Originally posted by: zarmeeno
U know what I think Parents are most selfish than anybody else in the world.. They want their kids to sacrifice their lives for them as they did. Love does not expect anything in return but parents do. People say that parents are selfless but I dont agree with this term anymore. I'm a parent myself and i can say that. Yes we do lot of things for our kids but y do we want a return for all those sacrifices that we've made for them. I have not watched a single serial where parents are shown selfless and encourages their kids to do whatever they want to do. yes we should stop our kids if they are making a mistake but we as a parents start thinking that they kids owe their lives to us so it is their duty to fulfill all our wishes.
Yh, every parent has the right to have their own wishes fulfilled as they have sacrificed their lives for the kids! BUT... not at the stake of their own child's happiness, and anyone who does that doesn't deserve to be called a parent! You can't achieve happiness ever, if u put someone esle, even worse ur own children, in hell!
My mom is very selfless, she cudnt care less about the world... she'll do anything for the sake of me and my sibilings! And we would do anything in return for her, but she'll never ask us to sacrifice our life for her! My mum always says her happiness lies in ours! And thats how it's meant to be, happiness; all around! Relationships don't come with conditions!