Originally posted by: gagan95
but she is doing all this for the happiness of the people she loves because they took her mom and her in as a part of their family.
and even if she loves veer she thinks of him as tapu's husband and doesn't want to hurt tapu.
also doesn't want to hurt vansh because he is sooo dependent on her.
Does she really love her Mother, or even her adopted father?
Does she ever respect her Mother's feelings?
She listens more to Tapu and her Nani rather than her own Mother or Jogi!
Seems to me that Icha's priorities are mixed up as she only thinks about TAPU 24hrs/7days of teh week..
Icha, herself said to her Mother, after coming from the hospital that after being shot: "It wasn't you I saw, or Papa, but TAPU, TAPU, TAPU"!!!
How would any Mother feel after listening to that?
What Icha doesn't understand is, that was the face of her Killer that she saw before passing out! 😆
It's not that Icha is manipulated, as she is quite intelligent but has a 'people-pleasing' syndrome, even if tehse people go against her own good. She likes to please abusive people and remain in abusive relationships.
In fact, now after being brain-washed all these years by Tapu and her Nanni, Icha has also learned the craft of manipulation and control freakery!
Then that: "I will run away from you if you don't let me marry my fiance's brother!"
That is making blatant threats after learning it from her abusive freind and her Nani.
It is clear when she has hurt and shows absolutely no respect for her dear Mother's good advice or for Jogi (and his wife) who have looked after her all these years, but yet is so careful not to step on egg shells when it comes to her abusers such as Tapasya, Nani, Veer's Mother, Grandfather, Sid, Vansh etc.
Edited by cluelass - 15 years ago