I get Bauji's logic now!

Originally posted by: champakiran

oh my! said exactly something on similar lines in another post - Repeating it here😃

Bauji's behavior was pretty unpalatable!! It was hard on Nupur!! I found it hard to sit through the scene - he was just so mean (can't find any other nicer word) - and I know I will never watch that particular scene again!!

However, I was just trying to think how a father would react! I think most fathers would be v.v.angry - bauji got publicly insulted, told that he was trying to palm off his "kaalik" on to the boy's house - told that no baraat would ever come to his house to be insulted like that - and that he should marry his daughter off to this ladka!!
We should remember that bauji has his second daughter to think of - so as not to create any public scandal he must have thought to himself - ok Nupur wants to marry Mayank - fine - let her do so - but she has to be punished for what she's done to the family - that he would perform a father's duty of kanyadaan and thus fulfill his responsibility and then he's done with Nupur. You could see through out the epi - he had this stern look on his face and he only smiled a little when Gunjan came to his side!!

I found that what Bauji did was a little premeditated - he asked Mayank to marry Nupur and told her kush raho - all along knowing that he was intending to break relations off with Nupur once the marriage had been completed! His attitude was that damage had been done to the family name - he needed to rectify what he could and move on - behavior which I found to be v.cold! He forgot - that Nupur begged him that she could not imagine life with anyone else but Mayank - but he refused to listen!!

At the moment the wound that Nupur has inflicted on her father is so fresh - that it would take time to heal - and I'm sure he'll mellow down over time. However till then he said some pretty mean things to Mayank - as if Adhiraj was financially independent and was not going to live off his father!!

I really hope the CVs give a good track to Mayur to allow them to prove - just because they married young does not mean that it is the end of the world and they can survive and come out stronger - and pyaar does not become "zeher" in such circumstances!!

Originally posted by: champakiran

oh my! said exactly something on similar lines in another post - Repeating it here😃

Bauji's behavior was pretty unpalatable!! It was hard on Nupur!! I found it hard to sit through the scene - he was just so mean (can't find any other nicer word) - and I know I will never watch that particular scene again!!

However, I was just trying to think how a father would react! I think most fathers would be v.v.angry - bauji got publicly insulted, told that he was trying to palm off his "kaalik" on to the boy's house - told that no baraat would ever come to his house to be insulted like that - and that he should marry his daughter off to this ladka!!
We should remember that bauji has his second daughter to think of - so as not to create any public scandal he must have thought to himself - ok Nupur wants to marry Mayank - fine - let her do so - but she has to be punished for what she's done to the family - that he would perform a father's duty of kanyadaan and thus fulfill his responsibility and then he's done with Nupur. You could see through out the epi - he had this stern look on his face and he only smiled a little when Gunjan came to his side!!

I found that what Bauji did was a little premeditated - he asked Mayank to marry Nupur and told her kush raho - all along knowing that he was intending to break relations off with Nupur once the marriage had been completed! His attitude was that damage had been done to the family name - he needed to rectify what he could and move on - behavior which I found to be v.cold! He forgot - that Nupur begged him that she could not imagine life with anyone else but Mayank - but he refused to listen!!

At the moment the wound that Nupur has inflicted on her father is so fresh - that it would take time to heal - and I'm sure he'll mellow down over time. However till then he said some pretty mean things to Mayank - as if Adhiraj was financially independent and was not going to live off his father!!

I really hope the CVs give a good track to Mayur to allow them to prove - just because they married young does not mean that it is the end of the world and they can survive and come out stronger - and pyaar does not become "zeher" in such circumstances!!

Guys today when I saw the episode, I was really sad…cuz all the things that nupur's dad said to her were just so harsh!!.😭..it seriously made me cry too…why I think bauji got mayur married is cuz no matter how mad at her he is right now he knows that if he does get her married to mayank now her reputation in the society would be completely destroyed and people will say all the bad stuff about her…so he got her married but he is not only angry but completely hurt cuz we know that mayank is a really good guy but all he has seen and heard is first him and nupur by the ladder and then him in adha-raj's wedding attire in nupur's room right when she was about to get married…..so if you look at it from his point of view you can see why he is so mad at her…he thinks that after all these years that he raised his daughter she still didn trust him….as far as I am concerned this is all that adha-raj's fault again!!.😡😡.he makes himself out to be really good and "sanskari" in front of the parental units and that's why her dad thinks he is the one who is good and mayank is bad…if he was that good then why didn he admit to nupur's dad and his own dad that he already knew about mayur and was planning on backing out of this wedding.😡😡.but hopefully her dad would get over his pain about this hungama and realize that mayur never meant to hurt him and what happened was just a coincidence and not something they were planning….