Ragini Should Move Ahead Now

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think Ragini should now stop crying and move ahead in life.

I know she is hurt and can also feel her hurt, this is the 3rd time something like this has happened to her. But this crying is not going to do her any good. She must gather her strength and now move ahead if she has decided to say "Yes" to Shishir.

Blaming oneself and wanting to die is not right. Her parents are with her who are lending her their full support.

I think its time for her to say that she is ready to face the world once again.




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Posted: 16 years ago
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i m sorry 2 say but facing all dese things is not dat easy i can say dis coz something similar to this hpnd 2 me. even if u want still u cant overcome dis situation so quickly.

sorry 2 write all dese bt hope everything goes well at d end
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Posted: 16 years ago
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has she said yes to the new guy?pls tell me cause I haven't had time to watch it yet.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree! she should move forward. I know it's hard to be strong when your heart is broken in such a brutal way. But still! I want her to move on then Ranveer can realize his mistake and beg for forgiveness

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Posted: 16 years ago
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She should face the world again but with confidence this time, she loves Ranvir and she is trying to run away from it give a chance now Ranvir's turn to RUn in the opposite direction i mean opposite to the direction he always used to Run in lolzzz!!

Srry but its very sad to see her cry i feel really bad!!

Luv,

Shagun
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Posted: 16 years ago
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@cutypie - i do realize she is hurting and its difficult, but she has to start taking control of herself instead of blaming herself and thinking of dieing.

@ angel - yes Nani is preparing for her Roka.

@ prefangel - I know its difficult but she has to start gathering the pieces and atleast make an effort to move on.

@ Shagun - i feel very bad and that is why i would like her to atleast start the healing process.


Edited by pinkykhan - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Ragini should move ahead, but its not that easy. Coming out of such a huge rejection and that too publicly; being ridiculed for her "ambition to be married to a rich gora chitta ladka" (according to Matli 🤢) when she did not intend to do any of it ... is really hard on her. And you have to remember that she was really fond of her Anmol (don't know if there is any Anmol inside Ranveer now). She is only human and is hurting now, healing will come in time. Bidaai is a realistic show, it would be unrealistic to show that Ragini has moved on quickly after loving someone truly and after such a big shock and being mocked by both sides of the family (Malti on this end). It would also be unrealistic to show that she becomes vindictive and agrees to marry Shishir solely to avenge Ranveer and his family. (which I doubt is going to happen, nevertheless we are prone to think that way thanks to the kekta serials!šŸ˜•)
I thought that Ragini's reaction today after Malti's taunting was only human and not over the top. That was the last thing she needed while she was hurting and it finally resulted in an outburst of her frustration. ... However, I have to say that Parul's acting in that scene was outstanding! .. The way she said "main mar kyun nahi jati!" just tore my heart! After a long time a scene in a serial tugged my heart and teared me up. You could really feel the pain and frustration that Ragini was feeling. Hats off to Parul for enacting it so well! šŸ‘
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Posted: 16 years ago
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My feelings exactly. I don't mean to offend anyone and i admit that i can't totally empathise with Ragini because nothing like this has ever happened to me. Still Ragini shouldn't want to kill herself over someone who apparently does't care about her, or that's how it seems to her atleast.
It must be difficult to get the self-confidence she needs to move forward i admit, but she needs to take the first step and stop wallowing in misery. It's certainly not doing her or anyone around her any good.
I want to see a strong and independent Ragini, it's so painful to watch her so sad😭
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Agree with u totally coolfire. And this isn't the first time it has happened. She has been made to feel inferior all her life and the guy leaving her on the wedding day was just brutal. Yes she said the guy to go away but the hurt and the humiliation doesn't go away no matter how hard u try. The words simply come back to haunt you.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Parul's acting in the end was fabulous....it was really heartbreaking....from a logical stand, her statement on why she just doesn't die, seems ridiculous because why in the world does she want over a guy who doesn't care about her....ahhhh, if only our emotions were logical....its easier to listen to your pain than logic...for a person who in depression or in so much pain, they really do not see the point of trying again (especially after being rejected more than once)....it really is easier said than done....

the cliche "Time heals all wounds" is true....it takes time to get over pain and rejection....just like a cold must run its course, you must go through the pain to get relief....
Edited by apux - 16 years ago

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