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Posted: 19 years ago
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hi. first i want u all to know i dont hate kripa but this is what i heard and i wanted to know what the kripa fans or kripa haters thought. My mom is a traditional desi person so when she watched the show she said that kripa was a money grubbing middle class girl. Her reasons are that she comes into angad's life alienates him from him family and tries to marry him. She says that kripa talks of "sanskar" and yet she has no problem with sleeping with angad and then having an illegitimate child. My mom also feels that she tied prithvi to her as well like she wudn't let him go because she always wanted backup incase she lost angad. she says that before kripa came everything was fine in everyone's life and yet as soon as she came everything got messed up to the point of conflict between angad and his whole family, prithvi leaving his mother and sister, angad going to jail. she says that kripa has no self respect because she always kept coming in front of angad when he and she broke up when she was pregnant and my mom says that our whole thing culturally is the respect of women and their "izzat" and if most of u remember angad insulted her terribly more than once and my mom said that no one should do that if they have any self esteem or respect not for love not for money. My mom wanted to know like how many people in actuality would want their sons or brothers to marry a woman like kripa who according to the desi beliefs ( i hope i am not insulting anyone) has no sanskar sleeps around before she's married and believes in having illegitimate kids. I am pretty sure if i was mishti or damini i wudn't want prithvi marrying her either. I guess some of u understand that kripa sent angad to jail because of a misunderstanding but did she have to marry prithvi right away. My mom also believes that's for money she says that if it was gratefulness than she wud have done it long before because prithvi always was there for her. My mom says that she wasn't sincere to anyone because she left angad to go to jail, destroyed his career more than once and then married prithvi and didn't care about him. She didn't love prithvi and we can all see that and my mom says that she didn't love angad either cause if she had she wudn't have sent him to jail like she did.
i know its like a weird comment but like my mom is constantly saying this when she sees the show so i wanted to know what other desi people thought.

DISCLAIMER: I do not hate kripa. i prefer mishti but these r not my opinions (i am 16) but my mom's. these were not meant to insult anyone
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Posted: 19 years ago
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first of all, both Angad and Prithvi are grown men. they weren't kids to be led astray from their families. In my opinion, our "culture" is ridden with double standards. It puts women on a pedastool in somecases, and in others, it takes away some rights that are theirs. Kripa did NOT impregnate herself. Angad and Kripa BOTH share equal responsibility when it comes to that matter. Why should the girl, alone, get blamed in situations like these? As far as I know, no woman would take that kind of step with a man unless she completely and thoroughly trusts him, and Kripa did the same. While your mother is somewhat right in her opinion, I dont think Kripa should be degraded they way she is.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i dont think my mom believes kripa impregnated herself but she believes that sex before marriage is wrong and so is pregnancy and she never said that angad isn't to blame because she says he's an idiot who ruined his career and his life for a woman who was just using him. my mom just believes that women who do behave like that are degraded no matter what they do because that's just what our society believes and society isn't changing our beliefs rn't changing. ( god i wish they were.)
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Just because society says it's right, doesn't mean it automatically is. I'm not saying having a child before marriage is the most respectable thing to do, but it doesn't make the women NOR the child any less human.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i agree that the child and woman r both human and so does my mom but society doesn't and that definitely doesn't make it right but it is what it is and we cant change that so according to our society kripa was wrong and lets face it if this was real angad would get off easy and kripa would be left alone by everyone and her child would always suffer under the curse in our society of illegitimateness( is that a word?). these r just facts that our society is harder on women and they bear the worst of teh guilt and the troubles.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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agree with you completely there. in reality, that's what happens.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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kripa n angad r always rite no matter wat they do n i will always support them no matter wat cause i m a true angadkripafan 😃
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i am very proud of u for sticking to ur loyalty angadkripafan but lets just say the names instead of angad and kripa were alina and rahil then what would u say about "alina"
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Posted: 19 years ago
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thanx. i think my mom is cool too which is why i tell people what she thinks.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I agree with your mom. I think that Kripa's character is very complicated. I always thought that the main characters are always supposed to be good and their character is supposed to be great but Kripa isn't like that. She does so many bad things.

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