Just thought of posting this because some of the members in this forum are making it difficult for everybody else to interact intelligently! I agree that everybody has preferences and opinions...however, the justifiable behavior is respecting the fact that everyone else is entitled to theirs.
Then there are some people who are so obsessed with one or the other participant that they keep on starting meaningless threads and keep posting on it themselves so that it becomes a "hot topic" with 2 pages entirely written by ONE individual!!
Dont you think that we should all realize that ultimately, Nihira or Hema or Himani or Vineet or HR or any of the other participants and mentors are individuals who have spent months, if not years in making their careers and are definitely more concerned with being successful than we are about them? Why should we fight and bad-mouth them or each other or anybody else for that matter instead of just accepting life as it comes. It seems to me that people in the forum become more upset than the participant that loses. What part of "COMPETITION" is not clear to us? SOmeone has to lose, someone will win...and ultimately who are we to judge what is right and what is wrong?
If the participants are taking paths of least resistance, why are we getting so riled up that we are forgetting our basic duty - to be human!! Why are we separating people out by region or gender or any other aspect?
Go ahead...give me your comments...i would like to know...why is it that you are wasting time arguing about "what ifs" and "whats-his-names" when your significance in their lives is just about as little as a fly in a palace??