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I get what you are saying, but forums aren’t the same as real life. Here, most people are just venting about the show, so it can feel extreme. Blocking or ignoring isn’t about shutting out opinions, it’s just protecting your own space. In real life, respectful disagreement and middle ground matter, but on a fandom forum not everyone has the energy for that daily. Sometimes it’s healthier to just scroll past. And please, my original comment was about the general behavior I observe here, so don’t take it personally.✌️Originally posted by: JustAnEngineer
I didn’t expect everyone to think alike. I just wanted to peep in and see different thought processes. Sure, we can curate a bubble today like an Instagram feed that only reinforces what we already believe, but in reality you need skills like respectful disagreement and finding middle ground too.
Chill...don't take everything seriously in this forum. This season's it's not even half toxic of what it used to be in previous gen...Originally posted by: JustAnEngineer
I don't have a problem with anyone, just wondered why it feels like every thread circles back to the same name-calling and negativity. Anyway, I'll step back from here.
Originally posted by: JustAnEngineer
I don't have a problem with anyone, just wondered why it feels like every thread circles back to the same name-calling and negativity. Anyway, I'll step back from here.
@bold dear, if it is affecting you then you should.
@red Regarding namecalling and negativity, if you are regularly watching the show you will understand that if Geetu is called psycho, Vidya is termed vile, Armaan is called abuser or gaslighter and Abhira a doormat then that's because writers have portrayed them that way.
Geetu: Manipulated a child to lock her biological mother in a room, attempted suicide to gaslight a man.
Vidya mata: Cursed her son and DIL due to DIL's infertility, got married to a married man, was an accomplice in Armaan's biological mother's abduction. Hypocrite pro max. to criticize a woman for separating eternal lovers, after herself separating husband-wife who were also eternal lovers, for years.
Armaan: Abused Abhira for 7+ years, as treating someone unfairly is abuse. He separated her from her daughter for years. Gaslighted her into believing that she is a bad mother because she couldn't give birth. Abhira literally considered herself a bad omen for children, for years, because of his gaslighting.
Abhira: She is praising and being the jogan of her ex-husband for reuniting her with her daughter, same man who separated her from her daughter for 7 years, as punishment.
In most of the threads people are just making fun of these characters, without breaking rules.
Honestly I am here to vent my frustration on the bad writing of the show.See many of us are very avid watchers of rishta and have been irritated at the writing of this gen.Originally posted by: JustAnEngineer
I don't have a problem with anyone, just wondered why it feels like every thread circles back to the same name-calling and negativity. Anyway, I'll step back from here.
I accept negativity is there amongst us and language used is bad sometimes but honestly some feel happy to vent.Indian Serial Fandoms are like this.We cannot be just blind to what happens in the story
Honestly I love being here.We make memes, funny comments sometimes and probably bond over joking about characters.It's like you have a friend group online.We all have a lot of work to do irl and sometimes it's an escape for us.Whenever the negativity quotient goes up I just log off.Thank you.
The topic maker should have been here during the heights of devar bhabhi romance and how one woman was blamed for her "miscarriage" cause it's karma or whatever, how in her trauma she didn't want to see any baby's face, how she was blamed for "hurting" the child, how that woman's one job was supposed to provide milk for the baby, how she's "kokhless" now. If anyone doesn't understand that meaning you are welcome to ask me.
Disgusting language is nothing new. I think you were there during gen3 as well, that time also disgusting language was used. This time it's nothing - you can say stupid ship war and trolling material.
Yeh Rishta was the most beautiful show on television. Normal family dynamics, weddings, subtle but entertaining tracks, social awareness, dance, music, festivals, rich Rajasthani culture and celebrations. It was unique in its own.
Gen 4 is totally wrecked. There's so much negativity, Yrkkh title is for namesake only.
And even in lower grade shows, the lead characters are not turned into what Abhira and Armaan has become, definitely never the female lead. I've said previously in the forum, Samridhi is fine but the character is no less than a villain at this point. I follow her on insta btw.
Meanwhile, Armaan Abhira (fictional charactersfans ) abhiMaan fans are non stop, never end harassing the actress playing the role of Geetanjali. The have flooded twitter, insta everywhere with toxicity and personal atracks.
you said Abhira is a villain..how? She's the heroine of this show.. she hasn't done anything to make her a villain.Originally posted by: BangBang_Shilpa
Yeh Rishta was the most beautiful show on television. Normal family dynamics, weddings, subtle but entertaining tracks, social awareness, dance, music, festivals, rich Rajasthani culture and celebrations. It was unique in its own.
Gen 4 is totally wrecked. There's so much negativity, Yrkkh title is for namesake only.
And even in lower grade shows, the lead characters are not turned into what Abhira and Armaan has become, definitely never the female lead. I've said previously in the forum, Samridhi is fine but the character is no less than a villain at this point. I follow her on insta btw.
Meanwhile, Armaan Abhira (fictional charactersfans ) abhiMaan fans are non stop, never end harassing the actress playing the role of Geetanjali. The have flooded twitter, insta everywhere with toxicity and personal atracks.
Originally posted by: Debospeaks
Chill...don't take everything seriously in this forum. This season's it's not even half toxic of what it used to be in previous gen...
We survived that and today constantly interacting with those who used to be rivals then... It's not real life, so don't get upset dear...
Wasn't here for previous season so don't know. No hard feelings I was taking in the advice 😀