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rpmenon

@rpmenon

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Posted: 16 years ago

#31

I am sure that unless she sees DM with some other woman,she will keep on being a door mat.Oh wait! Even if she sees that,she will still think that something is wrong with HER,that he took that step.Sorry for this poor example,but thats just how pi---i am,about this show.

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farhana

@Rakhie_08

Rocker

Posted: 16 years ago

#32

No Radhika don't say that yaar.

It has to get better.

Santu has to slowly start making an identity for herself. She has to start being more assertive even if not outright defensive.

DM has to start seeing Santu for what she really is. A priceless human being. He has to start seeing her as his equal to some degree.

I know I said to fuzz it'll never happen, but I'm not hoping or expecting an overnight miracle, just for the first seeds to be sown that's all.

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fuzzyface

@fuzzyface

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#33

But it's so tiring to see Spineless like this all the time.

I mean she has stood up against ppl esp for her children all the time

y isn't she doing it for herself.

as an audience i am getting very irritated.

but i suppose ur right rads, hoping for a better bandini is not on the cards

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farhana

@Rakhie_08

Rocker

Posted: 16 years ago

#34

You know sometimes it's easier to fight for others than fight for yourself.

But it would be nice to see Santu being just a littleit more assertive with people.

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rpmenon

@rpmenon

Rocker

Posted: 16 years ago

#35

Rakhie,yaar i am soo tired of this waiting.I have been waiting somewhere from last july,for him to accept her as a human being and for her to behave like an individual who has her own mind.Instead he behaves as if she is some pet dog,and she boosts that image by her attitude and behavior.

She never learns.Thats so sick,and i cannot stand women who bend their spine backwards.Women should be submissive to some extent,like you said,i also want them to cherished and protected.But that doesnt mean being a loyal dog.--S*he is behaving like one.Anyone can say anything,and do anything,she grins like a fool,or cry like a dumbo.Thats all she does.Going behind DM like a pet wearing a payal.

I am sorry,really i am,its just that i am so angry with this track.Beyond words.

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fuzzyface

@fuzzyface

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#36

rads yes i feel exactly the same

she is just made like a puppet!

it's really too much now esp with this track. u know they keep adding twist here n there but i prefer a simple story not complicated ones.

it was so simple back then now it's just like any other indian serial!

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farhana

@Rakhie_08

Rocker

Posted: 16 years ago

#37

Radhika you're right. I agree.

SanRaj relationship is completely messed up. But in all honesty, despite Santu lacking the strength to stand up for herself, I think the greater part of the blame lies with DM

Santu is a young girl, head over heels in love with her dashing charismatic husband. This is her first love and she is still in the first flushes of love.

DM is wiser and more experienced. This is his second stab at love and marriage. So he is in a better position to be able to make the necessry actions to rectify the weaknesses in their relationship.

DM needs to start treating her as a woman and less as a little girl. He needs to engage with her as his wife and equal and less like she is his lapdog. He can start with talking to her like a person instead of barking orders at her like he's instructing his pet. 'Bol' Chal' What is all that!??!

He might aswell be saying 'sit' 'wag tail' 'roll over'!!

And enough with gesturing to her and dragging her by the forearms even if it is for a good reason. Normal people take their wife by her hands DM

Edited by Rakhie_08 - 16 years ago