I wouldn't want to marry Rakhi, if i were a guy, because first of all, she is far too outspoken and demanding and doesn't mind even expressing her love to many guys or beating a guy in front of camera.
Outspoken in privacy is fine, but being outspoken on camera is sort of odd. Because then the other person against whom things will be spoken is getting defamed. Rakhi is just so open with her making comments that, she doesn't think of what the other person feels...whether the other person's pride is getting hurt or not. 😕
If i were a guy and end up marrying Rakhi, then I would have to prove my love to her at each day. Because even in the case of Manmohan, he had to say again and again, that he loves her and yet she continues to ask him if he loves her. In her base nature, as long as she doesn't doubt a guy, she is sweet with him, but once she starts doubting a guy, even if he plucks out his heart and keeps it in front of her, she wouldn't believe him.
A guy who is to marry Rakhi should have to do a surgery and remove his spine first of all.😆 Because she doesn't like men who are overpowering or even equal. She prefer men who behave to her as if she is a queen and continue to dance to her tunes and adjusts with her moodswings and doubts. That would be difficult for me, if i were a guy. Because then I will have to live fearing her anger and won't be able to breathe properly.😆
Manmohan, even if he were fake or not, was calm to a great extent while dealing with her harsh looks and statements and questioning. But inspite of that, she couldn't believe him. She continued to want to have explanations from him again and again, regarding Anjali. Any guy would get tired giving explanations all his life.
Perhaps he didn't want to introduce Anjali to Rakhi because he didn't want to ruin Anjali's reputation, because then her name would sort of get linked to him. Whatever be the reason, Rakhi's whole behaviour to him changed after she heard the name of Anjali. She started asking explanation from him again and again and looking at him with eyes filled with doubt.
She also wants the family of the guy to accept her. All of them are behaving sweetly with her right now, because she is Rakhi Sawant. But once she becomes the bahu, they would want her to stick to decency even if they say now in front of media, that she can continue her career as Item number girl.
It is true that she came to the industry because of her poverty. But once she becomes a wife and a mother, will she still continue her career as an Item number girl? She may not look as sensuous, the way she looks now...at that point, when demand for her reduces, when she stops becoming an earning member, will the same family members show the same respect they are showing her now?
All these things we cannot assess now. But Rakhi is quite impulsive in her decision-making. So on many points, she is not the kind of girl, I would like, if i were a guy.😳
Edited by ahem_brahmasmi - 16 years ago