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Posted: 3 months ago
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Disclaimer: Please ignore the post if you find it triggering, but please please do not use any derogatory words for any of the characters and especially real life actors. Person using derogatory words will be reported and mods feel free to close the thread anytime if deemed necessary…

The intention behind this post genuinely isn’t to create tensions and definitely not to instigate fights between the S4 and S3 fans, but a controversial, yet genuine ??

I’m able to understand S3 fans emotions as they feel cheated when they were promised a couple’s story and instead of working on that, the writers brought a new dimension that didn’t align with what was promised, so their anger is justified. I’m also able to understand why S4 fans support as they could connect to Akshara story of moving on from a relationship and a new beginning.

My question is why do S4 fans, despite all the wrongdoings of Armaan, are able to accept the character/at least easily forgive after every track because they like the actor playing the character, yet unable to understand that the same emotions apply to S3 fans?? Compared to the S4 ML behavior towards the FL of this season, S3 ML had behaved probably 25% towards that season FL. Yet why is it right for S4 to support the character because of the actor playing it, to the point of wanting a doppelgänger of the same actor in a new role, but not the same rules for S3???

The emotion the S3 fans have towards the character Akshara is obvious, so not going to get into it. My question is why do S3 fans, who despite Ruhi’s immoral decisions, are able to support the character because of her connection with the S3 ML, but unable to even sympathize with the character Abhira who is nothing but a standard doormat FL who forgives her abusers all the time, but isn’t an evil person and her only fault is she is pathetically naive to think she can play happy family with these characters???


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Posted: 3 months ago
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Originally posted by: ItvDrama

Disclaimer: Please ignore the post if you find it triggering, but please please do not use any derogatory words for any of the characters and especially real life actors. Person using derogatory words will be reported and mods feel free to close the thread anytime if deemed necessary…

The intention behind this post genuinely isn’t to create tensions and definitely not to instigate fights between the S4 and S3 fans, but a controversial, yet genuine ??

I’m able to understand S3 fans emotions as they feel cheated when they were promised a couple’s story and instead of working on that, the writers brought a new dimension that didn’t align with what was promised, so their anger is justified. I’m also able to understand why S4 fans support as they could connect to Akshara story of moving on from a relationship and a new beginning.

My question is why do S4 fans, despite all the wrongdoings of Armaan, are able to accept the character/at least easily forgive after every track because they like the actor playing the character, yet unable to understand that the same emotions apply to S3 fans?? Compared to the S4 ML behavior towards the FL of this season, S3 ML had behaved probably 25% towards that season FL. Yet why is it right for S4 to support the character because of the actor playing it, to the point of wanting a doppelgänger of the same actor in a new role, but not the same rules for S3???

The emotion the S3 fans have towards the character Akshara is obvious, so not going to get into it. My question is why do S3 fans, who despite Ruhi’s immoral decisions, are able to support the character because of her connection with the S3 ML, but unable to even sympathize with the character Abhira who is nothing but a standard doormat FL who forgives her abusers all the time, but isn’t an evil person and her only fault is she is pathetically naive to think she can play happy family with these characters???


As a S3 fan, I can sympathize with Abhira in this particular track becos of how awful Armaan has treated her.but only for this track. Rest of them, were mostly her own doings. And even in this track, when Ruhi was going through the so many problems becos of Armaan, she dint stand up for her anytime except maybe just before delivery. Bare minimum. Ab Uski baari ayi tho why cry! But she enabled Armaan’s toxic behavior in the name of Acha baap, kabhi bsp trauma tho kabhi childhood sautela trauma. And no, no s3 fan supported Ruhi during her immoral behavior. She was being stupid and pathetic but thank god for small mercies, she is no longer that person and moved on. Also, Abhira used same if not harsh attitude towards Ruhi when she was going through her kid’s presumed loss. Being a total judgy, superiority complex person preaching around! Armaan accommodated her during that phase, I guess he expected her to do the same now..! Both the fl and ml of this season are pathetic and selfish ppl. They are never to going to find a partner in anyone other than themselves even after 7 or 8 years of being apart..smiley29
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Posted: 3 months ago
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The bias is visible ..we like what we like and we can give hundreds of excuses for someone we like ..

Imo for a tv show or movies also for that matter , audience tune in for a certain reason..here it's the chemistry so they just let go of whatever crap is dished out ..I don't support crackpot behavior either..

Dislike for abhira was not just bec she was somebody's daughter , it was for the way she was written ..at least for Me ...similarly I won't like her only bec she is akshu and abhinavs daughter..

I never liked arman bec of third angle before and after he married abhira ..I don't like him now ..there is no single likeable quality in him ..except for a few epis that I can remember , the shivani ones , he did nothing to impress me ..

The balance between arman and abhira was never there ..I mean there was never a point where I could like both (I don't find the chemistry also) ..if one of them acted sane rhe other lost their mind & vice versa..obvio they're the leads so max damage / experimentation is done with them . Mota Mota le toh , their married life has been about ruhi , then bacha then again bacha and that's it..


Coming to ruhi, overall she had a better arc , except for that short period where she turned lusty (running after arman is enuf to dislike her ) , she did well ...comparison between ruhi & abhira should never be made ..I would support abhira if she was not a doormat ..and acc to track like it's now ..however I don't think I'll ever support arman

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Posted: 3 months ago
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Now that S4 is here,

- Abhira tried her best to save her baby. Yes she did hide her in such places but atleast it protected her from the kidnappers. Else the baby would have been tortured or even killed?

- Akshara, she did try to contact and inform Abhimanyu. But he didn’t listen but it wasn’t enough. Maybe she could have tried again once more or something after Abhir’s birth smiley44 before making Abhinav his papa ji

- Abhimanyu too should have listened to her and pick up her phone. And if he didn’t then. Atleast call her back after a few months or msg and ask if she is alright? (if he claimed he loved her)

Now Armaan here is at fault himself.

He always placed firstly Ruhi over Abhira during re marriage. Then later Vidya. He always craved for his mother’s love so tried to convince Vidya and please her. But now he met his own mother Shivani and saw her death. He dismissed all of Vidya’s love? It’s not easy for a women to love someone else child yet she trieeed. Initially she did tought of Armaan for Ruhi but it was dadi sa who insisted on Rohit. Life happened, things went on, Abhira gave birth. He not only hid that BSP was dead but mad his sister in law’s child as his own. He didn’t even think now she has to grieve the loss of 2 kids - both Daksh and BSP when truth was revealed. She was even willing to die to give him an offspring. Then now he keeps adding on her insecurities and taunt for being infertile then even keeps saying he’s not Pookie mother because she didn’t birthed her


In conclusion, Abhira, Abhimanyu, Akshara none were completely wrong or right - it was just circumstances


But this Armaan has crossed all limited for now smiley7


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Posted: 3 months ago
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Originally posted by: Shinning_AD

Now that S4 is here,

- Abhira tried her best to save her baby. Yes she did hide her in such places but atleast it protected her from the kidnappers. Else the baby would have been tortured or even killed?

- Akshara, she did try to contact and inform Abhimanyu. But he didn’t listen but it wasn’t enough. Maybe she could have tried again once more or something after Abhir’s birth smiley44 before making Abhinav his papa ji

- Abhimanyu too should have listened to her and pick up her phone. And if he didn’t then. Atleast call her back after a few months or msg and ask if she is alright? (if he claimed he loved her)

Now Armaan here is at fault himself.

He always placed firstly Ruhi over Abhira during re marriage. Then later Vidya. He always craved for his mother’s love so tried to convince Vidya and please her. But now he met his own mother Shivani and saw her death. He dismissed all of Vidya’s love? It’s not easy for a women to love someone else child yet she trieeed. Initially she did tought of Armaan for Ruhi but it was dadi sa who insisted on Rohit. Life happened, things went on, Abhira gave birth. He not only hid that BSP was dead but mad his sister in law’s child as his own. He didn’t even think now she has to grieve the loss of 2 kids - both Daksh and BSP when truth was revealed. She was even willing to die to give him an offspring. Then now he keeps adding on her insecurities and taunt for being infertile then even keeps saying he’s not Pookie mother because she didn’t birthed her


In conclusion, Abhira, Abhimanyu, Akshara none were completely wrong or right - it was just circumstances


But this Armaan has crossed all limited for now smiley7


That's why abhira shouldn't get back with armaan at any cost. She can get custody of pookie or do co-parenting with armaan. But never should forgive armaan. He has crossed all limits now. He is irredeemable. Abhira should get someone who actually loves and respects her and should move on.

I have not watched previous seasons but never liked naira's decision of faking her death and living away with kairav (despite having such a supportive maika) or akshara's decision of hiding about abhir's real identity from abhimanyu (after realizing his mistake, abhimanyu would have let abhir stay with akshara and would have shared custody).

But armaan has crossed all limits. He doesn't seem to love anyone. He just needs someone to feel "Oh, I am not alone. There's is someone who won't ever leave me no matter how I badly I treat them or someone I can claim rights on and control, so I can do whatever I want with them". First it was abhira, now it's pookie....That's it....

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Posted: 3 months ago
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No one supported ruhi lmao idk which posts you saw. Also what about calling out disgusting language by s4 fans about ruhi? Even when their actor Rohit shades garvita so many times not even one person called him out cause that was supporting their narrative of ropu hating irl ruhi off screen too.


No fandom will understand others pain that's why S3 people calling out s4 characters are fun. Idk about twitter but at least in IF majority people want acha admi for abhira so there.


I do feel for abhira but this is the man she chose to reproduce after he behaves worst way with her multiple times. How long can she get sympathy from audience after her stupid behaviours? Also her hypocrisy during daksh bsp drama is quite fresh. It's not like it's mandatory to support fl every time just because she's leading a show. Calling out dumbness need to be normalize

Posted: 3 months ago
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I am Abhinav ckt fan and i really never fully liked Ar from beginning itself.

I always wanted Abhira to move on with another guy or stay single.

Ar behaviour not justified at any cost and he crossed all limits of toxiness.

So yes don't want to Abhimaan reunited ever and i cannot forgive Ak for getting married her daughter to men like Ar

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Posted: 3 months ago
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Disliking Abhira because of her father is ridiculous, especially because the decision of the father was laid on a corporate table, unconfirmed for days. And then, the decision was made after a confirmation was received.

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Posted: 3 months ago
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If I could demand... I want Acchi Aurat or Buri aurat for Armaan and have him get lost... Couldn't care less...

No, I never rooted for AbhiMaan and ab toh I have a strong strong reason too!

I definitely want Accha Aadmi even in this generation...

Ruhi has been wiped off... Good! Dil se hated her...

Kaveri and Vidya are being whitewashed for all their pathetic behaviors from the past.. Even they should have just disappeared...

Glad Goenkas are out..!!

So, I guess that's why Abhira has some support from home as three women story...

Funny how Mangal Lakshmi copied Anupamaa... And now Rishta is copying Mangal Lakshmi with three women set to fly as a team.

Overall the show ke standards have gone down considerably... And yes, Armaan is 10x worse than Birla but that doesn't still justify what that freaky lusty doctor did!

And I can only root for Abhira if she dumps her pathetic loser husband and moves on like her mother did!!

And there is absolutely no biasedness here...

I was Abhinav and Abhir (NavIr) ke bond ka fan in gen 3... But have nothing to do with this characterless Abhir in this generation or Abhinav ki khoon wali beti...

Why do I follow the show... Offline kalesh, forum and fan wars are very entertaining...

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Posted: 3 months ago
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Originally posted by: Ambajee

As a S3 fan, I can sympathize with Abhira in this particular track becos of how awful Armaan has treated her.but only for this track. Rest of them, were mostly her own doings. And even in this track, when Ruhi was going through the so many problems becos of Armaan, she dint stand up for her anytime except maybe just before delivery. Bare minimum. Ab Uski baari ayi tho why cry! But she enabled Armaan’s toxic behavior in the name of Acha baap, kabhi bsp trauma tho kabhi childhood sautela trauma. And no, no s3 fan supported Ruhi during her immoral behavior. She was being stupid and pathetic but thank god for small mercies, she is no longer that person and moved on. Also, Abhira used same if not harsh attitude towards Ruhi when she was going through her kid’s presumed loss. Being a total judgy, superiority complex person preaching around! Armaan accommodated her during that phase, I guess he expected her to do the same now..! Both the fl and ml of this season are pathetic and selfish ppl. They are never to going to find a partner in anyone other than themselves even after 7 or 8 years of being apart..smiley29

Agree with you on the fact that whatever Armaan is doing to Abhira is her own doing. Abhira indirectly enabled Armaan by always trying to accommodate his feelings due to his emotional shortcomings. She directly enabled him by never holding him responsible for any of his actions, be it the way he treated her or the way he treated Ruhi during surrogacy.


I may have a different opinion regarding both the pregnancy tracks. During the first baby track, my perception is Abhira genuinely wanted to alleviate Ruhi’s pain by sharing Daksh with Ruhi, but from Ruhi’s viewpoint it certainly would look like rubbing salt on the wound. What was interesting in that track is Abhira who felt secure enough to share Daksh with Ruhi when she thought it was her baby, felt the need to run away with the baby when she knew the baby wasnt her’s after all. Was she wrong to do that, yes no questions asked, but I felt she reacted like any emotional person in such a situation would react, who had also just learned she had lost her child forever.


Similarly during the surrogacy track, I could understand why Ruhi got sidetracked into thinking why she and Armaan could be back again. She was recently widowed, emotionally vulnerable, going ahead with a pregnancy plan for someone with the support of her husband, who she lost and with a baby of her own. Given the emotional support she got from Armaan while she was already in an emotional/hormonal/psychological state, I couldn’t fault her for going off-track for a bit, especially with such an useless family around. Should Abhira have stopped Armaan for his crazy acts, yes, but here is a woman who convinced her husband second time for a pregnancy that he wasn’t willing to go forward with in the first place, who had also lost 2 people closest to him, with probably the hopes that he would become normal once he had his own bloodline. Is that an excuse for letting him behave the way he did, no, but what to expect from a person who herself is repeatedly made to feel worthless due to her inability to have a child…


Lastly, based on all the tracks so far, my understanding is writers have only emphasized how Armaan and Abhira are 2 characters who might sound like an ideal couple on paper, but when it comes to reality definitely not so much.


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Posted by: AKHIAWAL

3 months ago

If abhira was genuine....

I see abhira Fandom defending her saying "woh Kiara aur charu ki bhalai ke liye bol rahi hain. Woh apne bhai ko defend nehi kar rahi" Toh yeh...

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