YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread #115 - Page 107

Originally posted by: Naysayer

there is a difference ..Armaan is the victim in both cases…Abhira is not …so Armaan was talking to his abuser..and sad as it is, victims share weird relations with their abusers.. while Abhira was taking to the woman who victimised her husband

Rest I absolutely despise Armaan for having any kind of relationship with Vidya or Kaveri …

Anyways, both of them are behaving stupid. That's a fact. 🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: Naysayer

Abhira sharing her concerns about her husband with the woman who alienated him from his birth mother and dumped him in an orphanage ..and then subjected him to trauma and manipulation all his life

Armaan happily danced during same woman's birthday party, took first piece of cake from her, who alienated him from his birth mother and dumped him in an orphanage ..and then subjected him to trauma and manipulations all his life

Originally posted by: Sajini235

Well, no offense. But the one who is abused has no problem, why should his wife treat them differently? 🤷‍♀️

Anyways, both of them are behaving stupid. That's a fact. 🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

Armaan happily danced during same woman's birthday party, took first piece of cake from her, who alienated him from his birth mother and dumped him in an orphanage ..and then subjected him to trauma and manipulations all his life

A victim and an unconnected party to the crime are to be judged the same way in terms of their responses ? …Trauma works in strange ways and survivors have their own challenges including their inability to completely emerge from toxic relationships ..let us not trivialise their trauma…!

Originally posted by: Naysayer

No offence ..but if a victim’s state of mind and reactions should be judged the same way you would judge a neutral third party ..and she is not even a third party but his wife ..then I have nothing to add 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Sajini235

Please, read my post. While you were typing your opinion, it was being edited due to bad internet connection. Rest, we all have our own opinions. Let's end this discussion here. Have a nice day...

Anyway I have nothing more to say

You have a good day too !

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

Armaan happily danced during same woman's birthday party, took first piece of cake from her, who alienated him from his birth mother and dumped him in an orphanage ..and then subjected him to trauma and manipulations all his life

Both Armaan and Abhira should have stayed away from Kaveri. Instead they are happy dancing to her tunes. Shivani might be rolling in her grave with regret of loving a man like Madhav Poddar, producing an offspring like Armaan and caring for a bahu like Abhira. What a bunch of clowns.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

Armaan happily danced during same woman's birthday party, took first piece of cake from her, who alienated him from his birth mother and dumped him in an orphanage ..and then subjected him to trauma and manipulations all his life

I disagree on the part that Armaan happily danced or celebrated Kaveri's birthday because he was clearly aloof all through the party and immediately stepped away from dance when she came in middle. He had first piece of cake only after Abhira nudging him and not willingly. He told Abhira clearly that he wasn't interested in celebrating Kaveri's birthday the previous night and was also not very happy with her helping Vidya.

Having said all this, I would say he should have been more persistent in his no and should have stayed away. He was shown to be behaving very indifferently with Kaveri right from when they came back to Poddar House.

Originally posted by: chabalas

I disagree on the part that Armaan happily danced or celebrated Kaveri's birthday because he was clearly aloof all through the party and immediately stepped away from dance when she came in middle. He had first piece of cake only after Abhira nudging him and not willingly. He told Abhira clearly that he wasn't interested in celebrating Kaveri's birthday the previous night and was also not very happy with her helping Vidya.

Having said all this, I would say he should have been more persistent in his no and should have stayed away. He was shown to be behaving very indifferently with Kaveri right from when they came back to Poddar House.

Originally posted by: Sajini235

Same as armaan shared his concerns of abhira not being a fit to be a mother with the woman who lied to him all his life, hide that his birth mother is alive, destroyed his childhood with conditional,fake love, just to save her own marriage .

Both armaan and abhira are behaving stupid, dumb and insane. They both need therapy before becoming parents.

Armaan needs to be called out for his talk with Vidya but also Armaan dint share his concerns willingly to Vidya, it was slip of tongue from his side and it was clearly shown in the episode. After that as well he defended Abhira saying she dint do it purposely. He intentionally dint go to Vidya to discuss about Abhira's ability to be a mother.

Having said that, I absolutely dislike his any interaction with Vidya and I wish he stayed away from her like he does with Kaveri.