Originally posted by: NeeruNature
Exactly what I am saying not society society cannot give u milk but some time parents are not supportive luckily my parent's are so supportive but I saw many girls in my surroundings and their parent'thinking
But my biggest shock or observe not gossip aunties but a educated officer workers or they are on high post are so low in terms they pressure to live separated , supports ur decisions not against u and even helps u in financial support
please what kind of mindest is this can u light on this
so called educated men, even women and entire families can be so conservative. they dont want their bahus to be too educated, tey think working woman is bad for them kon ghar mein khana kon banayega. the pressure for making babies within 1 yr of marriage, the misogyny is at every step is horrible. imagine a society anything can be whitewahsed cz the person is married. awful
there is clique of these upper class conversative folks who marry each other and only business within that community. they think outsiders will pollute their framework, it can be as a cultural thing as gujrati people not letting marathi people buy apartments in mumbai. can you believe this shit? and in day to day lives it can be pressuring women to stay in same marriage despite abuse.
the thing with educated men is they strugled to reach that place, so they go back to same old 1980s mindset, and dont want anyone to reach their level. especially women, cz aurat khana banati hai, bache paida krti hai. educated men these wives as slaves right, nhi to ghar ka khana nhi milega. indian men especially are disgusting. actually the entire asian men. scum of earth
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