Bigg Boss 19- Daily Discussion Thread - 14th Oct 2025 - Page 55

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None of her actions/reactions seem organic. I can tell that she has watched few handpicked seasons of Big Boss and followed certain selected contestants, their behavior pattern and she is just following that without any originality from her side. Wanna see if Shehbaz comes to her defence this time with his punch line "pura ghar ek ladki pe kaise Chad sakta hai? Gir gaya Teddy konsi badi baat ho gayi...nahi " GALT" baat hai. Good for Baseeerrrr.. I like him when he stands for the right muddas and keeps his group bazi aside. Actually whoever does that gets brownie points.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Why was "Bhojpuri staff" beeped out? Why is calling someone Bhojpuri wrong?? It's not a derogatory word...not a gali. Bhojpuri because Neelam is Bhojpuri and staff because she acts like one. Even after everything, she goes to Danube, and asks Amal..Nashta lau? Anda banau? So she is Bhojpuri staff...just like someone could be Punjabi, Bengali or whateva staff. What's so wrong in that?

If bhojpuri wasn’t an insult Farhana need not even use the word. No one says Kashmiri naukar yaa Maharashtrian chela. People in bhojpuri cinema and Bihar are looked down upon as being the help - well known fact, it’s a racist taunt. There is no need to bring someone’s background into an insult. Aur waise bhi Farhana herself was doing the stuff Neelam was, including pressing legs, making coffee and tea. I think Neelam was 100 per cent right in confronting her, as Farhana still holds Neelam more liable than Shehbaz which is just hilarious. Neelam actually hasn’t done anything to her, yet Farhana constantly yelling she’s a servant is insulting while all Farhana was called was a chamchi. Like how can you insult someone in third person and then question why they came out, Nehal and her wouldn’t have kept their mouth shut. I actually think shehbaz handled her well for the first time ever.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Why was "Bhojpuri staff" beeped out? Why is calling someone Bhojpuri wrong?? It's not a derogatory word...not a gali. Bhojpuri because Neelam is Bhojpuri and staff because she acts like one. Even after everything, she goes to Danube, and asks Amal..Nashta lau? Anda banau? So she is Bhojpuri staff...just like someone could be Punjabi, Bengali or whateva staff. What's so wrong in that?

Caz bhojpuris industry has this image..they mostly cater towards the rural lower classes and mostly looked down upon..atleast that is my understanding not that I am one or know much about that industry but I do know it is mostly referred to as cringe and absolute down market in daily talks and bohat gandi industry hai in terms of the ethics and all jitna maine social media pe suna hai.

So it felt more like targett8ng the people from that region and calling them all beneath farhana and equating them all as naukars and good enough for that only. Woh classist behavior tha in that even if she mentioned an area

10000% agree with this bade aaye gyaan pelne gk ji and ashnoor pe apna ghussa nikalne jab spineless aadmi main itna bhi spine nahi ke khud aage se kar de..ashnoor kyon iske liye nominate kare.dam tha toh khud kar leta na fraud MC

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Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Caz bhojpuris industry has this image..they mostly cater towards the rural lower classes and mostly looked down upon..atleast that is my understanding not that I am one or know much about that industry but I do know it is mostly referred to as cringe and absolute down market in daily talks and bohat gandi industry hai in terms of the ethics and all jitna maine social media pe suna hai.

So it felt more like targett8ng the people from that region and calling them all beneath farhana and equating them all as naukars and good enough for that only. Woh classist behavior tha in that even if she mentioned an area

Haan exactly and Farhana tried covering it up but especially up north and in Bombay you can easily hear people demeaning people from bihar, heard it first hand myself. They actually have a very deep ingrained classist attitude towards UP/Bihar region.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

If bhojpuri wasn’t an insult Farhana need not even use the word. No one says Kashmiri naukar yaa Maharashtrian chela. People in bhojpuri cinema and Bihar are looked down upon as being the help - well known fact, it’s a racist taunt. There is no need to bring someone’s background into an insult. Aur waise bhi Farhana herself was doing the stuff Neelam was, including pressing legs, making coffee and tea. I think Neelam was 100 per cent right in confronting her, as Farhana still holds Neelam more liable than Shehbaz which is just hilarious. Neelam actually hasn’t done anything to her, yet Farhana constantly yelling she’s a servant is insulting while all Farhana was called was a chamchi. Like how can you insult someone in third person and then question why they came out, Nehal and her wouldn’t have kept their mouth shut. I actually think shehbaz handled her well for the first time ever.

Yeah I get that. Farhana had no business getting so upset with Shehbaz for the chamchi comment and I said that. I think Shehbaz gets into his "bhai behen", mode when he has to jump into fights to rescue them in a fight, only so he gets footage not because he has any sibling love for any of these girls and that includes Neelam and Tanya. No one can get as close as these guys pretend they are, in few weeks. All this bhai behen drama I cannot relate to at all. The fight was unnecessary. I don't know why Fathana would have so much expectation from Shehbaz. And because she is not able to control her language, even her friends are not able to support her..Baseer and Nehal were sitting right there. I get your point about the Bhojpuri comment though I don't know why it would be racist. I didn't see it that way because I don't know or understand why people would look down upon them... They are a rich and affluent community...some very big political and film names comes from their community. Anyway, maybe it's just me.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

Haan exactly and Farhana tried covering it up but especially up north and in Bombay you can easily hear people demeaning people from bihar, heard it first hand myself. They actually have a very deep ingrained classist attitude towards UP/Bihar region.

Originally posted by: NINALOGY

Farhana was trying her best to pick fight today. Sab ko nikal nikal bol rahi thi

Amaal did right by giving her back

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Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Yeah I get that. Farhana had no business getting so upset with Shehbaz for the chamchi comment and I said that. I think Shehbaz gets into his "bhai behen", mode when he has to jump into fights to rescue them in a fight, only so he gets footage not because he has any sibling love for any of these girls and that includes Neelam and Tanya. No one can get as close as these guys pretend they are, in few weeks. All this bhai behen drama I cannot relate to at all. The fight was unnecessary. I don't know why Fathana would have so much expectation from Shehbaz. And because she is not able to control her language, even her friends are not able to support her..Baseer and Nehal were sitting right there. I get your point about the Bhojpuri comment though I don't know why it would be racist. I didn't see it that way because I don't know or understand why people would look down upon them... They are a rich and affluent community...some very big political and film names comes from their community. Anyway, maybe it's just me.

No I completely get it but this is legit a thing like UP bhaiyaas and bhojpuri industry is seen as downmarket - they have prominent names but especially women in that industry are really demeaned due to the vulgar nature of their songs at times.

Shehbaz is still nice to Neelam and Tanya - it’s Amal who is an a r s e and uses them when it’s suits him. Shehbaz also is like Farhana - a contrarian that much is true.

The funniest thing is Shehbaz I don’t even think was that serious about the comment and Farhana got so offended lmfao. Farhana till date has used GK/Pranit/Baseer and you can see in that episode she was beginning to manufacture a narrative against Nehal just because she was called chamchi.

Another thing I noticed is she didn’t actually have a reasonable reason to nominate Tanya - guts hai toh tell Amal/Shehbaz/zq they were the ones who didn’t do their tasks in her captaincy, instead she attacks Tanya and Neelam who did do the work except when Neelam said she wouldn’t cook that too second week. Aur waise Kunnu/Farhana themselves have done what Neelam did.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

No I completely get it but this is legit a thing like UP bhaiyaas and bhojpuri industry is seen as downmarket - they have prominent names but especially women in that industry are really demeaned due to the vulgar nature of their songs at times.

Shehbaz is still nice to Neelam and Tanya - it’s Amal who is an a r s e and uses them when it’s suits him. Shehbaz also is like Farhana - a contrarian that much is true.

The funniest thing is Shehbaz I don’t even think was that serious about the comment and Farhana got so offended lmfao. Farhana till date has used GK/Pranit/Baseer and you can see in that episode she was beginning to manufacture a narrative against Nehal just because she was called chamchi.

Another thing I noticed is she didn’t actually have a reasonable reason to nominate Tanya - guts hai toh tell Amal/Shehbaz/zq they were the ones who didn’t do their tasks in her captaincy, instead she attacks Tanya and Neelam who did do the work except when Neelam said she wouldn’t cook that too second week. Aur waise Kunnu/Farhana themselves have done what Neelam did.

Farhana claimed in WKV that she observed everything..that she understood everything how her own group didn't stand with her when Neelam gave up cooking. But she didn't have the guts to confront Amal and Baseer on this issue. Zq to chalo gaya. If she has confronted Shehbaz on this mudda, it would have made more sense. But she picked a very non serious issue to confront him. I think it was partly coz he supported Neelam when she refused to cook. Chamchi comment just added to the already existing annoyance with him. I wouldn't say Neelam didn't do anything. Farhana initially pleaded with her, gave her option of finding replacement but she didn't budge ..Had it been Amal, in place of Farhana (like Sallu pointed out) would Neelam have left her kitchen duties? Or even Shehbaz? I don't think so ..fact is Farhana is an outsider in that group and it was a transactional alliance from both sides. They didn't expect anything from her, other than saving Neelam which she didn't have to coz she never got the power. They didn't give her anything in return either, apart from the immunity she got because of the captaincy. Infact Anal, Shehbaz even Zq didn't do their duties in her captaincy.. Tanya and Neelam did double duties not for any love for Farhana but for their friends/bhai's wateva.. so yeah, I dunno why Farhana would over react, complain to Amal, then pick a fight with Shehbaz lol