If Abhira ends up with Anshumaan. Then the marriage would be just as disastrous as it was with Armaan
Anshuman has lots of insecurities. Just as many as Armaan had. It's just they show it very differently While Armaan swinged between sharing too little and nothing . Thus keeping the other person carving for more
Anshuman s weapon is Gaslighting. The iconic gaslighting that he did of Abhira in her chamber. That people hail as some sort epic "reality check". Making her trauma has her fault. Victim shaming her when he knows absolutely nothing about all that Abhira has went through in those 7 years. Anshuman only knew Abhira for a week. And thought he had right to pass judgement about her life. That s red flag number one. A better person would have given her space .
That's what Abhinav did for Akshu. When they first met. He was her helping hand. Giving her space. Respecting her boundaries. Never asking anything that would make her uncomfortable . He never dreamt of being anything more . Not until Akshu asked him to be her kid s father. Even then he restricted himself to be just that - a great father to her child. A good friend to her.
Another thing is Anshuman cannot take no for an answer. Otherwise when the girl has clearly said no. And you know that she has lots of trauma and complication . Why would you spout things like "Main yaha hoon paar mera dil to kahi aur haa". Trying to guilt trip her. He kept this up until she agreed to marry him. That's red flag number two
Abhinav and Akshu were married for 7 years. Abhinav loved her. But Aksu never found out about his feelings. You know why? Because Abhinav always respected her boundaries and never tried to guilt trip her.
Third is if Armaan s family is Poddars. Then Anshuman s family is Tany.
Imagine a fight between two grown adults. That Anshuman started.Armaan escalated. Then Tanya and Geetanjali jumped in. But who was put on spot? Abhira. Abhira should ask Armaan to apologise to Anshuman, to prove her "loyalty".
Arey. Why should she? Did she go aks Anshumaan to defend her or start a fight with Armaan? No.
If two grown men can start a fight. Then they can sure as hell. Sort it out.
But no. Tanya has to put Abhira on spot. Anshumaan who is all ok to shout at Armaan just few seconds ago, didn't had it in him to tell his sister to shut up. That he as grown man can sort out his issues. That Abhira doesn't need to prove anything. Not in front of so many people. That's red flag number 3.
All this. They aren't even married yet. Imagine what all the brother sister duo will do to Abhira after marriage.
Edited by Agni_Jytsona - 4 days ago
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