Seher Hone ko Hai: Episode Discussion thread 1 - Page 36

Originally posted by: Darkxmatter

First point. He did not touch her before because she was foreign to him. And his status as next Mufti. And he is not abusive.

Second point I wrote entire essay about this . Check the page before this 🤣

@Bold: I dont think so. He told her " Aapne socha bhi kaise ki hum auraton pe haath utayenge" He meant that about women in general. He beats up men whenever his anger gets the better of him but he aways maintained his restraint around women.

And Im sorry but manhandling is abuse! Decades of ITV has made us believe its romantic/angsty but its not

I read whatever you wrote in the previous page and I dont agree with it one bit. Marriage isnt about attaining puberty its about attaining emotional maturity. 18 is the legal age but even that is too young to get married. Ive said long back in this thread once that I dont mind MaHer's marriage happening because its a fictional show and I was expecting a soft love story not an angsty one. I'm definitely not liking whatever they've been showing recently. Let's agree to disagree

Originally posted by: Darkxmatter

All of 3 first paragraphs 👏👏👏👏.

Last one they are husband and wife. They can do whatever they want 🤣.

But mehid clearly said in today episode 'he does not have "haq" over her. But he will hold her accountable for accepting the marriage'.

Yaa they are married.but seher is not physically ready for intimacy. Intimacy should be mutual .Right now everything is messy between them.

Originally posted by: Ivacaftor

@Bold: I dont think so. He told her " Aapne socha bhi kaise ki hum auraton pe haath utayenge" He meant that about women in general. He beats up men whenever his anger gets the better of him but he aways maintained his restraint around women.

And Im sorry but manhandling is abuse! Decades of ITV has made us believe its romantic/angsty but its not

I read whatever you wrote in the previous page and I dont agree with it one bit. Marriage isnt about attaining puberty its about attaining emotional maturity. 18 is the legal age but even that is too young to get married. Ive said long back in this thread once that I dont mind MaHer's marriage happening because its a fictional show and I was expecting a soft love story not an angsty one. I'm definitely not liking whatever they've been showing recently. Let's agree to disagree

I agree with everything you said . But this show is about angst story not soft story. It will transform into soft love but after angst .Just like ipkknd types. If you are looking for soft romance then this show is not for you .

Originally posted by: Ivacaftor

@Bold: I dont think so. He told her " Aapne socha bhi kaise ki hum auraton pe haath utayenge" He meant that about women in general. He beats up men whenever his anger gets the better of him but he aways maintained his restraint around women.

And Im sorry but manhandling is abuse! Decades of ITV has made us believe its romantic/angsty but its not

I read whatever you wrote in the previous page and I dont agree with it one bit. Marriage isnt about attaining puberty its about attaining emotional maturity. 18 is the legal age but even that is too young to get married. Ive said long back in this thread once that I dont mind MaHer's marriage happening because its a fictional show and I was expecting a soft love story not an angsty one. I'm definitely not liking whatever they've been showing recently. Let's agree to disagree

Point 1:

He is not just not abusive toward women. He generally doesn't touch them physically. Except when nessary. Or if the woman is related to him. This is general behavior in conservative Muslims.

So he generally interacted with her carefully. Until she became his wife.

as for the current situation. He was angry with her very much. His attitude is normal for the situation. Or else he would not be him self or he doesn't have responsibility or feelings for her.

Point 2:

This is my quote from previous post

Society prespective, reaching puberty, mental maturity and knowledge to take care of your responsibility in the relationship. Those are all things should be considered for this.

Originally posted by: MaNaN_Humesha

Yaa they are married.but seher is not physically ready for intimacy. Intimacy should be mutual .Right now everything is messy between them.

You mean emotionally 😏

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

And he did come to save her right and had prayed for her well-being as well. That his mohabbat should be mehfooz.

when did he pray?

Originally posted by: Darkxmatter

You mean emotionally 😏

Yaa. Emotionally more . But physically too they should wait . Right now platonic bond should be the key for both of them.

Originally posted by: MaNaN_Humesha

Yaa. Emotionally more . But physically too they should wait . Right now platonic bond should be the key for both of them.

From my prespective they already started to have feelings for each other.

Came here straight from reddit to see audience reaction, very mild compared to there lol

Yeah ofcrs the ml will repent ye maine kya kiya with breaking bangles crying as parth samtan is good at, it will make audience feel awww Mera bechara he don't deserve this Allah mujhse shadi karwao 🤣

So this episode won't mean nothing bt cheap attempt at grabbing eyeballs..I want to see how trp change after this 2 rs ka faltu attempt

Will seher remember his behaviour? Will she be scared of him in future? Will his own behaviour haunt him and he repents? Not just crying in secret, but changing his behaviour in front of the girl? Will makers stop giving romantic songs for a minor kid and age gap wala older man? I guess irl she would call him bhaiyya /uncle bt shadi hogyi chalta hai

That this show is getting 1.4 trp is thanks to parth and its disappointing makers had to resort to this cheapness to get it. When the guy who married a 16 year old is a good man and the mother who's trying to save her is a vamp, idk what to say about the mentality of show makers.. audience to hai hi nalli.

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

Came here straight from reddit to see audience reaction, very mild compared to there lol

Yeah ofcrs the ml will repent ye maine kya kiya with breaking bangles crying as parth samtan is good at, it will make audience feel awww Mera bechara he don't deserve this Allah mujhse shadi karwao 🤣

So this episode won't mean nothing bt cheap attempt at grabbing eyeballs..I want to see how trp change after this 2 rs ka faltu attempt

Will seher remember his behaviour? Will she be scared of him in future? Will his own behaviour haunt him and he repents? Not just crying in secret, but changing his behaviour in front of the girl? Will makers stop giving romantic songs for a minor kid and age gap wala older man? I guess irl she would call him bhaiyya /uncle bt shadi hogyi chalta hai

That this show is getting 1.4 trp is thanks to parth and its disappointing makers had to resort to this cheapness to get it. When the guy who married a 16 year old is a good man and the mother who's trying to save her is a vamp, idk what to say about the mentality of show makers.. audience to hai hi nalli.

Absolutely correct. Kausar as mother is doing everything in her capacity to fulfill her daughter dream and not to subject her of same pain which she went through with her husband.

At this point ,as per mahid point of view- seher is 18 + ,he asked seher of her consent many times and seher said yes . Still she ran away like this. He is feeling betrayed. Its understandable. Things will change from his end when he will get to the reality. That will change the dynamics between them.

My stand is clear on this marriage- seher is not ready for marriage related stuff. So makers must make sure that seher mahid share platonic kind of bond . No romance