THARLA TAR MAG! - Thread 7 - Page 28

Originally posted by: Aarohi_2005

Priya and Raviraj has already told to family that Priya has trauma, so atta wapass hech bolel ka?

most likely yes. she will stick to it.

the interesting to watch could be how mahipat and sakshi would react and treat her

the only change i think would be kalpana turning against priya, as actress playing Asmita is coming back from maternity leave. She has mentioned on social media regarding coming back soon.

@aarohi it's a show and a way to say a story of two love birds who were seperated in childhood

Grew up in ignorance to how each other look like in different circumstances.

Had mindset related to love and marriage and relations very very opposite to each other but as they were destined to meet and marry...

So they met and marry..

Each couple has a story, isn't it...

What you vented out is just zar tar che ghoshti, that writer could have written or told... May be in different serial writers can take your track too.. 👍... You have all the qualities of becoming a writer...

But TTM is story of SAJUN or Sayali journey to meet her parents..

In orphanage when people come to adopt a child that couple has different reasons for adoption, a family which is destined to be Guardian of a child left by circumstances or intentionally by unwed mothers... Has to adapt to new family and get used to new relations.. Zar asa jhala nasta tasa jhala nasta... Asa jhala pahije hota are just wishful wishes..

Very rarely it happens that those children meet their biological parents... So destiny plays a major role in everyone's life..

Moreover, sometimes old parents are left by children in old age homes, if you go there and hear to their stories, you'll find that each is having a different perception to a situation...

Lastly, my Bestie always say i will translate in English..

A person often meets his destiny on the road he took to avoid it....

So Sayali Arjun met as they were destined to met... It's their story..

Sdars, kdars, villans will get what they deserve...

Now the writer has to decide when and how and how much streching he/she wants to do..... I agree CM reveal track was literally boring..

Initially i was also too unhappy about Arjun character but my Bestie highlighted the positive points of his character and her love for him is just growing leap and bounds so i am just praying they keep him in positive shade only..

I told her that even Chaitanya is competent enough ( before Sakshi trap) but her firm lakshman lakshman asto Ram banu shakt nahi.. And he cannot take place of Arjun.. 🙄😵‍💫

Lastly, my Bestie always say i will translate in English..

A person often meets his destiny on the road he took to avoid it....

This she says for me, i was destined to become her DIL and she my Bestie...

In our lives too, we sometimes discuss zar asa jhala asta tar...... 🤣🤣🤣

And we laugh away, as whatever be the situation you have only two ways to look at it positive with hope or negative with either selfishness or regret...

We should choose positivity...

If you are justifying everything by saying that it was a destiny. Then Madhu Bhau spending a year in jail was also a destiny, that's why Priya and Sakshi trapping him is justified as it was destiny. So Arjun's mistakes can't be justified just by saying that it was a destiny. Then in that case you are justifying Nandini's mistake of not giving divorce , and letting Cheeva and Kavya get happily married, as what happened is destiny.

What I can see is more than love story writer is hell bent on writing a sasur wass story, where a DIL gets abused by her in laws . Their have been good love stories like Ekya Lagna Chi Dusri Gostha, which had a good love story , it was neither a hate love story nor it was about any character hating anyone , or ml /fl getting abused by in laws. They could have made TTM like Majhi Tujhi Reshm Gath, tyat villains hote, but leads were not getting hated, insulted and abused. Karasthana tya MTRG madhe pan hoti but leads cha sarkha sarkha insult aani abuse. Sometimes I think destiny is not that Arjun got married to Sayali, destiny is Sayali getting hatred for no reason from Killedars and Subedars.

You becoming DIL of your bestie can be said as destiny, but have you faced any abuse from your in laws? . If innocent DIL face abuse by her in laws, would you call it destiny or bad luck? Of course that DIL is in wrong place by bad luck. Wrong deeds can't be justified by saying that it was a destiny.

You may think I'm being little rude. But I'm not being rude. I'm just saying that everything can't be seen from love story angle. I have seen people hyping toxic couple like Abhi Pragya from Kumkum Bhagya why just because according to shows concept Abhi Pragya getting married was a destiny, they totally ignore that Abhi is a toxic character. I started liking Arjun's character because he was neither a toxic character nor a weak character. During contract marriage Arjun was also at fault but it was less, but after CM reveal his fault was not small.

Originally posted by: Aarohi_2005

If you are justifying everything by saying that it was a destiny. Then Madhu Bhau spending a year in jail was also a destiny, that's why Priya and Sakshi trapping him is justified as it was destiny. So Arjun's mistakes can't be justified just by saying that it was a destiny. What I can see is more than love story writer is hell bent on writing a sasur wass story, where a DIL gets abused by her in laws . Their have been good love stories like Ekya Lagna Chi Dusri Gostha, which had a good love story , it was neither a hate love story nor it was about any character hating anyone. They could have made TTM like Majhi Tujhi Reshm Gath, tyat villains hote, but leads were not getting hated, insulted and abused. Karasthana tyat MTRG madhe pan hoti but leads cha sarkha sarkha insult aani abuse. Sometimes I think destiny is not that Arjun got married to Sayali, destiny is Sayali getting hatred for no reason from Killedars and Subedars.

In a way you can see situation of MB as how he reacted when he was falsely accused faced jail time and on the other hand see Sakshi how she reacted when she faced Jail for her own foes.

MB is not bitter but Sakshi is...

That's how people are when facing a difficult time their reaction shows how that situation will turn up to..

Priya Asmita and others tried so hard to trouble Sajun but failed miserably...

Destiny puts good and bad situations in front of you,your choices and how you face it makes the person you are...

That's what i am saying...

I am not justifying Arjun or any other character of TTM..

I have literally not seen much of the ITV, neither do i watch hindi or other languages pictures...

In your words i am a boring person as i like to read books if science, technology and literature of hindi and English.. I am learning to read and understand Marathi language...

Honestly speaking, marathi language and its shabdhrachna is superb.. The meaning changes the way you speak it with expression.

One more thing, I love Sayali character because when faced with tough situations she was selfless... But positive that situation will turn in to good..

And hate Priya because when in tough situation she was selfish and greedy, have pretentious attitude not once thinking that life at stake has been her guardian from childhood.( As shown by cvs.. )

After stealing Sayali identity she literally got everything Killedar name, heir to his property. That means power, property and rich upperclass lifestyle... .. But her nature and greed is endless and for greed she sold her soul.. Isn't it..

Arjun i like because though he proposed CM his intentions were never to take advantage of Sayali situation as his wife, he even tried to find her parents and he did care for her as a friend first...in the beginning he was positive that after one year period ends he will settle her down... But he was the first one to realize that he is in love with her and after this realization he was not forcing himself on her...

Marriages whether love or arranged last for life time only with understanding and growing with each other in good and bad times which TTM has shown.....

Nevertheless you have your pov and me and my Bestie have our pov to look at the same situation.. Isn't it.. 😄👍

Originally posted by: Aarohi_2005

If you are justifying everything by saying that it was a destiny. Then Madhu Bhau spending a year in jail was also a destiny, that's why Priya and Sakshi trapping him is justified as it was destiny. So Arjun's mistakes can't be justified just by saying that it was a destiny. Then in that case you are justifying Nandini's mistake of not giving divorce , and letting Cheeva and Kavya get happily married, as what happened is destiny.

What I can see is more than love story writer is hell bent on writing a sasur wass story, where a DIL gets abused by her in laws . Their have been good love stories like Ekya Lagna Chi Dusri Gostha, which had a good love story , it was neither a hate love story nor it was about any character hating anyone , or ml /fl getting abused by in laws. They could have made TTM like Majhi Tujhi Reshm Gath, tyat villains hote, but leads were not getting hated, insulted and abused. Karasthana tya MTRG madhe pan hoti but leads cha sarkha sarkha insult aani abuse. Sometimes I think destiny is not that Arjun got married to Sayali, destiny is Sayali getting hatred for no reason from Killedars and Subedars.

You becoming DIL of your bestie can be said as destiny, but have you faced any abuse from your in laws? . If innocent DIL face abuse by her in laws, would you call it destiny or bad luck? Of course that DIL is in wrong place by bad luck. Wrong deeds can't be justified by saying that it was a destiny.

You may think I'm being little rude. But I'm not being rude. I'm just saying that everything can't be seen from love story angle. I have seen people hyping toxic couple like Abhi Pragya from Kumkum Bhagya why just because according to shows concept Abhi Pragya getting married was a destiny, they totally ignore that Abhi is a toxic character. I started liking Arjun's character because he was neither a toxic character nor a weak character. During contract marriage Arjun was also at fault but it was less, but after CM reveal his fault was not small.

@bold, the choice of that DIL who faces abuse should be to leave that place with immediate effect and live independently if her parents are not supporting but get herself out of madness..

Will be my suggestion definitely..

Destiny put forth a situation, and now it's her choice to make a move and choice for the betterment of everyone but foremost is her mental peace...

And no, i don't think you are rude....

You have just a different perception of looking in to the difficult situation.....

And yeah i too have faced many many ups and down in life as well as in my in laws house too... But just remember one thing as a woman keep your self respect at top most priority and then be humble to the elders of the house....

Being humble and stooping below the level of diginity is two different things...

Who is abhi pragya..?

Someone you know or some characters of the show..

And kumkum, i heard of this serial long time back but that story was different though i don't remember it now

Originally posted by: RN555

In a way you can see situation of MB as how he reacted when he was falsely accused faced jail time and on the other hand see Sakshi how she reacted when she faced Jail for her own foes.

MB is not bitter but Sakshi is...

That's how people are when facing a difficult time their reaction shows how that situation will turn up to..

Priya Asmita and others tried so hard to trouble Sajun but failed miserably...

Destiny puts good and bad situations in front of you,your choices and how you face it makes the person you are...

That's what i am saying...

I am not justifying Arjun or any other character of TTM..

I have literally not seen much of the ITV, neither do i watch hindi or other languages pictures...

In your words i am a boring person as i like to read books if science, technology and literature of hindi and English.. I am learning to read and understand Marathi language...

Honestly speaking, marathi language and its shabdhrachna is superb.. The meaning changes the way you speak it with expression.

More than Sajun staying together, I think destiny is Sayali facing abuse from her in laws in that Mad house.

I won't call you a boring person, because I have huge respect for those people who keeps gaining knowledge .

I'm just saying that we should not see everything from love story and marriage angle. Many women bear abuse either from husbands or in laws just because they think that marriage is destiny and they should accept it.

Well I don't watch hindi and star pravaah serials because maximum of them are filled with toxic hate love story, where ML is also a toxic character.

Originally posted by: Aarohi_2005

More than Sajun staying together, I think destiny is Sayali facing abuse from her in laws in that Mad house.

I won't call you a boring person, because I have huge respect for those people who keeps gaining knowledge .

I'm just saying that we should not see everything from love story and marriage angle. Many women bear abuse either from husbands or in laws just because they think that marriage is destiny and they should accept it.

Well I don't watch hindi and star pravaah serials because maximum of them are filled with toxic hate love story, where ML is also a toxic character.

@bold here i agree with you 💯 percent. 👍😄

Started Watching TTM for my Bestie...

But now a days loving the way they use proverbs... and different variety of use of marathi language..

That new serial also has this konkani accent but words are too difficult for me to understand...

And my Bestie is not getting involved in the story as of now...