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haristide cesar

@monkeysparx

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Posted: 16 years ago

Hii Guys i'm in a dilemma..

okii so i'm going out with this guy right but hes moved to another country..i'm in england and he's in scotland..i recently turned 15 and he's turning 17 later on this year..i'm trying to make this relationship work but i always fail at everything i try to do..he's quite a ladies amn and he doesn't let people know that he's taken..i am in love with him..i can truly say that..even though i am only 15..but this is as real is it can get for me..sometyms he makes me feel like then most precious girl in the world and other tyms he acts as if he doesn;t care..anyway..he's comin to england and go school here and i kinda feel uncormfortable with the age gap cos i have lyk a year to go of secondary school to go and he's starting college and obviously the college will have girls..i guess..*i admit* that i'll feel a bit insecure..i don't know wah to do..and i don't wanna tlk about this to him cos he wont take me seriously..:( HELP!

THANKS X

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Mahi

@-Mystery-

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Posted: 16 years ago

Please don't take it seriously but I do think that 15 is quite a young age to fall in love. At this age, one's focus should be on studies and career building.

But seeing that you truly feel you're in love, I'll advice you doing in what you don't want to do. Talking to the guy. I know it's the most basic thing and something you don't want to do but it's really simple and almost always it works.

You have to make sure that for the guy you love so much whether or not he reciprocates your feelings. If he's not serious then what's the point of thinking so much about that.

Yes college is a place of freedom and there'll be girls around. But if he truly loves you then you shouldn't be insecure and come what may he'll always be yours. And if he's not serious then assume that he wasn't yours and in that case it's better to move on with life.

-Mahi

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@xsweetbabygyalx

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: monkeysparx
Hii Guys i'm in a dilemma..

okii so i'm going out with this guy right but hes moved to another country..i'm in england and he's in scotland..i recently turned 15 and he's turning 17 later on this year..i'm trying to make this relationship work but i always fail at everything i try to do..he's quite a ladies amn and he doesn't let people know that he's taken..i am in love with him..i can truly say that..even though i am only 15..but this is as real is it can get for me..sometyms he makes me feel like then most precious girl in the world and other tyms he acts as if he doesn;t care..anyway..he's comin to england and go school here and i kinda feel uncormfortable with the age gap cos i have lyk a year to go of secondary school to go and he's starting college and obviously the college will have girls..i guess..*i admit* that i'll feel a bit insecure..i don't know wah to do..and i don't wanna tlk about this to him cos he wont take me seriously..:( HELP!

THANKS X

don't worry about it. Do what you have to do while communicate with him every week. I understand how you feel but try to think positive. If he does end up having female friends, don't assume that they are his girlfriends because it will break the trust. Try to be cool with everything and ask him to communicate with you however he can as often as he can. I don't know why some guys prefer the girl making the first move like calling him or visitng him. I never understand that part. The age gap isn't bad but try to think positive. Remember communication is the key, try to chat with him after you finish your homework daily otherwise talk to him every weekend. Best of luck!

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kehkashan

@PinkLady09

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Posted: 16 years ago

umm sounds like he doesnt like u..he's sig u bc saemthing happened wid me bt now heis married and i have found the one i love too..he's not worth it u will find sm1 better..n its better chances of him finding a girl he wantes to spend his life wid

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Mahi

@-Mystery-

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 16 years ago

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-Mahi

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Nisha

@Nisha.Z

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Posted: 16 years ago

i think that you should talk to him if you are having so many doubts to begin with, plus if you find it embarrassing or think that he wouldn't take this conversation seriously than that tells you right away that he's not mature enough for you.

hope that helps

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lovepreet

@pearls1124

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Posted: 16 years ago

well i don't think if u should say anything 2 him about it b/c then he might think that u don't trust him enough or something........

i understand that u really love him bt say it diffrently I guess try 2 ask him something like --- say this 2 him -- tell me one thing that u can do for me n only me but not for anyone else???? I think he should answer something good maybe after that u won't feel all of that.........

I just wanna tell u one thing concentrate on ur studies Ist and then think about him bt if u still don't feel comfrotable when he goes 2 college --- i think u should just break up with him b/c he doesn't deserve someone like u though............

I know its gonna be really hard for u to stay away form him since u really really love him bt trust me u'll get used to it......

thats what happened 2 me when my bf broke up wtih me I used 2 be extra sad bt now i have moved on if he is happy with someone else thats good............. right?????

I just didn't understand one that even i understand that how much u love him bt why can't he understand that?????? if he really loves u he wouldn't do anything that u don't like though..........

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