Is marriage everything..???

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 15 years ago

Most of you must have read the TB article which confirmed that Shravni will indeed get pregnant. But the sad part is... to save her honour she has to marry Manav. MANAV!!!!😲

Yes, the same Manav who took care of her when she was a little child playing in the garage while he used to work there.. a brother like relationship...!!

But what I found even bad was that- just bcoz she is pregnant and needs to get married to be accepted by society, she will get married to a person far below her level. Actually who is no way in her league.😕

Cos as much as we love Manav and say he is the perfect husband, son and brother, we have to accept that he is not at all right for Shravani... Shravni is highly educated, foreign returned, belongs to a high class, has high standards, lifestyle and thinking, she is independent and working, has led a sheltered life and is probably not used to facing the hardships of daily life like Manav has been facing since the age of 16.

Whereas Manav is a poor, uneducated mechanic, of low class, having lived all his life in a chawl, nothing more than her dad's favourite worker(=servant) clearly of no match to her. I agree that money and education alone do not guarantee a happy married life... but every girl wud like her husband to be at least as much educated as she is... if not more rich... it seems unfair to me that shravani has to crush her dreams in this manner just to get married...

All these things wud not have bothered if it was a love marriage, cos when in love, these things don't really matter.. you tend to overlook them.. but in this case, it is an arranged marriage... worse still.. the guy hasn't even got divorced and clearly hasn't got over his lost love as well... I dont understand how Girishji can agree to this marriage..😕

Not to forget the fact that he knows what a monster-in-law Savita is... this father is getting his daughter married in a house which has been accused of harassing their DIL... unbelievable..!!😉

It really is sad that for one mistake...(and that too a case of clear bad luck.. she was gonna get married to Sachin and they were both loyal) the girl has to make so many sacrifices of her dreams, even then there is no security of her happiness cos Manav does not love her and is also much elder to her... only so that she can get accepted by society... when high class girls like her have to face such dilemmas then what to say of others...😭

Not to say that I feel like slapping her father right now... at such a time he needs to support his daughter but he is marrying her off to the first guy he can get just to avoid disgrace... is his daughter such a burden to him?😡

That too when he has so many options.. he can take his daughter somewhere away from this mess... at least she will be happy with the child.. he can give the child to Manav and get shravani married again, Shravani has so much ahead of her but he is putting her in chains of matrimony as if getting married is the ultimate aim of a girl's life... no wonder how much educated, rich, influential and 'modern' these people are.. in the end it all boils down to the same thing..!😡

i am sorry if i am boring you all but really felt frustrated with the fact that Girishji is so desperate for his daughter's marriage that he is ready to give her away to a guy who, even if he tries wont be able to keep her happy. 😭 for the society's sake he will ruin his daughter's life...

Recently watched a wonderful movie 'Paa'; ironically it is the 'Maa' that is vidya Balan whose role comes across as a lovely one... she gets pregnant in college... but does not abort her child.. goes ahead to study more.. brings up her child singlehandedly without a father's name.. herself becomes a big doctor and makes a mark... and never looks back in life or feels sorry for herself...👏 her mother supports her all along..⭐️

And here..!!🤢

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Posted: 15 years ago

BTW...Paa wasn't made by BT...PR is..😆.My fear is Shravni might turn negative...Coz
1. She lost Sachin...the luv of her life
2. Might blame Archu fr this and hence marry Manav more as a revenge towards Archu so that they can never b together
3. Might actually fall in luv wid Manav, latter being such a sweetheart n hence come in the way betn Manav n Archu

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grofers

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think comparing Paa to Serials does go not well.But i think even though Girishji says Sharavani to abort child but she will do all rona dona that this is my Sachin last memory to me and i will keep during this Girishji will ask Savita what to do?then our Savita will plan what if Sharavani won't become my bahu for second son but i do have a first son so she will convice Girishji to ask Manav to marry her.

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Meeti

@mitts

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Posted: 15 years ago

Ok completely agree with u.. Its pathetic now Girishji forgets that Savita is cruel MIL he forget k she will not treat his daughter nice.. He forgets everything in blink n asks Manav to marry Shravani i dono wen this mentality will changed she can raise child w/o father many women do that n they do quite nicely Shravani is educated n she is rich so y do this to her????

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toothbrush13

@toothbrush13

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Posted: 15 years ago

This is ridiculous. Firstly, I still don't understand how the heck she ended up pregnant.

I so agree with you on, why do they have to pick Manav? There are so many other options. Girish is rich man, why can't he just send his daughter off to one of his other houses or back to "foreign". She would be able to live happily with the child and get married again if she wants to to someone of her choosing.

What bothers me more is the brother-sister type of relation that they had. On top of that, I thought Shravani would be smart enough to see that love still exists between ArMan.

What in the world is going on here? They're going to drag it for months more now.

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toshibelekar

@toshibelekar

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Posted: 15 years ago

Leave it PR has turned more ridiculous now. All are thinking about themselves what about poor archana. In all case she has to lose. Her life is ruined.

What happens when if Archu gets pregnant while living at Manav's house, then what solution they will find. This track should come up. Surely Creatives listen to us. Then Lets see What is going to happen. 😡

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 15 years ago

@toshibelkar: I so agree with you.. everyone is thinking about themselves, no one will think abt Archu cos they hate her and no one will think of Manav cos they all take him for granted that he will sacrifice his happinness for them as always...

Archana and Manav are the only one who think about each other.

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toothbrush13

@toothbrush13

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: nikitagmc
Archana and Manav are the only one who think about each other.

So true! I agree with both of you, that Archana and Manav's families only think FOR them, not OF them. They never really bother asking whether they still love each other and why they are getting this divorce. Initially Kaka and then Damodar tried to help Manav, but after the jail and Sachin's death sequence even they have given up. Archana is very lucky to have Varsha and Vaishali acting as catalysts in helping her stand up for herself. We all know how Varsha helped Archana stand up for herself, but even Vaishali, although quietly and subtly, always pointed out to Archana that she liked her jiju and doesn't think that he is bad. Even if it didn't propel her to do as much as Varsha's talks did, it constantly reminded Archana of her love for Manav.

Most of the people in their families just expect them to be obedient pushovers. Now Archana has stood up for what she really wants and hopefully Manav will too.

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