burying the dead

hello everyone.i am an inactive member of IF.but 2day after reading many threads,posts bashing mayank and nupur.i was surprised.The rate at which the charecters of mayank-nupur have been altered 4 da past few months,this should come as no surprise.In fact we should be glad i guess for showing them getting married, nupur getting pregnent track would have been a lot more worse.The charecter of nupur has destroyed long ago, in the beginning she was the charecter who showed most promise.she was bubly,charming and chirpy no doubt but most impressing was her zest for life.she was shown the most ambitious,a lovable drama queen she wants to do something grand with her life,only she doesnt know what it is.thus the craving for movies which are everything grand but real.Then came mayank the practical no-nonsense academic who as the only son of a single working mother wants to give his mother a comfortable life hence the extreme focus on academics.he even avoids social life fearing it might be a distraction.M & N would have been perfect 4 each other.mayank would have taught nupur that life is not movie like,helped her figure what she wanted and what she wanted to do with her life.similarly nupur would have taught mayank that relationships are equally important.we have to have 4nds who care 4 us and success doesnt matter if u dont have people cheering 4 u.there is nothing wrong if u want 2 marry ur bf after settling down and expect him 2 commit and mayank reacted as any guy in college would.so i have nothing against that track.even da whole PDA track was tolerable.just as samrat has the cool dude image mayank has the cool nerd image.his image-conciousness was da reason dat he didnt want anyone to know abt them, as the topper & smartest guy of college he commands respect everywhere and lets face it couples are an integral part of college gossip.mayank had to come out of it & realise it doesnt matter just as samrat did.what could have been gud tracks were screwed big time.instead it was morena and a confession in traffic jam,i hope he did it because he realised he was being vain and not because nupur wanted it.but it was after adhiraj that it became nonsense.nupur asking suhani 2 b nupur bhushan so dat she wouldnt have 2 face him wat was dat? it was beyond me so i quit trying 2 comprehend it.nupur was shown dumb,selfish.but the last blow 2 her charecter was dat she loves & respects her family very much.the real nupur would never think of running away no matter what the circumstances.whatever lil grace left in da pair was completely taken away after da ladder epi.mayank would never say or do anything like dat.the most intelligent and mature of all mayank is shown having less sense than samrat.or i guess dey r showing dat mayank loves nupur more than samrat loves gunjan.any way the show has lost it & for da sake of my sleep and sanity i m quitting it. arjun and rati r da only reason i watched it but there is a limit to amount of crap one can take.sry if u find my post long or boring or stupid.its just my pov.the whole point of the show was dead long ago.we just didnt realise it because we were so much in love with arti/mayur.