How do you do this? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold dear, if it is affecting you then you should.

@red Regarding namecalling and negativity, if you are regularly watching the show you will understand that if Geetu is called psycho, Vidya is termed vile, Armaan is called abuser or gaslighter and Abhira a doormat then that's because writers have portrayed them that way.

Geetu: Manipulated a child to lock her biological mother in a room, attempted suicide to gaslight a man.

Vidya mata: Cursed her son and DIL due to DIL's infertility, got married to a married man, was an accomplice in Armaan's biological mother's abduction. Hypocrite pro max. to criticize a woman for separating eternal lovers, after herself separating husband-wife who were also eternal lovers, for years.

Armaan: Abused Abhira for 7+ years, as treating someone unfairly is abuse. He separated her from her daughter for years. Gaslighted her into believing that she is a bad mother because she couldn't give birth. Abhira literally considered herself a bad omen for children, for years, because of his gaslighting.

Abhira: She is praising and being the jogan of her ex-husband for reuniting her with her daughter, same man who separated her from her daughter for 7 years, as punishment.

In most of the threads people are just making fun of these characters, without breaking rules.

This is normal reflection which I also agree, slightly disconnected since I didn't follow the show religiously since surrogacy.

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

The topic maker should have been here during the heights of devar bhabhi romance and how one woman was blamed for her "miscarriage" cause it's karma or whatever, how in her trauma she didn't want to see any baby's face, how she was blamed for "hurting" the child, how that woman's one job was supposed to provide milk for the baby, how she's "kokhless" now. If anyone doesn't understand that meaning you are welcome to ask me.

Disgusting language is nothing new. I think you were there during gen3 as well, that time also disgusting language was used. This time it's nothing - you can say stupid ship war and trolling material.

I wasn't around during gen 3, maybe watched some ten episodes from that.

Originally posted by: BangBang_Shilpa

Yeh Rishta was the most beautiful show on television. Normal family dynamics, weddings, subtle but entertaining tracks, social awareness, dance, music, festivals, rich Rajasthani culture and celebrations. It was unique in its own.

Gen 4 is totally wrecked. There's so much negativity, Yrkkh title is for namesake only.

And even in lower grade shows, the lead characters are not turned into what Abhira and Armaan has become, definitely never the female lead. I've said previously in the forum, Samridhi is fine but the character is no less than a villain at this point. I follow her on insta btw.

Meanwhile, Armaan Abhira (fictional charactersfans ) abhiMaan fans are non stop, never end harassing the actress playing the role of Geetanjali. The have flooded twitter, insta everywhere with toxicity and personal atracks.

This is a serious issue. I remember during Naira first daughter return track. People used to abuse that little kid on insta. Like what!

Originally posted by: JustAnEngineer

I’ve been pretty on and off on IF ever since I left the IB forum after the extreme toxicity there. Even though I watched Yeh Rishta 2 and BALH 3, I was never consistent, just dropped in occasionally without much involvement.

Forget the one SwarmB attack I got just for casually thinking out loud 😂

Season 4 itself has been a mess. After some initial potential, it went downhill fast.

But what really surprises me is the forum itself. The level of name calling and negativity here is insane. I don’t even understand half the nicknames people use (probably because I wasn’t around for the older seasons’ drama), but just scrolling through sometimes is enough to make me want to log off.

And yet some of you are here every single day, fully engaged with all this chaos. I genuinely wonder, doesn’t it get exhausting? Doesn’t that constant toxicity affect your mental health? Or do you somehow get used to it?

Social media is not Real life That's a fact Just because someone troll or hate some fictional show n characters everyday doesn't mean that they don't have any life outside of that show or SM platform I toh come here when I have free time

Free time apart from work family friends n watching Cdramas = Social media

Whole life ≠ Social media some stupid itv fictional characters n show

Why will this show affect our mental health in Real life which has no connection with Rishta gen4 world which is existing in 2080 or more I think n not 2025 as per timeline where 120+ Goenka's exists where even cvs are also too lazy to calculate all the leaps exact ages of characters n which year this show is in exactly

I don't take any thing happens on line serious, I keep it well out of my emotional self after all these are mere , imagination...None of ot real or far away from reality ...I am visiting forum because this is the only serial I follow .

I watch the clips Meher's post , this serial is reficulous that is it ...I keep myself away here to have some entertainments

See Actors get remuneration, channel & producer get profit as long as I can find some entertainment which forum gives , laugh and forget it...

Originally posted by: JustAnEngineer

I don't have a problem with anyone, just wondered why it feels like every thread circles back to the same name-calling and negativity. Anyway, I'll step back from here.

So what I understood from this whole thread is that Name calling Real people questioning their choices mocking them for being here is not negativity n toxicity But name calling n trolling non-existent fictional characters who are really troll worthy is negativity as no such thread about negativity was made when Real members were name called or when an entire thread was dedicated to discussion on those who dislike or hate FL ML ....

Well we learn something everyday

Originally posted by: Dora-cakes

So what I understood from this whole thread is that Name calling Real people questioning their choices mocking them for being here is not negativity n toxicity But name calling n trolling non-existent fictional characters who are really troll worthy is negativity as no such thread about negativity was made when Real members were name called or when an entire thread was dedicated to discussion on those who dislike or hate FL ML ....

Well we learn something everyday

Originally posted by: Dora-cakes

So what I understood from this whole thread is that Name calling Real people questioning their choices mocking them for being here is not negativity n toxicity But name calling n trolling non-existent fictional characters who are really troll worthy is negativity as no such thread about negativity was made when Real members were name called or when an entire thread was dedicated to discussion on those who dislike or hate FL ML ....

Well we learn something everyday

Hum non fiction walo se kya narazgi hai? Hum toh bichare sidhe sadhe hai.

Originally posted by: Dora-cakes

So what I understood from this whole thread is that Name calling Real people questioning their choices mocking them for being here is not negativity n toxicity But name calling n trolling non-existent fictional characters who are really troll worthy is negativity as no such thread about negativity was made when Real members were name called or when an entire thread was dedicated to discussion on those who dislike or hate FL ML ....

Well we learn something everyday

I’m finding this paragraph a bit hard to follow. If it’s about something in the past, I’m not aware of it. Also, the tone seems to slot me into a “supporter of someone” scenario, here we go again with the Criminal Justice saga 😅. Sorry if that wasn’t intentional.

But I’m curious, has the meaning of “name-calling” changed? I hope the “thread to discuss those who dislike or hate FL/ML” isn’t referring to this one, because I never mentioned anything like that.

Originally posted by: BangBang_Shilpa

Yeh Rishta was the most beautiful show on television. Normal family dynamics, weddings, subtle but entertaining tracks, social awareness, dance, music, festivals, rich Rajasthani culture and celebrations. It was unique in its own.

Gen 4 is totally wrecked. There's so much negativity, Yrkkh title is for namesake only.

And even in lower grade shows, the lead characters are not turned into what Abhira and Armaan has become, definitely never the female lead. I've said previously in the forum, Samridhi is fine but the character is no less than a villain at this point. I follow her on insta btw.

Meanwhile, Armaan Abhira (fictional charactersfans ) abhiMaan fans are non stop, never end harassing the actress playing the role of Geetanjali. The have flooded twitter, insta everywhere with toxicity and personal atracks.

It's so embarrassing and shaming because most of these people who are trolling the actress are actually women . It's in this same world women are fighting for their rights and freedom from abuse and yet again fellow women insult and cyber bully another because of fictional characters . Highly unacceptable