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Posted: 15 years ago
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Rajinder was Upset because Anuj had taken away Anita's bangles to get some Money to help Rajinder and Rajinder called that trial of Anuj 'sharmnaak'{I never Supoort calling any of your child Buddhoo-Nalayak etc etc and Comparing him/her with Other siblings because this not only increases sibling rivalry n jealousy but also Demotivates the Son/Daughter to imrove himself/herself- Parents Should always be +ve,never -ve}
Rajinder then added ...MERI SIMMO HOTI TOH....
Can U answer Simmo Hoti Toh Kyaa Karti??
What WRONG had ANuj Done in this case ..... I Did not Understand....
Comments,Suggestions about What Simmo could've done{Simmo Herself Sold her mobile when she need money} are Welcome...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: iamindian

Rajinder was Upset because Anuj had taken away Anita's bangles to get some Money to help Rajinder and Rajinder called that trial of Anuj 'sharmnaak'{I never Supoort calling any of your child Buddhoo-Nalayak etc etc and Comparing him/her with Other siblings because this not only increases sibling rivalry n jealousy but also Demotivates the Son/Daughter to imrove himself/herself- Parents Should always be +ve,never -ve}

Rajinder then added ...MERI SIMMO HOTI TOH....
Can U answer Simmo Hoti Toh Kyaa Karti??
What WRONG had ANuj Done in this case ..... I Did not Understand....
Comments,Suggestions about What Simmo could've done{Simmo Herself Sold her mobile when she need money} are Welcome...

I also agree with you!! But in hindsight RS knew his son better than anyone else. But he was still wrong to yell at Anuj in front of everyone. He could have talked to him alone and in a calm manner!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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bt he should not sold the bangles of bahu as it costs a lot in indian culture.. bt i still not willing to say that RS should scream at him so loudly....
Edited by sahanaya - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Absolutely agree with you all .

RS should have confronted Anuj when he was alone and should have tried talking
in a calmer way.
Also as said, no parent should be calling their child 'nalayak, etc'
He was trying his bit to help...(though it was wrong to take away his wife's bangles for that)

And comparison with siblings is a strict no-no.

We saw what effect this had on Anuj, with him joining hands with RB against his own father.

Its so sad
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thanks for your replies...Yeah i like that rajinder loves his daughters but loving your daughters doesn't mean you've to call your unsmart son Stupid,Nalayak etc etc,....after all you are doing harm to yourself by pushing him away..??
Agreed that daughters are Good enough to take care of parents But if you have a Son too what's wrong in that..??And you know what I beleive that children become what parents make of them and rAjinder is 50% responsible for lack of Smartness n confidence in Anuj..... He always does a StepFatherly behaviour with anuj though he told anuj that day ki "Main tumhara himmat barhane ki koshish karta aaya hoon...when??Rajinder is very partial towards his dauughters as Manju is with her Son....don't know why!!
DID RAJINDER EVER TELL NEETU Anything about the Biiiiiiiiiiiiiig shameful thing that she's done...Only because She's a Daughter?😡
Why Didn'y Rajinder Bedakhal neetu from His property? Only because Neetu is a Daughter??
Hasn't she done something thay's highly shameful for Middle class Indian Society?? Aren't Manju Rajinder feeling ashamed in front of daadi jhust because of Neetu?
So why just call Anuj Nalayak..?? How about Neetu??
Sorry but I think Parenting is one of the toughest jobs.... and 1 biiiiiig thing is showing kids the right way wiithout taunting them or deserting them So that they don't walk they way of Self-Destruction like Anuj..!!
Edited by iamindian - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: iamindian

Thanks for your replies...Yeah i like that rajinder loves his daughters but loving your daughters doesn't mean you've to call your unsmart son Stupid,Nalayak etc etc,....after all you are doing harm to yourself by pushing him away..??

Agreed that daughters are Good enough to take care of parents But DID RAJINDER EVER TELL NEETU Anything about the Biiiiiiiiiiiiiig shameful thing that she's done...Only because She's a Daughter?
Why Didn'y Rajinder Bedakhal neetu from His property?
Hasn't she done something thay's highly shameful for Middle class Indian Society?? Aren't Manju Rajinder feeling ashamed in front of daadi jhust because of Neetu?
So why just call Anuj Nalayak..?? How about Neetu??
Sorry but I think Parenting is one of the toughest jobs.... and 1 biiiiiig thing is showing kids the right way wiithout taunting them or deserting them So that they don't walk they way of Self-Destruction like Anuj..!!

anytime dear...🤗
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes thats right iamindian.......comparing the children with other siblings and finding faults highly demotivates the person........
but in this case Anuj deserves it 😡😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Actually LATA- If U remember,right from the beginning Rajinder is shown Taunting his Son because he's not that Good....I don't remember watching anything that Anuj had done before stealing his PapaJi's FD that Rajinder had to call him Nalayak etc....
And this time How Did ANUJ DESERVE the insult from Rajinder When he tried to help his Papaji with the money he'd got..haan..??

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