YRKKH SM updates, BTS and Spoilers Thread #124 - Page 28

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

Getting hooked to a rich person, taking all monetary benefits of being his mangetar while having no concrete plan to move on from ex-husband and ex- sasural. Something I never expected from Abhira.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I think Abhira has more guts and brain than her mama. Even if she fails but she tries and doesn't run from her problems. Sometimes I wonder if Ar is Akshu son more than Abhira being her daughter.

@bold that's true, it requires guts to accept your mistake, which she did. Her not running away from problems makes her better, but at the same time. She was physically, mentally and verbally abused by her MIL. Abhira Sharma who was raised to value her self-worth was cursed because of infertility and termed a bad mother because she couldn't give birth, but she didn't object to any of it? In my opinion, it's better to run away (not like Naira and Akshu, but to stay away from the source of abuse or to fight with abusers), than to tolerate taunts because of infertility, tolerate career sabotage and character assassination and do maa jaap even afterwards.

It's better to choose yourself and your self-worth. She reminds me of women who tolerate abuse and name it courage and resilience. Sometimes wounds and scars aren't apparent, they are wounds and scars on soul. Abhira is not the same anymore, the fighter Abhira Sharma, who showed mirror to anyone regardless of age, who was one against all Poddars, is gone. Abhira who never tolerated disrespect without reprimanding the person who disrespected her, went through so much without even fighting against it? Obviously we can't judge choices or circumstances, but self-worth should be above anything, specifically when a person is educated, when she was a different person before falling in love. Inhumane treatment because of infertility, license cancellation, public humiliation, character assassination, motherhood certification and separation from child without any fault, gaslighting and guilt-tripping for seven years. It was all too much even for a fictional character, who never took her revenge or fought back the way she should.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I think Abhira has more guts and brain than her mama. Even if she fails but she tries and doesn't run from her problems. Sometimes I wonder if Ar is Akshu son more than Abhira being her daughter.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I don't see doormat when I look at Abhira, I see someone who has faults isn't perfect and strive to be what she felt the man she loved needed that he never got from his family selfless unconditional love. I think people sometime forget how Ar was treated in his family his whole life. Abhira help him build some self esteem and confident that he never had except in courtroom just to get KP attention cause it wasn't love and that dumb candy. Abhira has always been emotional strong and Ar is weak that's why he was able to commit that criminal act, and convince himself Abhira will be happy. Do you mean taking the call, when Ar called? It that what you mean why would she need guts, Abhira was living with guilt for 7 years in not only losing a pati, but a family lose their son, behen & bhai with their big brother and most importantly is due her that he's not experiencing the joy of fatherhood. Abhira has guts that why she survive without breaking after her mother & BSP in death and to possibly losing Pookie. That that gust and courage that she was able to stand with the two help made her life hell by not just being an emotional support but financial too, so when I look at Abhira Sharma, I see many thing but never a doormat. The only thing I hold agains Abhira and most women do in her quest to be everything to all, she forgot herself.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

exactly...abhira stayed tolerated her abusive in laws and won them over..after 10 years..her relationship with them came a long way...yes we don't think much of poddars..but abhira stood by her in laws and became their best bahu..and she's always been a good wife. Just her husband turned out to be a POS .

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Akshu was the one who had the guts to make a new life for herself post the leaps unlike this epitome of failure who is still the doormat unpaid maid of Poddars.

Akshu didn't have a choice of making a new life for herself. The woman was pregnant divorce and by herself. Let not act like when she married Abhinav cause she was in love. Abhinav is the one that had the courage and guts to married a woman he didn't really know that was pregnant for another man. He married Askhu and offered security and give her and Abhir unconditional love, till he died so sorry if disagree about Akshara having guts, and doesn't make her a bad person or wrong in moving on

If Abhira wanted to start a new life I'll support her 1000%. Abhira isn't in a majboori state to want to rush and start a new life. Her aim of not leaving town was staying put to find her daughter. If Ab wants to married Anshumaan or anyone I'll support it

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold that's true, it requires guts to accept your mistake, which she did. Her not running away from problems makes her better, but at the same time. She was physically, mentally and verbally abused by her MIL. Abhira Sharma who was raised to value her self-worth was cursed because of infertility and termed a bad mother because she couldn't give birth, but she didn't object to any of it? In my opinion, it's better to run away (not like Naira and Akshu, but to stay away from the source of abuse or to fight with abusers), than to tolerate taunts because of infertility, tolerate career sabotage and character assassination and do maa jaap even afterwards.

It's better to choose yourself and your self-worth. She reminds me of women who tolerate abuse and name it courage and resilience. Sometimes wounds and scars aren't apparent, they are wounds and scars on soul. Abhira is not the same anymore, the fighter Abhira Sharma, who showed mirror to anyone regardless of age, who was one against all Poddars, is gone. Abhira who never tolerated disrespect without reprimanding the person who disrespected her, went through so much without even fighting against it? Obviously we can't judge choices or circumstances, but self-worth should be above anything, specifically when a person is educated, when she was a different person before falling in love. Inhumane treatment because of infertility, license cancellation, public humiliation, character assassination, motherhood certification and separation from child without any fault, gaslighting and guilt-tripping for seven years. It was all too much even for a fictional character, who never took her revenge or fought back the way she should.

Forget revenge she is genuinely never even angry at anyone from the poddars

She lets the poddars walk all over her

She is a certified doormat

Something I found funny in today's ep was her remark to krish

What absolute Clownery was that

Originally posted by: Indira1211

she's not living at poddars house. So that's a start. Im going to give her a chance and see if dkp will make her choose life with a good man or a toxic abuser...

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

But why is she tolerating her Abusive in laws in the first place? Why didn’t she leave them and start a new life with people who actually value her? Why not become the best lawyer rather than the Best Bahu?

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

But why is she tolerating her Abusive in laws in the first place? Why didn’t she leave them and start a new life with people who actually value her? Why not become the best lawyer rather than the Best Bahu?

Bcz she is in fact a doormat