Originally posted by: Moor278
Great question Uma...
What can I say apart from the decade plus experience of married life 😅
I am firm believer that you cant change a person completely. There can be few tweaks here and there but a person cannot completely change. That is losing your own identity to another.
So you have the love/live with your spouse with all of their flaws... a package deal.
... just like Vikku said. 🙃
It gets on nerves and the only reason the marriage can survive is if both are ready to ignore the other persons flaws. Only one compensating is not enough. Ghutan like Mannat said 🙃
That said... self respect and self worth cant be compromised and shouldn't be taken lightly. Mannat is absolutely right here 🙌
Also its a saying that to correct something you have to first acknowledge it is messed up.
In a way, this is the first mature thing Vik has said... he has finally understood his flaws and what hurts Mannat. She clearly told him how it affects her. Thats the best thing about ManVik... communication 🥰
Had it been a real couple and him ready to work on it... then its all well.
In ITV ecosystem... not sure if Vikku is going to rectify his own shortcomings so easily. 🤣
Loved how Mannu correctly pointed out that I am not your teacher and its not my sole responsibility to handle this relationship ❤️
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