Desperatley need help !

Sonia_Kaur_94 thumbnail
Posted: 16 years ago
#1
I desperatley need help
me n my two best mates tell each other everything, we always do everything together.Recently my best mate got a bf.He was nice in the beginning but den turned out 2 faced. people started to say stuff that he was hugging this girl and always together.The problem is that girl and my best mate hate each other they dont get along.My best mates bf nos dis and continues to talk to her.Sometimes me n my ova best mate hear them talkin bwt my best mate and ova people tell us they heard fings bwt my best mates bf and the girl.I told my best mate dat n she gt upset and asked him.He then told his mates n they all hate us.Just recently my best mates bfs mates started to write stuff bwt us n throw stuf last week he came up to me and slapped me acroos da face with powder wen I was goin upstairs. Both of my best mates stood up for me.The thing is my she knows all this stuff is true and she is still goin out with him . She took my side wen i had an arguement but den one of his mates paid sum1 to throw flour at me.I cant stand it any longer.Im so scared . They keep doiong new things to make my life miserable and are always laugin wen they see me.
I dunno wat to do?
Please help?
Do you think I shud still tell her wat hes been saying bwt her?
I feel so miserable!
I dont wanna go to skl!
the worst fing is they are older and taller den me!!!!!!!
plez help!
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-Mystery- thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
#2
I am really sorry but I am seriously confused... Can you please elaborate more? I am really confused with what's going on and who's doing what.... sorry..

-Mahi

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Posted: 16 years ago
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basikally my best mates bf hates me n my ova best mate coz I tld my mate dat I saw him and dis girl huggin and talkin bwt her (my best mate hates her) so my mate got mad n told him she nows he got mad n go t his mates on me my teo best mate baked me up.Den one of his mates payed sum1 to throw flour at me.
dey keep laughin at me n they r a year older than me.
please help!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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wow, that seems pretty immature for you friend's bf to be doing... although, i don't find it any harm if he's just being friendly with the girl that ur best friend hates... that should be ur best friend's and that girls problem, she shouldn't have to force her bf to choose... newayz, u did the right thing by telling the truth no harm in that... and its really pathetic how someone is plotting to throw flour on you..if its on school campus i suggest you go see a counselor as he/she would be best to handle the situation if it came to that, to even getting the ones who did it suspended... just make sure ur safety comes first before anything else..and don't worry what ur friend's bf has to say...he's shown his colors..he's an arse :P
Sonia_Kaur_94 thumbnail
Posted: 16 years ago
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they already threw flour and he is talking to that other girl to get my best mate jealous coz he dont like it were close! "That girls like omg dont go out wit her shes a user" n talks bwt my best mate aswell.
fanxs for da help.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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All you can do is warn her. If she doesn't listen to you, then let her handle it her way, but just be there for her no matter what.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Try and tell some1 so u dnt ave to go through it by urself!

Alway be with a mate and be careful.
Edited by Babi_angel - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
#8
plez help im desperate fings r gettin out of hand :(
I wanna kill myself!
I dunno who to go for help!
Edited by Sonia_Kaur_94 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I can understand your situation. I know its a pretty tough time for you, and you have to calm down a bit-however tough it may seem. My best advice is for you to vist your school counsellor or talk to a teacher.They are there to help you and will have a better grasp of your situation. It is not something that you can take decision-making advice ONLY from an online forum.

Please try it-believe me-we all have survived through such things at least once in our lives. Cheers and all the VERY best.

EraN

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Posted: 16 years ago
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yes same its a little confusing..sorry i didnt help, i lost you... 😔

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