Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2: EDT #13 - Page 4

Next time when Karan and Gautam fight I hope Karan has better arguments to counter Gautam.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

If you read psychology every family has a golden child who feels highly entitled

usually the elder son or raja beta of indian family are entitled ones

than there is scapegoat kids - karan virani is scape goat kid of virani family

than there is emotionally abusive kids like ansh who blackmail pmom dad to harm other sibling(i want nandini only i should marry her karan should not types)

he has to do all sacrifices to prove himself as worthy of virani love

including tulsi - she made him give up nandini and marry ansh as ansh wanted nandini she hated him till ansh removed hand on tulsi abroad and karan stopped him

So in every step karan has to prove his loyalty to mom, dad, brothers, grandparents etc

and every blame goes on him only

gautam thinks parents do not love him blame karan

ansh wants to posses nandini force karan to give up his love

damini again same, gautam tricked him out of wedding day venue

so karan is kind of a scape goat most of his life

even mandira took advantage of karan virani she was a narcissit mom *(read psychology)

she stole parth from karan after birth

so every sacrifice karan does but hes always shouted at by all treated by siblings parents grandparents with suspicion like enemy

Never read psychology books tbh but I am very interested in it and love to explore it via fictional stories. I love to understand what makes characters click and behave the way they do. Maybe a bit… weird… but the most fascinating real life example of what piques my curiosity in this department are serial killers as I watch shows, documentaries made about them.

I think Gautam doesn’t feel like the Golden child, not when he’s been given away like a toy won at a fair. But he definitely feels like he should be made to feel like he matters and the way to prove that is by listening to him always, making sure he feels important.

The problem is that he’s not always gonna be right and he has an issue accepting that, he’s not always easy to get along with, which is another issue. He is comparing his worth with Karan over and over again, feeling as if he’s slighted but never really accepting that Karan didn’t get this by virtue of simply existing or being there when Gautam wasn’t by being born to Mihir Tulsi as a replacement once Gautam was kidnapped. Karan went from being frowned upon to counted upon by virtue of his actions, him being there no matter what, him listening to his parents airing their grievances even if he couldn’t quite help them or solve their problems.

Actions make all the difference. Gautam doesn’t want to put in the work but expects that the person who does should not overshadow him either. How can that possibly play out? That’s what he needs to be told and accept, which is the uphill task here as he will feel looked down upon the moment he is shown this ugly mirror.

Karan has had to fight to get accepted, to get access and acknowledgment. Gautam was the child everyone pined for, Karan is the child who pined for people who didn’t even know he existed and when they did, they didn’t like his very existence.

Karan values what he earned, Gautam feels he’s owed for what he’s missed out on but he’s not willing to sacrifice his ego, humility or even patience for it. Hard to make him understand that while he’s got grievances that are fair and justified, he’s not right on all counts and he’s got to accept it too. As they say, it takes two to tango.

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

i cried watching the show too. very heavy bt sweet show

Yep. I always ended up with a heavy head and a lighter heart thanks to all the crying in almost every single episode.

Honestly the +3 have rumbled up the family dynamics

Tulsi and Mihir are probably having problems in controlling so many kids

Shobha is the only one who was with tulsi since infancy and grew up with her.She seems the sane one.KN cannot handle 3 kids too

Tho i am confused how does her fam live without her for 6 years.

The moral of the story

Hum do humare do best option.

Or just bring two therapists and give viranis group therapy.

Originally posted by: The_Best

Makers, show more of her https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVvdNW-DSgs/

This kid is such a cutieeee! Ahh

My reading of Gautam's character is "not feeling wanted".

He never grew up with a family and siblings and his entire life was trying to "fit-in" where as his siblings/cousins just blended in. Him having to prove his worth and loyalty everytime to everyone. This made him want to snatch what he doesn't get (not the right thing to do, well....).

He married Ganga under pressure (trying to keep his parents' commitment? I cant remember) despite being in Love with Tisha. He married Damini as some revenge on Karan. Both of these were his wrongdoings and both were at a time when we was desperate to show his relevance?

I think when we see and experience favouritsm of some sort, we tend to start hating the person who is the favourite (despite the person not being at fault at ALL) after holding the people who do the favouritsm responsible ALL the while.

Congratulations on the 13th EDT!

Originally posted by: SlatePencil

atm Ajay, Pari, Sunnu and Garu look more like family than Karan Nandini's family

I hope all units soon

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

My reading of Gautam's character is "not feeling wanted".

He never grew up with a family and siblings and his entire life was trying to "fit-in" where as his siblings/cousins just blended in. Him having to prove his worth and loyalty everytime to everyone. This made him want to snatch what he doesn't get (not the right thing to do, well....).

He married Ganga under pressure (trying to keep his parents' commitment? I cant remember) despite being in Love with Tisha. He married Damini as some revenge on Karan. Both of these were his wrongdoings and both were at a time when we was desperate to show his relevance?

I think when we see and experience favouritsm of some sort, we tend to start hating the person who is the favourite (despite the person not being at fault at ALL) after holding the people who do the favouritsm responsible ALL the while.

Gautam married Ganga because Aarti convinced him that if he does not marry Ganga, Tulsi will not give any share in property.

Originally posted by: graphicd96

I hope all units soon

Ajay's parents may agree for the marriage for Ajay and Sunny but they will never be able to accept pari whole heartedly after all the things that she has done with them. If any unpleasant incident occurs in their family they will suspect pari's hand behind it