Why it is always girls?

We all know why Sid and Ridz marriage happened.Its not bcos of love but bcos Shanky and Padma expected ridz to save their respect in the socity. I just want to ask a question.Consider instead of daughter if they had a son, will they ask him do the samething. I mean, will they ask their son to marry the affected girl. I dont think so. They'll try to avoid it telling she is not a good girl.Saving sanskar and respect is only for girls not for boys? Why all are expecting a girl to do sacrifice?Why its always a girl need to be perfect and clean for a boy , why not the otherway around.Even today, many girls are going through these tests in real life especially in Indian socity.This needs to be changed.Pls. give importance to womans feelings also. Dont treat them like materials.

first dont expect any logic in the show.....
secondly...we call ourselves a civilized society but the truth is that still women are treated as the keepers of the values....however higher she might be in her career she is still expected to follow certain unspoken norms laid by the society..but this very society forgets that when u point one finger at someone there are three pointing back at u....sadly the MEN are not to follow these rules whereas the FEMALES have to follow and no one asks them for their views or thoughts... ..it will not see a mans fault even if he is the guilty but its always the girls fault even if she is not guilty...that the way it has been and that is how it is going to be always !!