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I'm feeling really bad for Aalekh these days. Two women who were really close to him, are/were his mothers, both used him and trapped him. Choti Ma and Vasu. While Choti Ma didn't love Aalekh but Vasu does but I wonder how devastated he would be when he finds the truth about what all Vasu did and how/why she separated Saalekh.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Uska apna akal kya gaya ????
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awwwwww my sweetoo
i love him <3
its not his fault, he just wants to make his mum happy, he hurt her for 20 years..
but he shouldnt loose sadhna, she is too precious
salekh forever
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: helloall

I'm feeling really bad for Aalekh these days. Two women who were really close to him, are/were his mothers, both used him and trapped him. Choti Ma and Vasu. While Choti Ma didn't love Aalekh but Vasu does but I wonder how devastated he would be when he finds the truth about what all Vasu did and how/why she separated Saalekh.



I feel terrible for Aalekh. His own mother puts her ego agenda above Aalekh; and his wife puts her mamiji and Ragini above hi and signs a divorce. He is the actual victim in this scenario.

Some viewers might argue, Aalekh also put his family above Sadhana. Yes, he did. But then, he did not sign divorce paper unlike Sadhana.

Sadhana definitely had choices. But she exercised them wrongly. Sharma family was ONLY kicking Sadhana like a soccer ball and yet she will be bouncing back to them and in the processing of pleasing them she divorced Aalekh? She did it for ALL WRONG REASONS. That is inexcusable for me although I love Sadhana to bits. She hurt Aalekh big time.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yes, I do feel sorry for him on that count - his "mothers" turned out to be anything but motherly; but he does have to take responsibility for his own part in their separation. I hope they don't paint him as entirely the victim here....
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Yeahhh......
I feel sad for Alekh....
How gonna he feel when he know the thruth.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well said. Alekh is the most unfortunate character in the show. He has been used as a pawn by 2 women whom he trusted so much. CM didn't let him recover from his mental condition and gave him fake motherly love to get back at Vasu. Vasu didn't let him grow up and become independent to take his own decisions by emotionally blackmailing him all the time to satisfy her own ego. He is going to be completely shattered when he sees Vasu's real face.

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Originally posted by: vishmewell



I feel terrible for Aalekh. His own mother puts her ego agenda above Aalekh; and his wife puts her mamiji and Ragini above hi and signs a divorce. He is the actual victim in this scenario.

Some viewers might argue, Aalekh also put his family above Sadhana. Yes, he did. But then, he did not sign divorce paper unlike Sadhana.

Sadhana definitely had choices. But she exercised them wrongly. Sharma family was ONLY kicking Sadhana like a soccer ball and yet she will be bouncing back to them and in the processing of pleasing them she divorced Aalekh? She did it for ALL WRONG REASONS. That is inexcusable for me although I love Sadhana to bits. She hurt Aalekh big time.



Not really!
He should have believed that She wouldn't do ANYTHING without a REASON!

Sharma family wasn't the only one who was kicking her around

It was Vasu, Indrajeet, Ragini and her husband Alekh who used and used her.

and Sadhna bounced back to Alekh even after she was KICKED out by Alekh's mother and he kicked her again!

So basically she is expected to lick his shoes and come back rolling to him when ever he feels like saying i love you!?

Please !

Alekh should have realized, he didn't loose his memory when he became 'normal; that the Sadhana who risked everything during Shlokh episode would never desert him. Any "normal" person would know that if someone who didn't desert me at the worst of times would not desert me when things are ok. So no not really Alekh is not a victim anymore. Rather he joined Vasu crew in victimizing sadhana by breaking her trust and not believing her.

Any husband who has been with his wife for few months knows the good and bad of her and this man has been with her at the worst possible scenario and has seen her come out of this acid fire test in flying colors!



Regardless Alekh deserves that hurt. Because he said to Sadhana when she came back to him that I was abnormal sadhana when I married you. Thats considered emotional divorce in my eyes. He failed to recognize her as his wife and all of a sudeen cause she was away he feels oh he loves her?

I totally Hate Alekh right now.

SOrry if I hurt anyone's feeling but even dogs are loyal to their masters and Animals are loving to their masters when treated nicely.
Sadhana took him out of his misery and he as I have always said treated her as a friend and supported her against Vasu as a friend. He was never a husband and now after she left him he I am not sure if he still loves her. Its more like Guilt that she took care of me. Cause if it was love then he wouldn't leave her and yell at her and not listen to her!

And certainly not agree to a marriage and be ready to destroy some other girls life.
When malika said i give it 100% and she is expecting the same back nothing wrong in that, Alekh, being the cheat he is gave all those angry looks when Malika abused sadhana , did he say anything? nope, thats not love.

He is khudgharz, just like his mother!

Edited by suchitra_1 - 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: suchitra_1



Not really!
He should have believed that She wouldn't do ANYTHING without a REASON!

Sharma family wasn't the only one who was kicking her around

It was Vasu, Indrajeet, Ragini and her husband Alekh who used and used her.

and Sadhna bounced back to Alekh even after she was KICKED out by Alekh's mother and he kicked her again!

So basically she is expected to lick his shoes and come back rolling to him when ever he feels like saying i love you!?

Please !

Alekh should have realized, he didn't loose his memory when he became 'normal; that the Sadhana who risked everything during Shlokh episode would never desert him. Any "normal" person would know that if someone who didn't desert me at the worst of times would not desert me when things are ok. So no not really Alekh is not a victim anymore. Rather he joined Vasu crew in victimizing sadhana by breaking her trust and not believing her.

Any husband who has been with his wife for few months knows the good and bad of her and this man has been with her at the worst possible scenario and has seen her come out of this acid fire test in flying colors!


Regardless Alekh deserves that hurt. Because he said to Sadhana when she came back to him that I was abnormal sadhana when I married you. Thats considered emotional divorce in my eyes. He failed to recognize her as his wife and all of a sudeen cause she was away he feels oh he loves her?

I totally Hate Alekh right now.

SOrry if I hurt anyone's feeling but even dogs are loyal to their masters and Animals are loving to their masters when treated nicely.
Sadhana took him out of his misery and he as I have always said treated her as a friend and supported her against Vasu as a friend. He was never a husband and now after she left him he I am not sure if he still loves her. Its more like Guilt that she took care of me. Cause if it was love then he wouldn't leave her and yell at her and not listen to her!

And certainly not agree to a marriage and be ready to destroy some other girls life.
When malika said i give it 100% and she is expecting the same back nothing wrong in that, Alekh, being the cheat he is gave all those angry looks when Malika abused sadhana , did he say anything? nope, thats not love.

He is khudgharz, just like his mother!



Yes, he didn't loose his memory. But is he really that mature to understand everything ? She didn't desert him before but things are so different now. So much has happened all this time...he remembered his past, how CM used him all this time, wanting to prove himself, Ranveer going to prison due to Sadhana's statement, Ragini's miscarriage, Sadhana was thrown out etc etc. Most of the things went in Vasu's favor.

Alekh can't see how much he has hurt Sadhana and didnt support her when she needed him the most where as he is shocked, hurt and angry after seeing the divorce papers clearly shows that he is not mature enough to understand everything and can be easily misguided. I dont think he fully understands the role of a husband yet. He wanted to bring her back only because he realized his love for her and what she means to him but he still hasn't felt her pain. He needs to understand the difference between right and wrong.

As for Mallika, can't she see how much he is ignoring her. He is not hiding anything from her or giving her false promises or hopes. She is the one who is after a married man, he is not even divorced yet.

Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago
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Not really!
He should have believed that She wouldn't do ANYTHING without a REASON!

Sharma family wasn't the only one who was kicking her around

It was Vasu, Indrajeet, Ragini and her husband Alekh who used and used her.

and Sadhna bounced back to Alekh even after she was KICKED out by Alekh's mother and he kicked her again!

So basically she is expected to lick his shoes and come back rolling to him when ever he feels like saying i love you!?

Please !

Alekh should have realized, he didn't loose his memory when he became 'normal; that the Sadhana who risked everything during Shlokh episode would never desert him. Any "normal" person would know that if someone who didn't desert me at the worst of times would not desert me when things are ok. So no not really Alekh is not a victim anymore. Rather he joined Vasu crew in victimizing sadhana by breaking her trust and not believing her.

Any husband who has been with his wife for few months knows the good and bad of her and this man has been with her at the worst possible scenario and has seen her come out of this acid fire test in flying colors!



Regardless Alekh deserves that hurt. Because he said to Sadhana when she came back to him that I was abnormal sadhana when I married you. Thats considered emotional divorce in my eyes. He failed to recognize her as his wife and all of a sudeen cause she was away he feels oh he loves her?

I totally Hate Alekh right now.

SOrry if I hurt anyone's feeling but even dogs are loyal to their masters and Animals are loving to their masters when treated nicely.
Sadhana took him out of his misery and he as I have always said treated her as a friend and supported her against Vasu as a friend. He was never a husband and now after she left him he I am not sure if he still loves her. Its more like Guilt that she took care of me. Cause if it was love then he wouldn't leave her and yell at her and not listen to her!

And certainly not agree to a marriage and be ready to destroy some other girls life.
When malika said i give it 100% and she is expecting the same back nothing wrong in that, Alekh, being the cheat he is gave all those angry looks when Malika abused sadhana , did he say anything? nope, thats not love.

He is khudgharz, just like his mother!

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Well said and so true. Aalekh is just like Vasu, chip off the old block! I've been carping about this till my throat ran dry ,glad to find another person who thinks along the same lines. atleast i dont feel like im going insane a la Aalekh and was beginning to develop trust issues myself. 😆

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