Bigg Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread - 12th Nov '25 - Page 92

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

GK ne kabhi yeh assume hi nahi kiya tha ki Mridul jaa sakta hai, usse toh bas yeh laga ki wo safe hai and the focus naturally shifted to other things. Aur honestly, yeh expectation hi unfair hai - Mridul khud ek adult hai, apna game khud play karne ki zimmedaari uski thi. Bigg Boss mein koi kisi ka guardian nahi hota.

GK ko “nurture” karna tha Mridul ka game ya “guide” karna tha - yeh narrative Farhana aur kuch log create kar rahe hain, taaki blame shift ho jaye. Par sach toh yeh hai ki har contestant apna decision khud leta hai .. kis se bond banana hai, kis par trust karna hai, aur kaise play karna hai. Amal Basheer ko samjha nahi paya, toh phir GK se itni unrealistic expectation kyu?

Aur sabse important baat - kisi ka game kisi aur ki wajah se overshadow nahi hota. I don't even think ki Ashnoor ki game ko Bajaj ne overshadow kar diya..Audience samajhdar hai; unhe har insaan ki individuality dikh jaati hai. GK ne kabhi kisi ka game intentionally suppress nahi kiya. Farhana ka yeh narrative convenient lagta hai,to make sure that Mridul 's big fandom vote don't go to GK..

In the end, Mridul is supposed to take his decisions but he was heavily influenced. It was evident when he did not nominate Abhinoor when he was initially in the favour of punishment. His journey was the same as Neelam's. Both are gone and there is no change in house dynamics

Originally posted by: NINALOGY

Agreed.

Isko toh bajaj, baseer sy pehly jana chaiye tha.

Awez se phele

Aweez ko rakhna thaa

Bohoot acha thaa wooh inn saab freeloader se

Originally posted by: NINALOGY

Season is ending, ab inn debates ka kya hi faida 😂

I will stick to my point and you will stick to yours. You will keep on defending your favourite and i will defend mine. So, this discussion is baseless. I do respect your opinion bus i have a different one. Jab dono ki hi change nhi hogi toh debate kyaa hi karni

Originally posted by: RockingSunny

But it's about an incident. Waha to har kisike different opinions and discussions ho hi sakte hai so I don't think there's anything wrong in debate for a particular incident. Anyways I will end it here sorry to bother you

I am fine in doing debates but it will go on loop because We have difference of opinion on this matter.

I do agree that nepokids get first chance on platter. Amaal had gotten it too. But one can't deny that he is talented, he survived in this industry because of his talent as he gave so many hits. Also amaal ki maasi newzealand main rehti hai then what's a big deal in it.

Don't be sorry, it's always fun to have a healthy discussion with you and others.

Originally posted by: Cookermaichane

Awez se phele

Aweez ko rakhna thaa

Bohoot acha thaa wooh inn saab freeloader se

Neelam aur zeishaan sy bhi pehly

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Originally posted by: GKWillWin

jo log ek break ke leeye kitney kitney darwazey pe koshish kartey hain. Har mod pe talent honey ke bawajood har na ko bhool kar agley din koshish karnaa - sirf woh log jaaaney ki nepotism ka matlab kya aur struggle kya.

Agar yeh baat samajh aatee hain to samjho warnaa nepotism kuch naheen hain woh samjho.

Kartay hain. No one is denying that, but everyone has their set of struggle. Denying that is also wrong. GK is 43. He says he has been in the industry for 20 years now (which means he entered when he was 23, fair enough age for a fresh grad). And he did well in the field. He is a known face. How did he get the chance? He had the talent, right? Someone bet on him and not on any nepo kid maybe. Ab if his dream was to meet Salman, that's a different thing. And if he's using that to compare his struggle with Amaal's it is a bit weird in my opinion.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

The music industry is brutal - and he’s not even a singer he’s a composer. The point though is he is just sharing a story, someone calculatively using it to compare it to himself and set up a topic that they know will work in their favour. But I forgot everything GK does is bas aise hi in jest . I agree with you music is far more competitive than acting.

Sorry but why do you think that music industry is far more competitive than acting?

In acting, at least there’s a somewhat visible system of auditions - open calls, self-tapes, casting directors. Even if it’s tough, an outsider can still try to break in by sheer persistence. But for music composition, there’s no formal audition process. There isn’t a notice saying “submit your original composition for X film”.or enlighten me if there is one please....

So how do composers get that first big break? Talent? But how can anyone tell that this person is the best person for the music of this movie when there was no audition or competition

Then how? Not by random discovery - but by access. You need to know someone who will listen to your track, trust you with a film or an album, and give you that initial platform.

That’s why in music, network and lineage matter even more than in acting. Because if you’re the son of a known composer, director, or music label insider, your track will at least be heard. An outsider’s track might never even reach the right ears.

Amal is very much Talented..and yes after the first break he didn't need many as his talent and beautiful composition spoke for itself..Talent helps you survive and sustain absolutely but connections open the first door, and without that door opening, no one even gets to witness your talent.

Originally posted by: nehaprks

The nepotism debate doesn't actually hold valid for Amaal; we have all seen that Amaal is actually a very talented singer and composer; even without any music, his singing is very soulful and the songs he has composed are super hits. Yet, prior to BB19, most of us knew only Armaan; Amaal hasn't even got fair recognition for his talent. Also IMO a singer needs much more discipline, hard work and talent than an actor.

Bold; why?

Talent and privilege can coexist. Just because someone is talented doesn’t mean they didn’t have certain advantages that others didn’t. Amaal is undoubtedly gifted - his compositions and vocals prove that - but that doesn’t erase the fact that he had access, connections, and early opportunities that many equally talented but lesser-known artists never get.

Talent doesn’t negate privilege; it just means both played a role. One opened doors, the other kept them open. Noone would say that Amaal is not talented,he is talented- it’s that so many equally or even more talented people never get that first chance to prove themselves...So uss hisab se he had privilege of access for sure