Originally posted by: Kinginthenorth9
If I may ask were you or are you supporting tanya or farhana this season? And what did you think of tanya and neelam’s friendship and farhana and nehal’s friendship?
Initially, Tanya and Neelam’s friendship felt genuine, from both sides. But later, when Tanya started getting attention from the host, guests, and even BB himself, Neelam began feeling jealous of her and started gossiping about Tanya to almost everyone in the house.
For me, no matter what issues come up in a friendship, you never go around badmouthing your friend or exposing their secrets that were shared in trust. Tanya genuinely cared for Neelam, and I wouldn’t say Neelam didn’t care about Tanya. She did! But her jealousy and insecurity overpowered her care. Neelam became bitter, and she had this tendency to play the sympathy card by putting Tanya down. Honestly, if you have a friend like Neelam, you don’t need enemies. They were just not good for each other.
Now, about Farhana and Nehal: I never felt their friendship was genuine either. It always seemed more calculative from Nehal’s side. Nehal is a very opinionated person but often without logic. She kept preaching her opinions without understanding the other person’s point of view. That’s why Farhana was never truly comfortable in that friendship.
When you deal with someone like Farhana, who has had a tough past that made her a bit guarded and bitter, you need to be gentle and calm. You have to make her understand things patiently, not authoritatively. Nehal failed to do that. Her attitude was always “I am right,” and that slowly broke their bond.
I haven’t followed this season very closely, just watched clips and a few episodes here and there, but this is my honest opinion.
And honestly, I am not supporting anyone yet, but if either Tanya or Farhana wins, I will be really happy!
Would love to hear your thoughts too
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