Rajsri, I like your post and agree with your attitude. You are absolutely right, Dev said a resounding no even before Rads came and took him away. I too am glad they showed this because it has firmly cemented in my mind that now no matter what Vish kanya tries to do to harm RaDev, Dev will never ever go near her even with a ten foot pole! But Vish kanya will dare not make such a proposition ever again. Also now there is no way Radhika will ever let Vish walk all over her again. Now all that's left is for Radhika to force Amma to admit to Dev, Shastriji, Dadi, and everyone that Amma tried to burn her alive. The CVs definitely need to show Amma getting severely punished and sent away from Vrindavan. But we'll cross one bridge at a time.
Some are upset by Radhika's resistence to telling the truth, but I think her conversation with Kanha was absolutrly neccesary and I agree with you, angake, misti73, and everyone else who perceives CB's Kanha as an extension of Radhika's conscience. Today she needed to face her conscience head on and I am happy her inner struggle was portrayed. I think it would've been a bit artificial of she just slapped Vishaka and stopped Dev from going to Vish's room. I like that Radhika suffered, cried, felt severe angst, and then there was this beautiful release when Kanha/her conscience broke through to her and she flew out of her room in full realization to go bring Dev back. Avina together as well as individually gave amazing performances today.
Now that the question of a ONS will likely not arise again, I am not afraid or angry anymore. I accept that there will be ups and downs and things we will love as well as things we will hate...but I will ride the roller coaster with all of you and believe in RaDev's divine love. Kanha's statement about having faith in him and him handling the rest really clinched the deal for me.