Originally posted by: Scarlett24
So, wow. If Armaan is over protective toward Abhira , it is fine. If Armaan does thod phod for Abhira, it is fine. The moment he does for someone else, he is a red forest and van raj. So when Armaan reprimanded Ruhi for drinking coffee or wearing heels, it was ok because Abhira and Armaan were on the same page then. Comparing this license kaand and saying being overbearing, overprotective father is topping it says something. There are so many annoying patients who use Internet theory with doctors without having any trauma, he did it during BSPs time but it was endearing then because it was for Abhira. Nice. Too many posts reflecting above sentiments, so I am not quoting or tagging anyone
During BSP time he was not trying to control Abhira or saying shit like "Tum maa toh ban jaogi thanks to Ruhi paar aachi Maa ban paaogi ya nahi iski koi guarantee nahi haa"
Basically throwing all her insecurities in her face.
During BSP he was not being extremely mean to Abhira or the doctor
If you can see the difference reprimanding Ruhi about something that doctor herself has recommended and being rude to gynaecologist based on internet facts. Then I have nothing to say.
There is difference between overbearing, overprotective father and being downright insensitive to not only your wife, but also SIL.
Even Abhira in her overbearing phase was not never insensitive to Armaan or his fears or his insecurities. She never tried to control Ruhi
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