Aditya is unfair

Originally posted by: methebest

Excuse this but once you're in that place and time. Then you can speak for it. Once someone is told a child is missing Im sure many things comes flying out of their mouths whereas you can't control it. It's called feelings. Many people say things in the heat of the moment and once all is calm then they apologize. It's a normal reaction. If you don't know what it's like to lose a child and be there with the person who was with the child when it happened. Then you can't speak for it. I don't have any kids. But I can safetly say I would of yelled at the person the child was with at the time of the incident. And with all pass feelings might of come up with the yelling as blame. You're picking on him because he got "mad and restless" well isn't that what a parent who loves their kids would do when they are told they're missing??? Ever watched the news and this happens. People are blaming, getting restless etc etc etc when they're kids are missing. He acted completely to the point today. Vidya is doing as some women would praying while the rest of the force would be out searching or giving interviews tot he news people about their missing child..etc etc. Vidya is a mother her reactions are justified as with Adi's reaction considering the situation at hand. Antara is autistic and she's special. She can't be left alone she will wander off. Like what happened to him when he fell one time. Antara wondered off. Vidya made a mistake and she's human. He spoke that way as he's also human.

Edited by 2009Rule - 16 years ago

Originally posted by: 2009Rule

Let me say one last thing it seems like you outright dislike this poor character Adi. The man reacted as any parent would be it a man or woman. He told off Mrs. Gupta and he also spoke harshly toward his own sister with the baba incident. So what he spoke harshly toward Vidya ...what is she made of glass?? breakable if spoken too harshly too?? NO she's not. Vidya is a terrific mother to take on the responsibility of another child. She made a mistake in losing Antara. As Adi over reacted in speaking to her. Both are hurting until you know what is like to LOSE a child then you'll know when at that moment all blame is unleached. First reaction is always the most hurtful. Days to come the family will be together and Vidya and Adi will be forgiving eachother...while you poor soul will continue on blaming the poor man. As for Mrs. gupta and aarti . Adi knew of dislike but the women never harmed or misplaced the child. Antara is missing she is no where to be found. Adi unleached on Mrs. Gupta which made her cry that one time and he told off Aarti to the point he was close to hitting her. So no matter what dear the MAN reacted as any DAD who loves their kids would do.

Originally posted by: 2009Rule

Let me say one last thing it seems like you outright dislike this poor character Adi. The man reacted as any parent would be it a man or woman. He told off Mrs. Gupta and he also spoke harshly toward his own sister with the baba incident. So what he spoke harshly toward Vidya ...what is she made of glass?? breakable if spoken too harshly too?? NO she's not. Vidya is a terrific mother to take on the responsibility of another child. She made a mistake in losing Antara. As Adi over reacted in speaking to her. Both are hurting until you know what is like to LOSE a child then you'll know when at that moment all blame is unleached. First reaction is always the most hurtful. Days to come the family will be together and Vidya and Adi will be forgiving eachother...while you poor soul will continue on blaming the poor man. As for Mrs. gupta and aarti . Adi knew of dislike but the women never harmed or misplaced the child. Antara is missing she is no where to be found. Adi unleached on Mrs. Gupta which made her cry that one time and he told off Aarti to the point he was close to hitting her. So no matter what dear the MAN reacted as any DAD who loves their kids would do.

Originally posted by: monishsekhri

guys aditya is just human, like us. insaan hamesha naap tol ke nahein bol sakta specially when your child has just gone missing