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Posted: 17 years ago
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It was good to see Aslam's dad but he doesn't seem to be very interested in Aslam's marriage with Mayuri.The way,he layed down certain rules for becoming a bahu of his family,mayuri's face was tensed.
.I think,his dad shouldn't have shown his disinterest in national televsion.he seems to be a real strict father.I would pity mayuri and best wishes to her,no wonder mayuri's dad was adament not to marry off his daughter to this family.If they have such an attitude,they would behave very badly if mayuri gets married and goes to aslam's house.
she needs to really think,if she has to stay with such people.All the best to her.
Latest episode shows aslam's brother laying down more rules.Best wishes to mayuree to enter such a horrible khanadan.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Mayuree seem to have agreed to aslam's brother's request.When she has to face reality,perhaps,it won;'t be as simple as she is thinking.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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aslam's family is tooo strict man n the bro too
gosh i think they r such a beautiful couple
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Well only Aslam Mayuri are such couple who dont seem to be able to live without each other.....

I personally dont want Mayuri to sacrifice her job and agreeing to Aslam's bro whtever he is saying....Aslam's family is pretty much dominating and as a woman, I feel Mayuri shouldnt bend to them unnecessarily....If Aslam's bhaijaan has any practical prob, with proper reasons for Mayuri to leave her job, then it's ok...Otherwise for NO reason, Mayuri should agree to them sacrificing HERSELF ! This shouldnt be allowed to happen....Becoz if the relation itself starts with LOADSSS of compromise, how can we expect Aslam's family to love her which she deserves ! What's the gurarantee that in future they won't ask her to do more sacrifices w/o any proper reasons !?!?!

All the best to Aslam and Mayuri....It's GREAT to see Aslam is with her.....They really really seem to be incomplete w/o each other ! Just my best wishes for them !

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Posted: 17 years ago
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it soooo funny how aslam's dad was saying that his older daughter in law has qaulified but she doesnt work
n they expect mayuri to do the same thing
i know aslam comes from a big family but seriously they live in old fashion way n they dont want mayuri to work her life would be onli at home cook, look after aslam's family
im soooo surpised poor mayrui. aslam should just move out of house n marry mayrui n live together
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sallu_lover

it soooo funny how aslam's dad was saying that his older daughter in law has qaulified but she doesnt work

n they expect mayuri to do the same thing
i know aslam comes from a big family but seriously they live in old fashion way n they dont want mayuri to work her life would be onli at home cook, look after aslam's family
im soooo surpised poor mayrui. aslam should just move out of house n marry mayrui n live together



Exactly Sallu - I mean see parents get their daughters educated, as much as they want, so it should be decided only by parents or the person herself whether she will utilize her studies, qualifications etc etc. or not.....If Mayuri wants to leave her profession herself, then it's ok ! But forcibly, this is not acceptable in this age ! It's upto entirely her choice whether she will continue it or not ! If she doesnt want to leave job, then nshe shouldnt be forced to do that !
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i know man im soo annoyed poor girl she has to scarfice everything to just marry her love but aslam's parents r taken advantage of her and why isnt mayrui's parents saying anyting in this situation?
im just annoyed that she has leave everything if she wants to marry aslam wats next they might ask her that disown her family too
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i'm kind of getting annoyed at aslam here. why cant he stand up against his family.....i know, i know he respects them and blah blah blah. but if he really loves mayuree he should open his eyes and see how much she is sacrificing to be with him.
she is basically agreeing to give up her whole identity....all of her prior beliefs just so she can be with him. right now i think shes just agreeing to all of these conditions but when reality checks in, it wont be so easy.
all i can see are problems for them. if the family is so overbearing right now....what will the situation be like after they are married?
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Posted: 17 years ago
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chill guys u guys r very rude to aslam's family.i mean how can u guys say that kind of stuff when u don't know how important family values and religion for that family.i think aslam's family is right it is their choice how they live so if it is old fashion or strictness for u guys it is your problem not their.in every single culture it is always daughter-in-law who change her self for her inlaws so aslam's GF should think first if she can adjust in his family.i pray to ALLAH that un ka piyaar successfull ho.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Good to see yr opinion here guys.

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