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Originally posted by: EkPaheli

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Ofc Mihir has contributed to his beti's #parvarish.. He has effectively contributed in making Pari a spoilt brat & letting her remain one. Woh kaam Tulsi ka nahi tha.

Yeh serial ab couples mein jhagde karwaayega lol. It is both's responsibility to take care of the children but if man is the sole breadwinner in the family and has to stay out of the house for most of the time, obviously he won't be able to devote time to the kids. Most of the days he will be leaving the home before the kids gets up and return after the kids sleep. Here the father is earning money which can be used by the mother to take care of the kids. Both are fulfilling their share of responsibilities.

I liked how they had Tulsi mention that he had little to no involvement whatsoever in raising the kids he so proudly claims are his. It’s the start of a conversation, I hope it’s not the only one they have on this subject.

I think it depends on the couple and how they take the topic. But the point in this was not about anyone being right or wrong here. Tulsi herself says she never blamed Mihir for not being there while she was doing all the work in raising the kids; she simply pointed out that he cannot blame her when it suits him and think she’s an awful mother if he doesn’t agree with her about something that he thinks concerns their kids. Her point was valid. She can’t be eliminated from sharing her opinions and it includes objections regarding matters that concerns the biggest and one of the most important decisions affecting the lives of their children. Her role cannot be limited by Mihir just because they’re not agreeing with each other and because their daughter doesn’t like what Tulsi has to say. If raising them was teamwork and they split responsibilities then deciding whom their child can marry or not should also be a matter of teamwork. He cannot state that his friend agrees with him whilst his wife doesn’t and possibly think they’ve the same equivalence and rights regarding this matter. After all his friend has not been the mother to this girl and will never be responsible for anything that concerns her; Mihir will not stomp his feet and behave abominably with her should Ranvijay turn out to be a rotten egg. At most he would not remain friends with her and cancel their partnership but as far as he’s concerned that’s the end of the story. Noyna wouldn’t have to deal with the messes and handle a daughter people will talk about.

The idea isn’t to instigate arguments between couples but rather to encourage dialogue between them as equals when it comes to deciding things about kids in big matters too not just the small ones. If you’re a father stepping out into the world to earn for your family, you’re doing your duty and expecting your wife to do hers by your kids, family and you. You entrust her judgment with the daily affairs of your children while they’re kids and know she’ll always do whatever is best under the circumstances possible and don’t question her regarding the day to day activities of your children necessarily. So try not to question her judgment and her objections regarding the big decisions too; and don’t immediately dismiss her and brand her as a bad mother simply because she’s not agreeing with you.

Unfortunately he doesn’t see it so far. He thinks he’s doing the right thing and doesn’t even want to believe that he could be wrong.

Oh boy it will be fun when he comes face to face with the truth.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Unfortunately he doesn’t see it so far. He thinks he’s doing the right thing and doesn’t even want to believe that he could be wrong.

Oh boy it will be fun when he comes face to face with the truth.

@b: I really want to see that! like seriously!

The day he realises papa ki pari is not a pari but a not so little shit

I’m really curious about the circumstances of that happening and more importantly, hope it happens soon because as far as we as an audience are concerned, I think we all agree that this whole nonsense has stretched too far already and needs to be shut down asap.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

I’m really curious about the circumstances of that happening and more importantly, hope it happens soon because as far as we as an audience are concerned, I think we all agree that this whole nonsense has stretched too far already and needs to be shut down asap.

I agree. This I'm-so-innocent tirade of hers has stretched too far & has started to grate over everyone's nerves honestly.

Yep, it’s annoying and worse the actress is not even fun to watch as an evil character. I guess better actors in negative roles have spoiled me silly and have higher expectations than what we’re getting