Weekly Discussion- Is K cheating on Pammi

Hello KA forum,

Here is the discussion for the week. These are my feelings and looking forward to hearing yours.

Kavya and Pammi got married. Kavya married her by falling into the trap of deceit and never listened to his heart. Despite everyone that wished him well accepting this fact, albeit reluctantly, this does not make it any less of a truth. Marraige is an important thing and must be honored.

Now loyalty in marraige and in relationships is often referred to as a physical feature. I think not. It's mental. If your heart is with someone else belongs to someone else then what use is it if you are in bed with your wife. Kavya always thinks of Anjali every moment and therefore is cheating on his marraige and his wife, Pammi.

I think he should move on be with who his heart truly belongs with and not cheat himself, Pammi and his so called marraige.

Before all of you pounce on me I have to point out that I cannot stand Pammi and couldnt care two hoots for her character, she could be trashed and trampled upon forget decieving her, her reality does not need to be honored.

Yes, he is cheating on Pammi, 😆 but
1. She cheated him and A by helping in breaking their marriage.
2. Do I really care two hoots about Pammi? No. 😆 Please cheat all you want Kavya.

However, I am not sure I think marriage is any kind of sacred bond or union of two people 🤢 . It is simply a state-sanctioned union that probably needs to be done away with as a guarantee of any kind of rights or responsibilities. If two people want to live, eat, and sleep together, they should be able to and seven rounds around a fire or saying "I do" makes little difference. A piece of paper is no guarantee of loyalty, trust, and love either. It should come from the heart.

Of course, I am a bit too progressive in my ideology for most people in this forum. 😊

Great topic Rindam di😃
I also think Kavya is cheating on Pammi. Yeah he is not being faithful to her mentally because anjali is always on his mind since watever he does these days is for Anjali's happiness. But Kavya is also cheating on Pammi physically coz he doesnt have any feelings for her non-existant baby eventhough he is supposed to be the father of it.

But I think more than anything, it's the circumstances which have made it soo difficult for Kavya to be faithful to Pammi. Anjali is always around Kavya since she is engaged to Yug. If Anjali had found sum other guy who wasnt connected to Kavya then KA's paths would cross less and the pain wouldnt be so obvious since they wouldnt have to see each other so often.

I think Pammi's behaviour, looks, nature etc are a major factor why Kavya is cheating on her. I think it's her fault for not being able to make Kavya hers. Kavya is a human and with alot of care and love he would have been able to leave Anjali's memories behind if Pammi's love hadnt been so selfish and disgusting.

so I say Kavya should keep cheating on pammi, so that eventually she walks out on him and gives us a reason to celebrate😊

Bro i agree with u that a piece of paper saying ur husband and wife doesnt ensure alot but it's definitely sumthing which binds people together. The only reason why kavya is with pammi today is because of his marriage with her otherwise he would have left her a long time ago. While the only reason anjali is with Yug is because she is engaged to him and she is gonna fulfil her commitment to him. I think marriage brings alot of security and ensures a lifelong commitment between two people.
I know marriage is not for everyone but I think it does make relationships stronger. But I think Kavya shouldnt treat marriage like a game, because soon after he divorced anjali he was willing to marry her again. That was stupid! It proved he cant even stay away from her for 2 seconds😛

It's not a matter of being progressive or not VJ. Some people believe in the instituion and some dont. I do, and quite enjoy it and treasure my piece of paper. That piece of paper sanctioned by the government means very much to very many people. I agree that love, trust and loyalty do not need proof on a piece of paper. It's rather a symbolic gesture that people make. It's a promise, a special moment among many others that makes me happy.

In KA's context they are just making everyone miserable with the forlorn looks and faces, why dont both K and A borrow some gall if they dont have it and move on with their lives.

Kavya is miserable, Anjali is miserable, Pammi is miserable( pun unintended) and Yug is getting to be miserabble as well. Whats the point. Everyone cheated someone in some way, so get on with it and get what you want. Noone will give it to you on a platter, take it, fight for it. Dont just sit there and whine and be unpleasantly surprized at your wife shrieking in her horrendous high pitched voice.

Originally posted by: sweetweet

but point is......thats not what he should be doing.....he is ruining his life and hers.......and you know...i think in pammi turning into a complete out right b*tch....kavya also has a hand cuz i watching the old tapes and she was quite (i wouldnt say sweet) but still sorta understanding.....he made her insecure.....

The sweet Pammi they showed earlier was just a mask covering the face of the current Pammi. Pammi has always been evil.
She was kinda understanding before coz she wanted to make kavya hers and plus Kavya didnt know about any of the bad things she's done.

But now Pam has become bitter coz after trying so much she still couldnt get Kavya to forget Anjali......plus Kavya has no realised that living with her is worse than a life sentence, which is why Pammi has gone nuts.😊

Originally posted by: Supergirl7

I think Pammi's behaviour, looks, nature etc are a major factor why Kavya is cheating on her. I think it's her fault for not being able to make Kavya hers. Kavya is a human and with alot of care and love he would have been able to leave Anjali's memories behind if Pammi's love hadnt been so selfish and disgusting.

Great point shiroo.

Remmeber when Kavya didnt see her true nature he was so guilty of meeting Anjali secretly and thought he was cheating her. He didnt want to hurt her and his marraige or his baby.

but slowly as her nature came to the fore he started to lose his reason to fight his feelings. He gave up.

Originally posted by: Rindam

Kavya is miserable, Anjali is miserable, Pammi is miserable( pun unintended) and Yug is getting to be miserabble as well. Whats the point.

I agree di. They should realise that there's no point being miserable since life's too short. I think Kavya would fight to be with anjali again and end all this nonsense if anjali gave him the go ahead. I think he doesnt give a damn about what yug and pammi think, I think he is just holding back coz he doesnt want to upset anjali😭

I wish Mrs mittal would do sumthing and knock some sense into her kids. Doesnt she realise that her kids after only picking up the crumbs from the Love cookie that KA shared?😆

Ha ha ha love cookie didnt have any crumbs left to pick up huni.

Yug is an idiot, bloody fool, to even get into the mess, Pammi is just horrible. Mrs. Mittal is the biggest isiot of all to encourage them both. 😆

And I guess thats the whole worry "too short" now our Ekta will never have anything to with being "short and sweet" only "long and draggy" 😆 😆

Originally posted by: Rindam

It's not a matter of being progressive or not VJ. Some people believe in the instituion and some dont. I do, and quite enjoy it and treasure my piece of paper. That piece of paper sanctioned by the government means very much to very many people. I agree that love, trust and loyalty do not need proof on a piece of paper. It's rather a symbolic gesture that people make. It's a promise, a special moment among many others that makes me happy.

And that's fine with me!!😊

But right now in KA, that institution is making a lot of people miserable. And its not like K meant his vows to Pammi to begin with. He cannot. He is human. Please use a brain and break the unsacred bond.

You are right Sheeny, if Kavya was not married to Pammi, he would not be anywhere near her. My point exactly. The institution of marriage is preventing him from being honest, loyal and trustworthy. And eventually, it will ruin all four lives if allowed to continue in this manner. 🤢

When a relationship is over, it is simply over. Here, it never began. People should be allowed to simply pack up and move on. Being married, sacred rituals, vows, and general societal normativity🤢 makes them stay together when they are much better off apart.

If Kavya loves Anjali and vice-versa, he should be with her. Marriage or no marriage. It would make them happy again, and I could hardly care for YP.

although Kavya is cheating on pammi, i am with kavya 😳 b'coz of whatever pammi did to kavya and anjali. though she is kavya's wife but she cannot be his better half-never ever 😡 . she misguided kavya and made him divorce anjali......knowing this kavya forgave her and is compromising his life, his happiness, his love-anjali for her 🤢 . what else can a person do. atleast pammi can't 😒 . so why do we think that kavya is cheating on her as she deserves it. pammi deserves whatever bad kavya is doin to her. she deserves even much more. but poor kavya is so nice that he cannot do anything beyond that 😭 😭 . but trust me whatever kavya is doin is for good 😉