♪ ♥ O Humnava Tum Dena Saath Mera ❘❘ Episode DISCUSSION Thread #1 ♥♪- Page 60

Originally posted by: averma1

TRP race is going to be back soon so they want to show the leads together and romancing so that they get maximum viewers. Not that I am not enjoying but agree that showing Aparajita so casual about Rashmi and Avi,s runaway wedding and her not defending when that annoying neighbor pointed it out at BH was totally out of character.

If not happy for best friend at least for her brother..or cause AviRash helped her see R at hospital when had no idea how to avoid his family&meet him. Not a single reaction and no reaction when blamed for taking those bracelets. She has a voice,sweet that R supports her every time but how will handle bigger problems after marriage?? Crying and waiting for him to defend her is not the way.

Appu & Rakshit Deserve Better Writing: Love Isn't an Excuse for Lost Characterization

Appu has always been a fighter who carried her own weight. Watching her suddenly regress into a damsel dependent on Rakshit to fight her battles isn't character development it's a downgrade. Appu fought her battles alone. Rakshit standing by her side is great, but becoming dependent on him completely undermines her established strength.

Being in love is euphoric, but love should add strength, not erase common sense. Instead of turning Rakshit into an "alpha protector" and Appu into a helpless bechara, their arc should be built on mutual trust and faith. They can be madly in love without throwing practicality out the window.

The biggest casualty of this romantic tunnel vision is Appu,s loyalty to Rashmi. Rashmi made a massive sacrifice (disowning her mother for a court marriage with Avi).Appu who has faced similar opposition should have been her biggest pillar of support.Instead, the writers swept Rashmi's turmoil under the carpet just to keep Appu wrapped in romance.

Brushing Rashmi's sacrifice under the rug to keep Appu and Rakshit in a honeyed bubble makes Appu act entirely out of character. True love gives you the confidence to support the people who matter it shouldn't make you oblivious to them. Right now, the writers are sacrificing logic and Appu's core traits just to keep them in an unrealistic bubble.

Appu & Rakshit Deserve Better Writing: Love Isn't an Excuse for Lost Characterization

Appu has always been a fighter who carried her own weight. Watching her suddenly regress into a damsel dependent on Rakshit to fight her battles isn't character development it's a downgrade. Appu fought her battles alone. Rakshit standing by her side is great, but becoming dependent on him completely undermines her established strength.

Being in love is euphoric, but love should add strength, not erase common sense. Instead of turning Rakshit into an "alpha protector" and Appu into a helpless bechara, their arc should be built on mutual trust and faith. They can be madly in love without throwing practicality out the window.

The biggest casualty of this romantic tunnel vision is Appu,s loyalty to Rashmi. Rashmi made a massive sacrifice (disowning her mother for a court marriage with Avi).Appu who has faced similar opposition should have been her biggest pillar of support.Instead, the writers swept Rashmi's turmoil under the carpet just to keep Appu wrapped in romance.

Brushing Rashmi's sacrifice under the rug to keep Appu and Rakshit in a honeyed bubble makes Appu act entirely out of character. True love gives you the confidence to support the people who matter it shouldn't make you oblivious to them. Right now, the writers are sacrificing logic and Appu's core traits just to keep them in an unrealistic bubble.

Love is beautiful,no doubt most waited for their romantic story to start and are giving everything a fan wants to see. Was marriage only solution? Sure not,had no time to plan next steps,are doing everything official pair does for their secret relation. Didn't had time to enjoy their confession,from office straight to BH and after short break,same night engagement at Sharmas. Glued from that night,no scene not related to wedding functions,no time to miss eo,no casual phonecall. Ok,the other pair needs to get married fast for that mms and ApRakshi too can't miss this chance and go at same pace. But something is missing,their happiness will remain incomplete as long as at least 1 person in BH won't accept them,means marriage won't solve their lives. If are planning to keep the marriage for themselves then will continue with after wedding rituals in secret?

A is A 2.0 when it's about R,the way she silenced her sister was good. Say she has a small excuse now,won't speak to not ruin wedding functions,do something that can make momzy say stop,this wedding can't happen.

Originally posted by: Adiandsid

A ka spelling ka confusion abhi bhi kayam hai. Aprajita in the invitation, Aparajita in mehndi.

In show nd even on her desk it was aprajita also in that bank loan score checking mein even on that job form But starplus was using diff spelling

Hindi mein to same honga if u write May be woh next wali wedding card pe aparajita honga after family acceptance

Woh UKA show mein sailee ki spelling change hoti thi Mere fav ke saath pehle bhi hua hain male ki spelling "vir"" veer" in show

Originally posted by: Pyaarasam

Talking about haldi, I would love them to pull out something like in Beyhadh. But it's good to dream.

Shaadi family ke saath pakka hoga.

Although i have seen the show don't remember the marriage

When S accept nd would do all functions nd rituals

Originally posted by: Pyaarasam

I didn't think of it like that but haan.

Shaadi ho ya na ho, Aru's plan will def backfire on her anyway.

But if viv come to know truth how is she going to be happy tell me na? Kya soch rahi hain woh exactly while see saw ki viv reacted differently when she lied abt rohan initially So for her the matter will go under carpet if once's she marries him She was supporting lalit even after hearing what appu want through nd told the truth shows her mentality.Forgot abt ki woh sis hain even as female i don't get her

The ppl who gets her or understand can explain us

Originally posted by: Annu.

But if viv come to know truth how is she going to be happy tell me na? Kya soch rahi hain woh exactly while see saw ki viv reacted differently when she lied abt rohan initially So for her the matter will go under carpet if once's she marries him She was supporting lalit even after hearing what appu want through nd told the truth shows her mentality.Forgot abt ki woh sis hain even as female i don't get her

The ppl who gets her or understand can explain us

She won't be happy because Viv won't let it go.

Another thing which does not make sense is Sudha's behaviour. She hated Appu and family. Her hatred for Malti became equal to Appu bcoz of slap. She shoud have been shown the just an unwilling participant for Aru wedding. Or just barely tolerating. Here she is actually celebrating . Loading Aru with gifts. Being so happy . Behaving so well with Sharmas. Aru is Maltis daughter after all and Appu s sister.

Nothing makes sense to continue with wedding preparations. Sharmas and Bharadwajs together as if never had that puja day circus,all forgot it was 1 mms that led to this alliance,not a big love story between bride&groom like trying to portray;A is not hated anymore cause think she agreed to momzy condition,would know that's not the case then different story. More than wedding waiting for after wedding reactions,until then all behave as if nothing is wrong,ApRakshi will be in their delusional world,no matter what other modest vs rich status comments will come none will cancel the wedding. Some will be silent,some will look around with mouths open,R will keep finding excuses to hide their plan.