Nupur has totally lost it!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi guyz,
I haven't started the topic to offend any of the fans. Pls, its just my POV. Watever, Nupur did today was totally insane I must say. I do not object her being in love n her efforts to save her love by some means. I'm only objecting to her way of dealing with the situation. Her dealing was totally unrealistic. This behavior of the character clearly depicts that she doesn't care abt hr bauji, Gunjan n bui. her bauji luves her sooooooooooooooo much, he can't let anything wrong 2 happen wid his daughters. He brought hr up 4 22 yrs widout his wife's n their mother's support but all of a sudden Nupur just 4got all his n hr family's luv n a boy who just came in hr life a yr and a half ago became imp 2 hr, very bad.............................I'm not saying that such things don't happen in real life, it do but I think most of the youngsters do know abt the repurcushions of running away 4m home 4 the sake of luv. The portrayal of such wrong deeds through a popular serial is wrong 4 the youngsters or teenagers.
I know this is half fiction n half reality but I think fiction shud always portray something which is positive 4 young minds.
In the end, just 2 things:
1. I hope they don't ruin NUpur's bubbly character any more after this marriage story.
2. I hope that none of the teens or youngsters will take it seriously.
Rabia.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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as much as i hate to admit..
i must say i totally agree with you!
i never wanted this too happen
in fact i always thought that her dad will easily accept mayank because they always showed him as the young man every parents would want in their daughters life.
im so glad someone made a topic on this !
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well it was insane...but i have to admit if i was in her position...as much as i loveeeeeeeeeeee my family...i wud do the same...i think u have to really b inlove withsome1 to understand her...i mean if my family objected to my husband...and forced me on some1 else...i would have done exactly the same...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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s agree but u know wat luv ke liye kuch bhi karegaa but i personnally dont like this atl all but this is a showw soo they showw anythingg and s ur right parents r most imp then anyone else bcz parents do evrything for hier chilren and somday their son or daughter run away with somone elsee who has just entered his/her life and forget abt parents and this is not at all right but this hapens in reall alsoo but this is how naa sso sab chalta haii
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hi paris. Thanx 4 replying. I totally agree 2 u. Mayank has always been shown as the most perfect guy but now tables have turned. I still remember the epi where bauji was ready to meet Mayank when Nupur asked him 4 the first time. but 1 big mistake by Mayur n all has been ruined. I'm with bauji. he can certainly punish hr as he wants coz she is his daughter. He gave a chance to both of them which they've lost. I think they shud be punished a little bit. Again no offence to any fan.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Frankly first I'll try dat my parents wud agree 2 my choice, till yet i don't hav any, don't know abt the future. But if i'll hav some in future, i'll try my best to convince my parents but will never ever run away coz it'll never make me happy as i don't want to offend my parent n secondly, the world's a brutal place, never trust it.
on the other hand, LOL coz its just a show.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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agree, she has lost her mind doing that..but we have to admit..that was TOTALLY a NUPUR MOVE...nupz characters has been filmy since the beginning, and for her to NOT take such a step .. would NOT be normal for her character...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Just felt I needed to add my 2 cents:

Eloping/Running Away/Fleeing is never an easy choice - specially for the girl!! Because it usually means severing all ties with her parents and family - the one she has known and loved all her life till this point!! But should she spend a lifetime crying - because no one cared to ask her or bother with what she wanted? There are cases where the girl commits suicide - Is that a better option? In such cases I feel the parents have a huge role to play - to listen to their children and not impose their wishes on them, to trust their judgement and believe in them - once they have taught them the right for wrong - I loved Mayank's Mom when she said - "Mujhe meri Parvarish pe pura bharosa hai" !! Parents spend a life time teaching, training and protecting their children - once they reach Nupur and Mayank's age - parents need to realize that it's time to "give them wings."

The same bauji who had one day said - "I can't stand to see my daughters cry" is now forcing his daughter into a lifetime of misery and tears!! How is that correct? Did Bauji even once think - why is adhiraj so willing to marry Nupur - given the fact that Nupur fooled him all this while! Is he not scared for his daughter's happiness tying her to a guy - who she's not even had one civil conversation with? Did the thought never cross his mind - that it is unnatural for Adhiraj to be so calm and willingly agree - could be he is marrying for revenge?

At this point - yes Nupur knows she's going against her bauji's wishes - but she's in love. Her character is impulsive - acts/speaks first and thinks later. She's being true to form - for her the most important thing at this moment is not to be tied to Adhiraj - and avoid the sagaii at all costs!! That does not mean she does not love her parents or sister - and when time comes will do her all for them!!

Sorry didn't mean to go on about it - just my pov :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: champakiran

Just felt I needed to add my 2 cents: <br><br>Eloping/Running Away/Fleeing is never an easy choice - specially for the girl!! Because it usually means severing all ties with her parents and family - the one she has known and loved all her life till this point!! But should she spend a lifetime crying - because no one cared to ask her or bother with what she wanted? There are cases where the girl commits suicide - Is that a better option? In such cases I feel the parents have a huge role to play - to listen to their children and not impose their wishes on them, to trust their judgement and believe in them - once they have taught them the right for wrong - I loved Mayank's Mom when she said - "Mujhe meri Parvarish pe pura bharosa hai" !! Parents spend a life time teaching, training and protecting their children - once they reach Nupur and Mayank's age - parents need to realize that it's time to "give them wings." <br><br>The same bauji who had one day said - "I can't stand to see my daughters cry" is now forcing his daughter into a lifetime of misery and tears!! How is that correct? Did Bauji even once think - why is adhiraj so willing to marry Nupur - given the fact that Nupur fooled him all this while! Is he not scared for his daughter's happiness tying her to a guy - who she's not even had one civil conversation with? Did the thought never cross his mind - that it is unnatural for Adhiraj to be so calm and willingly agree - could be he is marrying for revenge?<br><br>At this point - yes Nupur knows she's going against her bauji's wishes - but she's in love. Her character is impulsive - acts/speaks first and thinks later. She's being true to form - for her the most important thing at this moment is not to be tied to Adhiraj - and avoid the sagaii at all costs!! That does not mean she does not love her parents or sister - and when time comes will do her all for them!! <br><br>Sorry didn't mean to go on about it - just my pov :)


s dear agree with u totally there was no option left for her soo sh rann and bauji must hav aksed nupps and nups knows that mayu is very good person soo but bauji dont know thatt
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Posted: 15 years ago
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The serial is giving a bad message...In fact, it's giving a good one!....Don't run away and get married....Mayu definitely gave out that message when he convinced Nupur that was she did was wrong and she has to go back.....Naina

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