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Originally posted by: ThaneOfElsinore

Random question: What do you think would be the title of a book based on your life till date?

I was thinking about this since we were studying the thematic meanings behind the titles of some classical works. Your title could be humorous, witty or deep and meaningful. I'll go first. Mine would be: Intentionally Blank. 🤷‍♀️😂

"Born to be, parasite "or " Blame it on"... If a serious title then it is " "Behind the curtains of Oblivion "........" Wounds that never bleed "....But I like the first one the " best"....I want to be happy

Aree Miesty ji you aren't even 28 toh kya 25 pls ab ye mat bolna....I know girls se age ya phir kuch aur nhi puchte par thik hai na....

Originally posted by: Shirsha

A Tale of an Ordinary Woman

That's actually quite ordinary, dearest woman.

Originally posted by: ThaneOfElsinore

Well, everyone has their own tastes and rightfully so. I understand some people like toxicity and I don't have a problem with that. If they can handle it, good for them. I just stated my personal liking and preference for gentlemanly people. I can't stand overly aggressive people, be it any gender. I like to be calm, composed and proper. So when I seek friends (or might ever seek love), I subconsciously look their qualities of patience and composure as I admire that. Not that all my friends are like this, I have got quirky, energetic and chirpy friends too. But they're not the cinematic toxic at all. When I meet such overly talkative and toxic energetic people, I'm like, "Itni kya jaldi hai? Rajdhani Express pakadni hai kya?"

A few people I have interacted with in my academic settings have also called me a bit prudish, although I think that's exaggerated. I can actually listen to some one for hours if they are both respectful and witty. I like talking to boys like Neil if they have these qualities.

I personally define passion as something to be expressed in a different manner than just an adrenaline rush. I myself am passionate about my higher studies and my career right now and I love being around people who are passionate about theirs. But I'm not always in a rush to show my passion to the world. The right people who know how to judge creatures like me, automatically get to understand, see and appreciate my love for things. I also identify people who have different passions like myself quite easily. That's why I liked Teju's Neil. Because I resonated with his calm nature.

I think like this maybe because I've had experiences where I got the biggest plot twists in my life in the most mundane of the things and events. Hence proved, my love for simple humans with normal tendencies :)

I appreciate your pov, by toxic I don't mean aggressive or physically violent. It's more about even me being emotionally unavailable for the other person and maybe because I myself am not able to provide that kind of emotional stability to the other person I tend to get attracted to people like me.

Also imo there are very less people like Neil. And most of us are kinda toxic in one or the other way to each other. So for me Neil was more of an uthopian idea of a man I would want more than what realistically is present around me

Originally posted by: shwetha85

Rising like a Phoenix will be my title. Nice thought Pavitra!!

Thank you, Shwetha! The Chat thread became alive because of this question.

And your title is wonderful!

Originally posted by: shwetha85

I have a husband almost like Neil and I am happily married for 10 years now. I cannot stand toxicity in my life, too much already goes on in professional life atleast ghar pe toh positivity rahe!!!

Exactly. Mujhe shanti chahiye hoti hai. Main nahi bhaag sakti express trains ke peeche. I am too lazy that ways.

Originally posted by: Riddhi2Saini006

I appreciate your pov, by toxic I don't mean aggressive or physically violent. It's more about even me being emotionally unavailable for the other person and maybe because I myself am not able to provide that kind of emotional stability to the other person I tend to get attracted to people like me.

Also imo there are very less people like Neil. And most of us are kinda toxic in one or the other way to each other. So for me Neil was more of an uthopian idea of a man I would want more than what realistically is present around me

Yes, such guys are rare and I am glad that one of them fell in my life. Shant aur romantic all that I needed I found 😀

Originally posted by: Riddhi2Saini006

I appreciate your pov, by toxic I don't mean aggressive or physically violent. It's more about even me being emotionally unavailable for the other person and maybe because I myself am not able to provide that kind of emotional stability to the other person I tend to get attracted to people like me.

Also imo there are very less people like Neil. And most of us are kinda toxic in one or the other way to each other. So for me Neil was more of an uthopian idea of a man I would want more than what realistically is present around me

Hmm. That's a perspective. For me, I have mostly been around boys like Neil in my life settings, in school, at home and even in the University so probably it's just a matter of luck and chance of what kind of people you have met and interacted. Neil, however, wasn't a utopia honestly because he had flaws and faults. Also, one's personality also matters. I'm not energetic enough to do the pushing and pulling hassle all the time as I believe in being firm but not overly strong and stubborn. I'd rather be adjusting than be broken in a storm. Broken glass can't be put together.

I don't think good men are a utopia or an unrealistic figment of imagination since I have met simple people with human flaws like Neil but that's just my perception speaking.

Originally posted by: Ashane25

It was about humari history....but bta deta hun types lo padh lo...

And 🙏 Pavitra...main ji nhi lagaunga pls....

@Bold: When I posted on this forum for the first time, you were the one who called me Pavitra ji