for CM who is more like a man trapped in a woman's body...Even Dhaadhi seems more modrun (modern) than anyone else in the Sharma family... 😆 😆

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Vrish

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Posted: 15 years ago

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qtwtx_2zZwM[/YOUTUBE]

I wish that instead of merely staring @ her, Sudha gave her a mindful. Tell her that it was CM's idea to get rid of Jyoti, so to not bitch when she sees Jyoti w/ another guy. And like you said, how does the time matter - Pankaj has re-married, so Jyoti would be well within her rights to do the same, assuming that that's even the case here.

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2Su0Ued2nQ[/YOUTUBE]

Frankly, I'm sick of Jyoti (and Sudha) continue to be deferential towards Padma, and what's worse are their in-laws, like Uday, Pankaj & now Kabir (I use the term in-law loosely wrt him) respecting her. I do hope that Jyoti tells Kabir everything about herself & her family, including the fact that Padma is her masi/step-mom, so that he knows how to size her up.

It was a mistake of Jyoti to move back into that house, despite Padma being among those who pleaded. I really hope Jyoti moves out of there fast, and once out, gives Padma a counter bhashan of why the latter doesn't own her. I was hoping the Sharmas would get to give Jyoti a fitting marriage that they wanted to give her in the first place, but right now, I'd be even happier if Jyoti eloped, or like in Pankaj's marriage, KK kept Padma out of it.

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ghotalaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

kya iss padma aur bhairavi ka koi ilaaj nahin???😕 i'm simply fed up of them. i really find it a bit difficult 2 find out whom i hate the most - is it bhairavi or is it padma. dono ke dono r🤬!!!

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sundara

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Posted: 15 years ago

🥳🥳🥳This is my 100th post 🥳🥳🥳
I hope I had someone like Kabir to get me a cake...lol.

Vrisha, I agree that Kabir should know everything about Jyoti right away.. may be she is not currently seeing him in a life partner way..so she is keeping something to herself...but atleast when it blossoms to a romance some day, she should tell him everything.. I hope she does rather than wait for her 1st anniversary (of proposing love / marriage) 😆

But this time, one secret wont be a secret..her pregnancy... when it starts to show, Kabir will know.. and may be he will know without her telling that the baby is Pankaj's... But she has to open the Brij story as well before anything else... Kabir already knows that Jyoti was married and he is still with her continuing his friendship or upcoming romance...so there, he is not like Pankaj who puts stupid questions like "was she in love with Brij..was she willing to marry Brij..blah blah"... I think it makes no difference to Pank.. even if Jyoti had told everything abt Brij on the first day of Pank-Jyo romance blossoming, the loser Pank would have walked away... he is such a loser...and assumes that women should never fall in love with anyone else other than the ones they are married to or are going to marry... He can love himself and his ego for life and be the best bhaanja/chamcha for CM... 😆 😆

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Vrish

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Posted: 15 years ago

Sundara

Congratulations!!! 100 more and you'll be a Senior Member. How's this for your cake?

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Originally posted by: sundara
🥳🥳🥳This is my 100th post 🥳🥳🥳
I hope I had someone like Kabir to get me a cake...lol.

Vrisha, I agree that Kabir should know everything about Jyoti right away.. may be she is not currently seeing him in a life partner way..so she is keeping something to herself...but atleast when it blossoms to a romance some day, she should tell him everything.. I hope she does rather than wait for her 1st anniversary (of proposing love / marriage) 😆

But this time, one secret wont be a secret..her pregnancy... when it starts to show, Kabir will know.. and may be he will know without her telling that the baby is Pankaj's... But she has to open the Brij story as well before anything else... Kabir already knows that Jyoti was married and he is still with her continuing his friendship or upcoming romance...so there, he is not like Pankaj who puts stupid questions like "was she in love with Brij..was she willing to marry Brij..blah blah"... I think it makes no difference to Pank.. even if Jyoti had told everything abt Brij on the first day of Pank-Jyo romance blossoming, the loser Pank would have walked away... he is such a loser...and assumes that women should never fall in love with anyone else other than the ones they are married to or are going to marry... He can love himself and his ego for life and be the best bhaanja/chamcha for CM... 😆 😆

I agree here. One way for Jyoti to do it gracefully would be that when she's resisting him, she could point out these baggage items, like she carrying Pankaj's baby (incidentally, can't she have already mentioned it in the context of telling Kabir that Pankaj was her ex?) and also, about what made him remove her, and the whole deal w/ Brij. That way Kabir knows everything, so this time, Brij wouldn't be able to go after him w/ any blackmail material.

Given what Jyoti went through previously, I doubt that she will keep this one a secret this time. And I hope that Kalpana doesn't get involved in this - KK, despite his problems, would be the best one to guide her for this one.

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sundara

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Posted: 15 years ago

Wowwww... Vrisha, thanks a lot for the three-tier awesome cake... 😊

I am glad my 100th post happened on a Friday night and I got an e-cake to make my weekend a good one.. lol

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KK, despite his problems, would be the best one to guide her for this one--

Vrisha, did you really mean KK would be the best guide or was it an irony? lol

He is someone who waits for someone else to find a solution and points to them and says "Mr.X teek kehrahaa hein", "Ms. Y teek kehrahee hein"...lol.. In a way, he is ok..coz he wouldnt have a problem if Jyoti takes a decision about her life... he has problems only when Padma says something which I applaud.. LOL. Had he not stopped Padma from time to time when she was doing backbites about Jyoti, she would have taken everyone for granted (just like CM takes advantage of the quiet MN&G) and become another CM in the Sharma family... Glad KK atleast has some power to shut her up..

CM portrays the most horrible woman in Udaipur

Jyoti portrays the best docile/doormat woman

And Padma lies somewhere in between, thanks to KK 👏

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sonikuri17

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Posted: 15 years ago

I don't know what choti ma and padma's real problem is. They just can't see Jyoti happy at all.

Padma being her mother, doesn't even understand her daughter. She's always finding faults in whatever she does, even if it is for the family good. But, ofcourse when PADMA needs money... Use Jyoti hi dikhti hai. Tab woh kyun nahin jaati kisi aur ke paas. ( First, She didn't like Brij, But when Sushma got married to Brij going against the family, then she din't have any problem, because she was her own daughter.) Now, She doesn't like Kabir. C'mon woman.. GROW UP !!!!!

And Choti Ma... If Pankaj can get married again, then why can't jyoti? Even she has every right to marry again and be happy in life. Why does she care who she hangs out with. Its her life and she will do whatever she wants to do with it.

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Kruthika

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Posted: 15 years ago

Very true post... actually when CM said that and Sudha entered the room I really wish she had pointed out to her that if Pankaj had moved on, then whats wrong if Jyoti wants to too? And Padma of course never seems to find anything good in what Jyoti's doing, and instead is obsessed with what her neighbors think. Its very true how u pointed out that Padma herself is a second wife, so she should be the last person to stand against second marriages.

And like u said, its not like Pankaj is dead. He's married and moved on. Whats wrong if Jyoti wants to have a life too?

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Kruthika

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Posted: 15 years ago

Ooh, and congrats on 100 posts!!🥳

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Vrish

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: sundara
Wowwww... Vrisha, thanks a lot for the three-tier awesome cake... 😊

I am glad my 100th post happened on a Friday night and I got an e-cake to make my weekend a good one.. lol

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KK, despite his problems, would be the best one to guide her for this one--

Vrisha, did you really mean KK would be the best guide or was it an irony? lol

He is someone who waits for someone else to find a solution and points to them and says "Mr.X teek kehrahaa hein", "Ms. Y teek kehrahee hein"...lol.. In a way, he is ok..coz he wouldnt have a problem if Jyoti takes a decision about her life... he has problems only when Padma says something which I applaud.. LOL. Had he not stopped Padma from time to time when she was doing backbites about Jyoti, she would have taken everyone for granted (just like CM takes advantage of the quiet MN&G) and become another CM in the Sharma family... Glad KK atleast has some power to shut her up..

CM portrays the most horrible woman in Udaipur

Jyoti portrays the best docile/doormat woman

And Padma lies somewhere in between, thanks to KK 👏

Glad you liked it - the cake that is.

I think that since KK has a high opinion of Kabir and Dadi loves him, I think they can steamroll Padma's opposition. Hey, point out to her how due to her ladli bahu, Jyoti now has to live in a storeroom, and how, if she marries Kabir, she's no longer a burden on the house, as Padma perceives it. No, I wasn't being facetious - although KK is an effiminate emotional wreck, one thing he does well - sometimes too well, to the detriment of even Jyoti - is to oppose Padma every step of the way. So he can make it clear to Padma that Jyoti is an adult, this is her paid for home, and she can bring in anyone she likes.

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