Fatherhood Imply?- article

What does fatherhood actually imply?
15 Jun 2008, 0000 hrs IST,TNN

I have a very special friend,
And Daddy is his name-o,
D-a-d-d-y, D-a-d-d-y, D-a-d-d-y,
and Daddy is his name-o!

He always loves and cares for me,
And Daddy is his name-o,
D-a-d-d-y, D-a-d-d-y, D-a-d-d-y,
and Daddy is his name-o!

Fatherhood is a joy that cannot be expressed in words. And, it is a great responsibility too. For, a father is not only supposed to lead by example, but also open up a whole new world to his children — a world that encompasses joy and sorrow, agony and ecstasy and patience and virtue — with the wisdom of a sage and the practicality of a friend. But, what does fatherhood actually imply? And, what does Father's Day signify? Sameer Dharmadhikari, who plays Siddharth Tyagi in Woh Rehne Waali Mehlon Ki, believes, "For me, spending time with my daughter Saraswati is the most important thing. I play house with her and, she takes care of me in many ways. So, everyday is Father's Day for me." What are the true qualities of a good father? "More than the children changing, you as a parent have to change. It is just about leading them on the right path and keeping all options open for them. I do my best to guide my daughter in the best manner possible," he says.

To get a true taste of parenting, one has to experience it to believe it. "When I come home from work, nothing refreshes me more than playing with my daughter, or going out with her for a walk. A child's innocence and joy can take the tension of work away," says Sameer. Did his dad give him any advice that he remembers fondly? "I remember my father telling me one important thing, 'Jab tum baap ban jaoge, tab tum samjhoge,'" he laughs.

Ronit Roy, better known as Rishav Bajaj in Kyunki... Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi..., says that his onscreen persona is an extension of his real-life experiences. "being a father in real life reflects in the role I play. I feel that my children are making me a better actor," he says. Bringing up children in 'the big bad world' is tough, and Ronit leads by example. "If there is anything I wouldn't want my children to do, I will not do it myself. It's all about living for and through your children. For me, being a father is a lifestyle." Ronit further adds, "My family and work are the two things that I live for. My happiness lies there. Every moment spent with my children is etched in my mind."

If family is the fulcrum of the society, father is its undisputed driving force. Whatever the father does has a direct bearing on the family. Vinay Jain, who plays loving father Manav in Woh Rehne Waali Mehlon Ki feels his character's traits have rubbed off on him in real life. "My character is a very compassionate and loving person. Having embodied this role, I have grown as a father in reel and real life," he explains.

Even after the long hours of work on the set, he makes sure to spend quality time with his son. "When I spend time with my son Ranveer, I make sure to be totally focussed on him. When I am with him, work or any other activity doesn't matter." Vinay shares a special bond with his son, especially when they do things together. That is why they say, father is a special person in our lives.

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