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mechocoholic

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Posted: 15 years ago

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That this show is for real...i mean there is pretty much a consensus on the forum that this show is a farce, and the groom as well as most of the wanna be brides are here for fame and money, and whatever else they can gain from the publicity, other than love....but just for this topic, for argument sake we assume that this show is real, RM's intentions are honurable (?)...and the girls too are genuinely interested in "the man"...not what the show, or RM can do for them.....if we assume this, then...

Q 1. Who do you think genuinely would make a good pair with RM? In every way, temparament, outlook on life, looks, as well as compatibility....

Q 2. Which girl of the top 4 is the least compatible according to you?

Q 3. Assuming he really intends to marry one of these girls for good, not just for publicity, then do you think RM deserves a second chance in life??? I mean yes, the guy has done some pretty terrible stuff in the past, and actually has acted pretty much as a sleaze on the show too....but everyone can commit mistakes, it is whether or not he is genuine to turnaround his life is what is important, if say he really intends to make a 180 degree turn in life....do you think he is worthy of a second chance??? Can he be trusted?

Q 4. If there is a marraige at the end of this show, what according to you would it take for Indian audiences to be convinced that the marraige was for real, i mean how could the couple convince the indian people, is it with time, when people see the marraige lasting long, or what is it???

Q 5. Lastly, how much if anything at all, do the contestants other than winner gain from such shows???? I mean what have all the guys from rakhi's swayamvar achived or gained from the show??? Do such shows really provide any benefit to the particpants????

Sorry for the long post, but the show will be over soon, and this thought just popped in my head , that what if at the end of the show, he really marries a girl for good, and they live happily ever after, i highly doubt that's gonna happen, but i can't help myself....heehee...i am such a hopless romantic.....ask my hubby...😳😳😳

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Hey i tried to do that....not for one second but for whole one minute but that made me 🤣 .....donno why 🤔

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mechocoholic

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: coolgal_dmg
Hey i tried to do that....not for one second but for whole one minute but that made me 🤣 .....donno why 🤔

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Samirah Hossenbux

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Q 1. Who do you think genuinely would make a good pair with RM? In every way, temparament, outlook on life, looks, as well as compatibility....

Mrinmai is a better match because I think he needs someone to ground him and mature him. He's too childish! But, she would bore him to death. He likes the excitement with someone like Dimpy, but after a while, he would get annoyed with Dimpy because she sis very childish. The others, I don't think are a good match for him at all.

Q 2. Which girl of the top 4 is the least compatible according to you?

Nikunj is the least compatible. She is not flexible and unwilling to compromise, and I get the feeling that with Rahul, she will have to compromise a lot. She's not completely mature enough to understand why a marriage has to be a compromise between people.

Q 3. Assuming he really intends to marry one of these girls for good, not just for publicity, then do you think RM deserves a second chance in life??? I mean yes, the guy has done some pretty terrible stuff in the past, and actually has acted pretty much as a sleaze on the show too....but everyone can commit mistakes, it is whether or not he is genuine to turnaround his life is what is important, if say he really intends to make a 180 degree turn in life....do you think he is worthy of a second chance??? Can he be trusted?

I think everyone deserves a chance to grow up, realize what they want in life, and then make their life better. I pray for the girls' sake that he does grow up and is more mature now than he has been in the past.

Q 4. If there is a marraige at the end of this show, what according to you would it take for Indian audiences to be convinced that the marraige was for real, i mean how could the couple convince the indian people, is it with time, when people see the marraige lasting long, or what is it???

Time is the only thing that would convince the Indian audience that the marriage was working. That and no rumours that they are fighting constantly in their home, etc.

Q 5. Lastly, how much if anything at all, do the contestants other than winner gain from such shows???? I mean what have all the guys from rakhi's swayamvar achived or gained from the show??? Do such shows really provide any benefit to the particpants????

I don't think men gain as much as the women do on these shows. There was one numuna who is now staring in a serial after doing RKS. He was there for fame only. But, in this case, when you have sexy girls who are willing to dance around and display all that they have, they will futher their careers in some way - maybe more modelling, acting on TV or films (even if it's small roles).

Overall, it would be nice if for once, this show actually did end up in a marriage. Like the many bachelor shows in Canada and the US, they rarely end in marriage! After the show, the person finds out that the one he chose is not really what she seemed (or the girl finds out that the bechelor is something else than what was portrayed), and they are not compatible. They break it off ... so chances are unfortunately in the negative for Rahul.

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RedHighHeels

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Posted: 15 years ago

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thats long post with longer questions..

I can try to answer the gist of the question..

For a second if we assume show is real.. then I think Dimpy is correct choice for Rahul.. Not everyone needs mature people aroudn them.. two Childish people together can actually make a good companionship.. Who needs to grow wise.. if your basics are covered. Mr Pramod Mahajan has left them enough money to enjoy the life...

With time and age... Everyone finds their balance as needed by life.. Marriage should not be a complimentary thing.. It should something which assists you to realise your fuller self..

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Samia

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Q 1. Who do you think genuinely would make a good pair with RM? In every way, temparament, outlook on life, looks, as well as compatibility....Hmm I think that harpreet would make a good pair with him because she's gorgeous, mature, very diplomatic [so wouldnt give him a negative image], hardworking, fun when she wants to be.

Q 2. Which girl of the top 4 is the least compatible according to you? Okay a lot of people might disagree with me here..but mrinmai. Only because I think they have the leasttt chemistry and I think thats one of the most important things in marriage. You cannot be truly happy with a person who bores you. There needs to be that excitement and inner feeling when youre with your spouse.

Q 3. Assuming he really intends to marry one of these girls for good, not just for publicity, then do you think RM deserves a second chance in life??? I mean yes, the guy has done some pretty terrible stuff in the past, and actually has acted pretty much as a sleaze on the show too....but everyone can commit mistakes, it is whether or not he is genuine to turnaround his life is what is important, if say he really intends to make a 180 degree turn in life....do you think he is worthy of a second chance??? Can he be trusted? I think he deserves a second chance because yes..everyone makes mistakes. And assuming that the show is not scripted..all the families he met commented that they had a total different image of him before meeting him. But after meeting him, their opinion on him changed. It seems like adults do like him because he seems so respectful and he seems very genuine. He always speaks his mind.

Q 4. If there is a marraige at the end of this show, what according to you would it take for Indian audiences to be convinced that the marraige was for real, i mean how could the couple convince the indian people, is it with time, when people see the marraige lasting long, or what is it??? Well, when they are married and years after theyre still married and then if they have a kid! I'll totally be convinced.

Q 5. Lastly, how much if anything at all, do the contestants other than winner gain from such shows???? I mean what have all the guys from rakhi's swayamvar achived or gained from the show??? Do such shows really provide any benefit to the particpants???? they actually don't gain much. People who come for publicity come because they hope someone ends up noticing them. People who come for genuine reasons hope that they really win because it means a lot to them. Unless someone is just an amazinggg person...they wont gain much. They will be forgotten soon. For example, I think gadha singh will be remembered for a while..but even her..unless she gets another show..will be forgotten.

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rainy.days

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: samirah23

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You took all the words right out of my mouth! I pretty much agree with this entire post!

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mechocoholic

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Thanks you all, for taking the time to answer my questions...

@ serial queen ji,

I agree with almost all your answers,

especially Q 4. i too think that if, they end up having a kid together, then i'll believe them, because, once you share a child than you can never be completely out of each other's lives, you are always connected thru the child...😳

I however disagree with your 1st choice, i think dimpy compliments him more, and he seems to have more fun with her ( no pun intended 😉) and is more at ease with her, I do agree about mrinmayi...i think she'll be next on the chopping block...

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