Dharmendra Celebration Of Life Prayer Meet - Page 3

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May he rest in peace!

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One reason is that Hema ji is an MP and member of the ruling party. So they don't want to make it political. Already some politicians visited her house.

Originally posted by: cougarTown

It is never easy and in hema's case she and her daughters have always felt like 2nd tier citizens..dharmendra was always primarily a part of his 1st fam..lived with them..his wife..his sons..his daughters..

Hema always lived separately..normally when a woman enters a married man's home, she feels one day she will have the guy all to herself and become his only woman but hema always remained the 2nd one..his first wife was with him before hema and remained with him till his death..she never left..i also pity hema for what she went through but then again thats what you get when you make your way in a married man's life

Dharminder never had any intention of leaving his first wife. The poor woman has to put up with her husband wandering off to.see the other woman and fathering kids with her. Hema is just a glorified mistress, there was no question of her entering his home. Why do you pity her ? She chose to sleep with a married man when she could have had any man. She was pretty , young, famous whatever . In Sridevi's case it can be argued that after what her family did to her it was probably easy for Boney to coerce her into submission and she was into it because she needed that security. Hema wasn't vulnerable at all . Just greedy. Couldnt keep her paws off another woman's spouse. And ofcourse he was just as guilty , but there was no homewrecking. As far as Dharam was concerned his first home was intact. He could walk back in after rolling off of Hema and demand hot rotis from Prakash. I feel bad for Hema's kids though. They didn't ask to be in this situation.

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I dont know i just find it odd that he lived a whole separate life with first wife and the second. i do feel bad for Hema and especially her daughters that they were not included in last rights. Not sure if they were even able to come say their final goodbyes.

Yes i understand Hema was at fault, and of course Dharmendra was at equal if not more at fault. But Also his wife decided to stay with him even after he had two kids with different woman. His family can not act like they did not do wrong by Esha and her sister by not including them in last rights.

anyways he was a great, beloved actor but his personal life was messy to say the least. He didnt have courage to choose love nor did he have courage to leave his family for his love. By living in two separate lives, he did wrong by everyone.

Not many knows that Dharmendraji got married to his first wife when he was 19 yrs old. He married way too young at a age when couples don't even understand the meaning of marriage. They said yes to marriage as they cannot disrespect their parents. It was that era when children do not even look into the eyes of their parents and talk their minds out unlike kids now. Its a different era

With the Dharmji-Hema fiasco. For his first wife now they have 4 children together he is the father of her children and divorce was looked as taboo in that era. Its a stigma for woman and they blame the woman. Even after divorce the society does not look at a divorce woman with respect and their character is always questioned. The woman's family will be ridiculed and tarnished along with her own reputation and family she has small kids too,she cannot deprived them from their father's love. A father's shadow always needed in a kid life for his/her growing years. The mature woman she is,she thought about all these aspects that will fall upon after her and her children if she leaves him or divorce him. She is heartbroken as a wife that the man she submit herself to everything broke her heart & cheated her,she also thought abt what her family, children will go through. Its a tough situation ultimately she chose to compromise for herself,her family and her children. I really felt bad for her & the children

Our times and their times are very different. Divorce, independant, widow all these is seen as a stigma or taboo especially when its a woman. Unlike now we can talk our minds and put out points to our parents even argue but that was disrespect in their times. We are independant due to jobs now and also we can chose to be single or opt for divorce if issues crops out in marriage but their times is different

Sad reality but its the truth