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Posted: 16 years ago
#51
0H and she justs wants her to son to win thats why she did that! If she is only there to get her son married then she has no right to care about the lives of the other kunwars and what they want! She should stop worrying about them! right gulabo fans?
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Posted: 16 years ago
#52
she is total pakkkao typ though i like sum characters of her!!ehhe thnx to her she send poor hitty with ma Sing is king!!heheh ..Lmao
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Posted: 16 years ago
#53
I think that you DON'T understand or just DON'T WANT TO understand what I wrote. And just because SP doesn't intervene, doesn't make gulabo and her son "poor people" or innocent. If you want to keep on overlooking their arrogance and keep on supporting them no matter what, then you are just as BAD as they are!! So, I don't want to waste my time and energy fighting with someone who is too arrogant or too ignorant to see sense. All this aside, I do agree with what you said here:

I agree that sometimes Hitesh mom becomes dominating but why all others have to follow whatever she is saying? are they puppets in her hands ? They are independent adults and they can always oppose her and do whatever they feel like doing( and sometimes they DO whatever they want to do despite of Hitesh mom's ORDERS but most of the times they let themselves become puppets in her hands and show others that how helpless they are in front of her )

Peace 😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: rahul.m17

I think that you DON'T understand or just DON'T WANT TO understand what I wrote. And just because SP doesn't intervene, doesn't make gulabo and her son "poor people" or innocent. If you want to keep on overlooking their arrogance and keep on supporting them no matter what, then you are just as BAD as they are!! So, I don't want to waste my time and energy fighting with someone who is too arrogant or too ignorant to see sense. All this aside, I do agree with what you said here:


Peace 😊



Mr Peace maker ! I am not convinced .....People have different views and choices all the time, you can't judge a person that he is BAD or GOOD just by reading their comments...You could be BAD for those who have different point of views than urs, so don't get emotional or personal, just chill boy !
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Posted: 16 years ago
#55
I am not related to Hitesh''s family but I do like her mainly bcoz I don't think she did anything diff than the others who are on the show......play a game. While some are playing quietly, some are being overtly nice, some are being too polite, some expressive, some are loud. In the end......everyone is playing a GAME to win 25 lakhs.

As for her playing cupid or forcing people to interact, maybe thats her social activist nature coming in to play.

Overall, I don't find her any different than the others in terms of the show, to play to win. She hasn't broken any rules of the show. Maybe she manipulated, maybe she didn't but she is doing everything that she can within her limits to win the show period.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I am all over the place today...🥱
I strongly feel your choices reflect who you are. For example anyone who likes Priyanka and Rajbir must love romance and love. People who like Yash believe in respecting parent's wishes and not make decision based on whims. etc etc
I have nothing against Sudeshrani playing a game. Many of you said she is doing exactly what she is suppose to do and what others are doing as well. She is not calling it a game, she has been acting like she is doing everyone a favor. That makes her a liar so she is no better than anyone else even if they were playing secret quiet games. She is the mother of all manipulations in the show. beside Rumpa and Gurprit almost every girl found her dominating and manipulating. The guys don't like her and the mothers also think she forces her choices on people. We get to see less than 30 minutes everyday they end up living with her. I am sure they are not making these up.
2nd if you want to play then make the right moves on your own. You shouldn't force others. She is crossing the limits with Vivek. If Vivek is unhappy later on would she suffer along with him? I am disturbed by vivek's mother too. Why doesn't she speak up.
We shouldn't bring up her family. If her family is like Hitesh we can understand why they get along so well. As for her she said it herself he is very understanding. Lucky her 😊
Edited by Perfangel5655 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

<FONT color=#006699 size=3 face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">I strongly feel your choices reflect who you are. For example anyone who likes Priyanka and Rajbir must love romance and love. People who like Yash believes in respecting parent's wishes and not make decision based on whims. etc etc</FONT>


<FONT color=#006699 size=3 face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">I have nothing againstSudeshrani playing a game. Many of you said she is doing exactly what she is suppose to do and what others are doing as well.She is not calling it a game, she has been acting like she is doing everyone a favor. That makes her a liar so she is no better than anyone else even if they were playing secret quiet games. She is the mother of all manipulations in the show.</FONT>


<FONT color=#006699 size=3 face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">2nd if you want to play then make the right moves on your own. You shouldn't force others. She is crossing the limits with Vivek. If Vivek is unhappy later on would she suffer along with him? I am disturbed by vivek's mother too. Why doesn't she speak up.</FONT>

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I disagree with the first para. I absolutely love romance and read a lot of Nora Roberts. But, when i watch a reality show, I watch it like a show and do not take everything to my heart. Its like watching a soap, you like the soap and the characters keep u entetained .....thats it.

If u watch it like a show where u see everyone trying to win the first prize and playing the game in their own way then you would see no difference between anyone.......while some use romance to get ahead in the show......some use tears, some drama, some humour and some manipulation, no difference.

In the end the one who wins, gets the money........goes back to their respective family, gets fame and is happy.......thats all
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Posted: 16 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: tina59

I am not related to Hitesh''s family but I do like her mainly bcoz I don't think she did anything diff than the others who are on the show..

  1. She has done everything differently. She orders young girls to make tea and snacks for herself and the sons, which no other mummy has done.
  2. She goes and talks ill about other girls and guys to the respective moms and sons. Everyone have a set of eyes and set of ears and can listen and see for themselves.

While some are playing quietly, some are being overtly nice, some are being too polite, some expressive, some are loud. In the end......everyone is playing a GAME to win 25 lakhs.

I thought her motivation is to get someone married to her son by hook or by crook and to get popular(?). For that she can do anything, even taunt or force somebody into it. This isnt attractive to anyone, but Rumpa!

As for her playing cupid or forcing people to interact, maybe thats her social activist nature coming in to play.
True charity begins at home. She should first teach her son to behave! Now that she is succesful in 'fixing'' him with someone she should relax and plan the wedding. What is all that drama that she is weaving? She isnt allowing people to mingle freely and forcing her opinion on others. Thats not social behavior but intrusive and meddling.

Overall, I don't find her any different than the others in terms of the show, to play to win. She hasn't broken any rules of the show. Maybe she manipulated, maybe she didn't but she is doing everything that she can within her limits to win the show period.

She is twisting rules according to her convinience. When the channel walas sent a notice for all the kunwars to go for the task, what was her problem, that she did not allow Vivek and Yash to go? Its not Vivek's fault that nandita got eliminated, the one person he was interested in pursuing. And then she says you arent serious about getting married.

Winning is a different thing, and winning a game by compromising on basic human values is not right.
Anyway, all this would not have happened, had the guys/moms stood upto her initially. So basically they deserve being tortured by her.


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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree with you 👏
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Posted: 16 years ago
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**Viewbie's note**

The discussion has got really far now and I can see personal attacks being made on each other..before the thread turns more ugly I m closing it😊
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