YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread #116 - Page 21

Originally posted by: Krinya

From chandigarh..nothing much , yest there was a blackout at 9.30 & air raid sirens were on for abt 20 mins ..the grid was restored at 12 , they said it was precautionary ..however , news and social media were circulating all sorts of false info ..

Glad to know everyone is safe!!!

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Originally posted by: BUSH146

Okiee , I was so confused at first 😭😂
Like, what is even going on? Why were Aps and Bhu writing long essays about it wht?

Honestly I had zero clue… and luckily wht say, I had a rare free day today. So wht I binged all those bakwaas episodes (ys, I suffered), deep dived an entire thread on X after lon time, and caught up wit evrything

Aps, I need a big round of applause for myself please 👏👏👏 because the dedication it took to go through all that just to understand what’s even going on?

Anyway after watching everything Honestly? what is wit that MERI BETI outragge.... There was ntnggg wrong with Armaan saying meri beti in that moment. It wasn’t possessiveness c''mon ... It was raw, unfiltered emotion. And I genuinely don’t get why people are so pressed about it.People on X are acting like he snatched away Abhira’s motherhood in one line, like c'mon

Let’s br here. This man was shaken to his core.He genuinely thought he might lose his child again.And that kind of fear? That isn’t small..... Remember the BSP track, they lost the baby ... Abhira was unconscious... She didn’t see what Armaan saw.... Didn’t hold what he held. I am not saying her pain is lesser no NEVER but , He carried that grief alone, He performed the last rites alone... That kind of trauma doesn’t just go away. It changes you, it shakes you to the core...

I work in a hospital , even professionally, I know how devastating it is to handle a stillborn. So imagine being that father....Now in this moment....
He’s holding his living, breathing, grumpy, pouting his part of life in his hands for the first time. Obvio he’s overwhelmed. Of course the words come out the way they do... why to overdo such small thing

And yet wht X janta calling him “baby-obsessed” and asking “why didn’t he just carry the child himself?”
Plzzz. This man has always wanted a family. Always dreamed of that life. But he buried that dream when he learned about Abhira’s health...Because for him — Abhira > Everything....He never pressured her. Never made her feel like less..

Now yes .... was that “Thanks to Ruhi, tum maa ban jaogi” line tone-deaf?Absolutely. I flinched too..It was unnecessary. But people say mahaaa stupid things when they’re hurting...

Now let’s talk about Abhira.
Peoples are also targeting her as like why she is sad at the line meri beti... how much insecure she is
Her feelings are Also 100% valid... She’s not insecure.. She’s human.
She didn’t want the baby for herself — she wanted it for them. Becoz she saw how much Armaan deserved to be a dad. She saw the joy in his eyes and wanted to give him that happiness. That family...
So yeah, after everything they’ve been through…
When she hears meri beti in that one emotional moment, of course it will stings. it's to be obvious, there's a flicker of, “Wait… wasn’t this our journey TOGETHER?”
That isn’t pettiness. It’s human. It’s that split-second ache....

Bt here’s why I can’t stay mad at Armaan...
Because he’s never been someone who sidelines Abhira.. not intentionally...Even when he messes up, he always comes back to her. and we have heartbeat scenes as a fresh cooked example ready in bag!!

That scenes i get to skipped it... But i knew he will do smthng and then came the next scene the surprise he planned for Abhira..That is wht Armaan isthis man sees her...
And I really believe that judging his/her whole character over one or two scenes? That’s just not fair.

And instead of celebrating people are stuck debating who’s more “right” or “wrong.”
Hello? Abhiman is the first couple in Rishta verse who are together during there childbirth...And Armaan is the first father who got to witness and hold his child at birth.

That’s HUGE.

So yeah!! even though I was so against the baby track at first, if this is what they’ve given us, then we can’t pick it apart like enemies.

WELCOME BABY GIRL TO ABHIMAAN'S WORLD

10000% Agreed ! Loved EVERYTHING you said and having gone through the loss first child and both means my husband had similar feelings/emotions as ABHIMAAN I totally empathize with both! It’s understood that even if I said my daughter it really meant ours and not said to make him feel bad or left out!

People sometimes make mountains out of molehills!

!

Originally posted by: BUSH146

Okiee , I was so confused at first 😭😂
Like, what is even going on? Why were Aps and Bhu writing long essays about it wht?

Honestly I had zero clue… and luckily wht say, I had a rare free day today. So wht I binged all those bakwaas episodes (ys, I suffered), deep dived an entire thread on X after lon time, and caught up wit evrything

Aps, I need a big round of applause for myself please 👏👏👏 because the dedication it took to go through all that just to understand what’s even going on?

Anyway after watching everything Honestly? what is wit that MERI BETI outragge.... There was ntnggg wrong with Armaan saying meri beti in that moment. It wasn’t possessiveness c''mon ... It was raw, unfiltered emotion. And I genuinely don’t get why people are so pressed about it.People on X are acting like he snatched away Abhira’s motherhood in one line, like c'mon

Let’s br here. This man was shaken to his core.He genuinely thought he might lose his child again.And that kind of fear? That isn’t small..... Remember the BSP track, they lost the baby ... Abhira was unconscious... She didn’t see what Armaan saw.... Didn’t hold what he held. I am not saying her pain is lesser no NEVER but , He carried that grief alone, He performed the last rites alone... That kind of trauma doesn’t just go away. It changes you, it shakes you to the core...

I work in a hospital , even professionally, I know how devastating it is to handle a stillborn. So imagine being that father....Now in this moment....
He’s holding his living, breathing, grumpy, pouting his part of life in his hands for the first time. Obvio he’s overwhelmed. Of course the words come out the way they do... why to overdo such small thing

And yet wht X janta calling him “baby-obsessed” and asking “why didn’t he just carry the child himself?”
Plzzz. This man has always wanted a family. Always dreamed of that life. But he buried that dream when he learned about Abhira’s health...Because for him — Abhira > Everything....He never pressured her. Never made her feel like less..

Now yes .... was that “Thanks to Ruhi, tum maa ban jaogi” line tone-deaf?Absolutely. I flinched too..It was unnecessary. But people say mahaaa stupid things when they’re hurting...

Now let’s talk about Abhira.
Peoples are also targeting her as like why she is sad at the line meri beti... how much insecure she is
Her feelings are Also 100% valid... She’s not insecure.. She’s human.
She didn’t want the baby for herself — she wanted it for them. Becoz she saw how much Armaan deserved to be a dad. She saw the joy in his eyes and wanted to give him that happiness. That family...
So yeah, after everything they’ve been through…
When she hears meri beti in that one emotional moment, of course it will stings. it's to be obvious, there's a flicker of, “Wait… wasn’t this our journey TOGETHER?”
That isn’t pettiness. It’s human. It’s that split-second ache....

Bt here’s why I can’t stay mad at Armaan...
Because he’s never been someone who sidelines Abhira.. not intentionally...Even when he messes up, he always comes back to her. and we have heartbeat scenes as a fresh cooked example ready in bag!!

That scenes i get to skipped it... But i knew he will do smthng and then came the next scene the surprise he planned for Abhira..That is wht Armaan isthis man sees her...
And I really believe that judging his/her whole character over one or two scenes? That’s just not fair.

And instead of celebrating people are stuck debating who’s more “right” or “wrong.”
Hello? Abhiman is the first couple in Rishta verse who are together during there childbirth...And Armaan is the first father who got to witness and hold his child at birth.

That’s HUGE.

So yeah!! even though I was so against the baby track at first, if this is what they’ve given us, then we can’t pick it apart like enemies.

WELCOME BABY GIRL TO ABHIMAAN'S WORLD

Ek toh madam you binged watched surrogacy episodes - Kudos to you yaar, mujhse na ho pata

Baaki toh main bahut bada para toh likhne nahi wali, but I will say one thing - judging either parent for being "too attached" to their child is downright stupid. Also judging partners and keeping tab on who hurt one partner more than the other, when it doesn't affect that said partner itself, is also extremely presumptuous. Baaki toh everyone else are adults, toh main isse zyada aur kuch nahi bolungi. But yeah reading such a "lamba" paragraph from you after sooooo long feels sooooo good.

Being someone whose brother is fighting at the front line right now, I request everyone to please pray for him as well as for the others defending our country right now. 🙏

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

Being someone whose brother is fighting at the front line right now, I request everyone to please pray for him as well as for the others defending our country right now. 🙏

Prayers with our Bravehearts & people across the loc facing max brunt as of now 🙏 I hope everyone is safe and God gives strength to our armed forces . We are safe and sound all thanks to them 🙏

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

Being someone whose brother is fighting at the front line right now, I request everyone to please pray for him as well as for the others defending our country right now. 🙏

Please tell your family that he and you guys are in our prayers and wishes. We all understand that what he is doing is an immense sacrifice that allows us to be here today sending you this message with a shant mind. Thank you from us and I hope that the situation gets better and you get to meet your beautiful brother, gale and hearty, very soon.

Originally posted by: BUSH146

Okiee , I was so confused at first 😭😂
Like, what is even going on? Why were Aps and Bhu writing long essays about it wht?

Honestly I had zero clue… and luckily wht say, I had a rare free day today. So wht I binged all those bakwaas episodes (ys, I suffered), deep dived an entire thread on X after lon time, and caught up wit evrything

Aps, I need a big round of applause for myself please 👏👏👏 because the dedication it took to go through all that just to understand what’s even going on?

Anyway after watching everything Honestly? what is wit that MERI BETI outragge.... There was ntnggg wrong with Armaan saying meri beti in that moment. It wasn’t possessiveness c''mon ... It was raw, unfiltered emotion. And I genuinely don’t get why people are so pressed about it.People on X are acting like he snatched away Abhira’s motherhood in one line, like c'mon

Let’s br here. This man was shaken to his core.He genuinely thought he might lose his child again.And that kind of fear? That isn’t small..... Remember the BSP track, they lost the baby ... Abhira was unconscious... She didn’t see what Armaan saw.... Didn’t hold what he held. I am not saying her pain is lesser no NEVER but , He carried that grief alone, He performed the last rites alone... That kind of trauma doesn’t just go away. It changes you, it shakes you to the core...

I work in a hospital , even professionally, I know how devastating it is to handle a stillborn. So imagine being that father....Now in this moment....
He’s holding his living, breathing, grumpy, pouting his part of life in his hands for the first time. Obvio he’s overwhelmed. Of course the words come out the way they do... why to overdo such small thing

And yet wht X janta calling him “baby-obsessed” and asking “why didn’t he just carry the child himself?”
Plzzz. This man has always wanted a family. Always dreamed of that life. But he buried that dream when he learned about Abhira’s health...Because for him — Abhira > Everything....He never pressured her. Never made her feel like less..

Now yes .... was that “Thanks to Ruhi, tum maa ban jaogi” line tone-deaf?Absolutely. I flinched too..It was unnecessary. But people say mahaaa stupid things when they’re hurting...

Now let’s talk about Abhira.
Peoples are also targeting her as like why she is sad at the line meri beti... how much insecure she is
Her feelings are Also 100% valid... She’s not insecure.. She’s human.
She didn’t want the baby for herself — she wanted it for them. Becoz she saw how much Armaan deserved to be a dad. She saw the joy in his eyes and wanted to give him that happiness. That family...
So yeah, after everything they’ve been through…
When she hears meri beti in that one emotional moment, of course it will stings. it's to be obvious, there's a flicker of, “Wait… wasn’t this our journey TOGETHER?”
That isn’t pettiness. It’s human. It’s that split-second ache....

Bt here’s why I can’t stay mad at Armaan...
Because he’s never been someone who sidelines Abhira.. not intentionally...Even when he messes up, he always comes back to her. and we have heartbeat scenes as a fresh cooked example ready in bag!!

That scenes i get to skipped it... But i knew he will do smthng and then came the next scene the surprise he planned for Abhira..That is wht Armaan isthis man sees her...
And I really believe that judging his/her whole character over one or two scenes? That’s just not fair.

And instead of celebrating people are stuck debating who’s more “right” or “wrong.”
Hello? Abhiman is the first couple in Rishta verse who are together during there childbirth...And Armaan is the first father who got to witness and hold his child at birth.

That’s HUGE.

So yeah!! even though I was so against the baby track at first, if this is what they’ve given us, then we can’t pick it apart like enemies.

WELCOME BABY GIRL TO ABHIMAAN'S WORLD

You've explained both Armaan and Abhira's POVs perfectly.

Now, this short review might pale in comparison to your long essay (which was good to read after so long btw), but you nailed it, so enough said. 💯😛

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

Being someone whose brother is fighting at the front line right now, I request everyone to please pray for him as well as for the others defending our country right now. 🙏

Your brother, You, Your family are so strong. So brave. We owe everything to you guys.

Praying for him, you, your family ,all the other soldiers and their families.

Praying for him and your family as well as all those brave soldiers on the frontlines and their families! God keep them safe and hope this resolves soon so they can return to their beloved families’ they are the TRUE HEROES !!!! ❤️❤️❤️

🙏🙏🙏