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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepika9999

u r right.
But its an Indian show n many times Indian parents leave their children alone at home.
I stayed alone at home when i was 5-6 yrs old many times.
Even English shows show explicit sex scenes n others which r not well-accepted in Indian culture.
So do they consider us in their minds.The answer is No.
This show is 4 Indian audience, foreigners don't understand Hindi.
If u consider NRIs as International audience, then no commennts but I think they know pretty much about Indian ways of living




My parents starting leaving us home when i was like 9 or 10 and my brother was like 2 years younger than me. But this was only after i convinced them that im responsible enough...We were only allowed to stay if they were gone for no more than an hour & our rules were that we were not allowed to open the door. "Dont even LOOK to see who it is." We were not allowed to pick up ANY phone calls.

& English shows do show explicit sex scenes & they do keep kids in mind. Thats what ratings are for!
PG-13, 17, Rated R, PG, or totally a kids movie. At least they keep EVERYONE in mind. Once me and my brother went to the video store and picked out a movie which was PG-13 (this was a loooong time ago) and the lady wouldnt let us take it home cause we werent 13.



International= The world.
NRI-People living in the WORLD but not in india.

International=NRI


If NRI's didnt watch these indian TV shows, there wouldnt be a lot of people here on IF
There wouldnt be Indian channels on DISH. etc. People who make these indian tv serials expect international audiences to watch too!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25



I beg to differ! Americans are paranoid because they have reason to be so! There are so many perverts, child-molesters and psychopaths around that people cannot take a risk. Whenever a sex offender moves into any neighbourhood, that school district lets parents know because those sickos pose a threat to the kids. So many times, young schoolgirls on their way home from school have been followed by cars, attempted kidnappings have taken place. So many children are missing in so many states, most of them have been kidnapped and killed or sold!
Better be safe than sorry!

Backyards or front yards, kids have been kidnapped from their own homes, from their own bedrooms! Example, 12 year old girl Elizabeth Smart in Utah was kidnapped from her own bedroom. What about Polly Klaas, who was kidnapped from her mother's home and killed?

And I totally dont agree that American kids are clingy and dependant! In fact they grow up to be quite self reliant and start working from a very young age. Most of them pay for their college by taking jobs from high school years. On the other hand, Indian kids are financed almost totally by doting parents. American kids are quite tough when they grow up. Only they need to be protected during the growing years because thats when kids are the most vulnerable and unsafe.

I didnt allow my daughter to play outside by herself or walk back from school all alone but from her late teens, she went everywhere and did everything by herself, she started working from the age of 16-17. Now she lives in Manhattan, I still worry about her but now I think she can take care of herself becuz now she is not at that vulnerable stage anymore.

Even in India, girls face a lot of eve-teasing and vulgarity from the age of 12 onwards. At first they dont know how to deal with that but gradually learn. India is by no means a safe haven for growing up girls! Everywhere, on public buses, crowded streets, girls are groped and touched inappropriately. I dont know why people are in denial of these facts! 😕

I agree with you! I think hat India is NOT safer than Us! As much as I love my country, I just have to say that the whole police & security system there sucks! You never hear about people getting together and killing for religions in US. There is a high crime rate, but the gov. tihghtens security when something happens. An I definitly do NOT AT ALL think that it is a safer place for girls!!!!! There is so many things on Indian news about this girl getting raped/kiddnapped blah blah blah..... I mean a actor raped his maid!!! Thats safe??
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25



I beg to differ! Americans are paranoid because they have reason to be so! There are so many perverts, child-molesters and psychopaths around that people cannot take a risk. Whenever a sex offender moves into any neighbourhood, that school district lets parents know because those sickos pose a threat to the kids. So many times, young schoolgirls on their way home from school have been followed by cars, attempted kidnappings have taken place. So many children are missing in so many states, most of them have been kidnapped and killed or sold!
Better be safe than sorry!

Backyards or front yards, kids have been kidnapped from their own homes, from their own bedrooms! Example, 12 year old girl Elizabeth Smart in Utah was kidnapped from her own bedroom. What about Polly Klaas, who was kidnapped from her mother's home and killed?

And I totally dont agree that American kids are clingy and dependant! In fact they grow up to be quite self reliant and start working from a very young age. Most of them pay for their college by taking jobs from high school years. On the other hand, Indian kids are financed almost totally by doting parents. American kids are quite tough when they grow up. Only they need to be protected during the growing years because thats when kids are the most vulnerable and unsafe.

I didnt allow my daughter to play outside by herself or walk back from school all alone but from her late teens, she went everywhere and did everything by herself, she started working from the age of 16-17. Now she lives in Manhattan, I still worry about her but now I think she can take care of herself becuz now she is not at that vulnerable stage anymore.

Even in India, girls face a lot of eve-teasing and vulgarity from the age of 12 onwards. At first they dont know how to deal with that but gradually learn. India is by no means a safe haven for growing up girls! Everywhere, on public buses, crowded streets, girls are groped and touched inappropriately. I dont know why people are in denial of these facts! 😕



pallavi25 i agree with u... when i saw 7 i was in the mideast and i went with my 3 cousins to the candy store in front of their house.. my first time and i was attempted to be kidnapped.. this "gali ka gunda" picked me up and started running.. luckily my cousin was their and beat up that loser or who knows what would've happened.. this happens..okay.. i live in america and it never happened because my parents are pretty good about my safety NOT PARANOID....

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: brainychild92

<br><font size="2"><br></font><font size="2">pallavi25 i agree with u... when i saw 7 i was in the mideast and i went with my 3 cousins to the candy store in front of their house.. my first time and i was attempted to be kidnapped.. this "gali ka gunda" picked me up and started running.. luckily my cousin was their and beat up that loser or who knows what would've happened.. this happens..okay.. i live in america and it never happened because my parents are pretty good about my safety NOT PARANOID....<br></font><br>



OMG! You really had a narrow escape! Thank Heavens ur cousin saved you!
I agree, Asian countries are not at all safe for growing girls! When I was 11, some guys misbehaved with me in Delhi where we used to live at that time. We kids were quite innocent in those times (no internet, no TV) so I didnt even understand what they were trying to do until my mother saw them and yelled at them!
I guess the Aap Ki Antara creatives read this post as they are now showing the pedophile trying to lure Antara away.
Its really dangerous to let an autistic girl like Antara wander off by herself. Anything can happen when even normal girls that age are allowed to go anywhere by themselves!
We Indians like to hide the truth and shove it under the mat but the ugly truth rears its head when u read the newspapers!
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