Originally posted by: Khanmiss
I think you are somewhere right. But abhimanyu acc to me was always a red flag . He was a good boyfriend but the day they married he was a red flag acc to me . Bcz whenever things went against him he would become aggressive. But I definitely belive that the writer did not do justice to him. But abhira is a pure character acc to me. This is purely my opinion. Abhimanyu and abhira have major differences. Abhira has not troubled anyone she only suffered due to Akshara. And Akshay was wrong in not informing abhimanyu about his son. Not waiting for police during Neil's death. But abhimanyu was also not correct in divorcing his wife when she miscarried. So both of them were wrong. But Akshay moving on in life was not wrong I feel. Yes definitely she should have not played with abhimanyu feelings for his son . She should have informed him.
Abhira is completely different from all these narratives she has never troubled anyone I feel.
She suffered due to ruhi, dadisa, vidya . And she faced everything because she was strong willed. But now they turned her into a doormat. She deserved love, care. Tracks which highlighted her like they had show for akshu , naira.
But here only ruhi, armaan and their problems were given importance . Vidya and dadisa were more important than abhira.
This is purely my opinion
I believe it depends on how you see the show. For me abhimanyu was never a red flag character. Has he ever hit someone except gundey. Has he ever let his mother get abused from his father. He always protected those who was with him.yes he may not know the right way of protecting people as he always been aggressive since childhood as that's the only communication which his father understood.
But yes few people only noticed his anger issues but i noticed below things which made me know he was never a red flag.
1. He protected all ladies in his house irrespective how they treated him.
2. Even when akshara ran away and stayed with a new man he never doubted her.
3. He took care of her family when she hardly was interested in them.
4. He never questioned akshara or humiliated for her infertility issues.
5. He even supported akshara's career when his career was on stake.
6. He also wanted to take leave from hospital just to take care of akshara and his babies.
People who have seen the show completely can see all these small small things which makes him much better human being compared to all the ITV mls.
And acc me abhimanyu was not wrong in divorcing ak as when a woman is not realizing her mistake which causes death in the family and does not realize that people are dead and she should give some time to mourn before explaining herself and triggering them constantly needs a reality check. As when his love is bringing so much pain to his family he chose happiness of his family over his happiness.
On the other hand abhira also has similar anger issues like she even slapped ruhi just because she wrote mr and mrs sharma. Was it a matter that deserved physical abuse. She even was rude to pratiksha ruhi in the beginning where she used to blame her for something which she had not done. Also used to taunt ruhi on career saying tum ghar ghar khelne main hi interested hogi something like that and disrespected dadisa too. And she had done so many blunders too.
She only changed once she got to know ruhi is her sister untill that i felt she has a ego issue.
But i will agree she is much better person than her mom as she has empathy for others. She is not inhumane like her mother.
But i still see her life as a tragic character based on what tracks they are running since the beginning. The narrative is set that abhira gets pain at the end of each track.
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